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Kevin Kearns with Burn with Kearns

October 24, 2022 by angishields

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Kevin-Kearns-headshotCoach Kevin Kearns has been in the fitness and martial arts world for 45 years now. As the self proclaimed ” True karate Kid ” he is no stranger to life’s challenges.

The first when he was just 12 years old and his father died of alcoholism. His tormentors who bullied him for years made it much worse. ( His first book Always Picked Last” ) It was. not until a close uncle talked him into taking karate at age 13 that his life would change.

Martial arts was his first love then came weight training. This led to a degree in exercise physiology and he started Burn With Kearns in 1990 his wellness transformation coaching company. In the early 2000’s he became involved with the world of UFC and ended up as a conditioning coach for 15 UFC fighters.

Life was going great except at home for his marriage was falling apart to his wife’s alcoholism. This led to a very messy divorce in 2018. The divorce coupled with many other challenges led him down the path to depression and attempted suicide 2 x in 2019.

He woke up on Christmas Eve 2019 in a locked down ward at Mclean Hospital. After several ECT treatments he began to see “There’s Light In the Tunnel” ( his second book) and decided to make it his new mission to help people everywhere recover from mental illness through his books, workshops , fitness programming and his eventual TED Talk. He is a man that is he calls it “RELENTLESS”

Connect with Kevin on LinkedIn, Facebook and Instagram.

This transcript is machine transcribed by Sonix 

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Intro: [00:00:04] Broadcasting live from the Business RadioX studios in Atlanta, Georgia. It’s time for High Velocity radio.

Stone Payton: [00:00:15] Welcome to the high velocity radio show where we celebrate top performers producing better results in less time. Stone Payton and Ryan Schlosser are here with you this morning, and today’s episode is brought to you in part by the Business Radio Main Street Warriors program. For more information, go to Main Street Warriors dot org. Ryan we’re we’re rolling up on the weekend, man. You got anything exciting happening this weekend?

Ryan Schlosser: [00:00:41] Oh, man, everything’s new to me here. Just moved to the area about a month ago, so, you know, Have anything going on?

Stone Payton: [00:00:47] Hey, that’s. And that’s the way I roll, man. Somebody rolls into town, I snatch him up, I put him on the team. I do. We’ve got this cadence fair happening. The Reformation is putting on my wife is painting it art on the spot. And there’s still three interviews between this and my first cadence beer. So this is going to be a lot of fun. Guys, you are in for such a real treat this morning. Please join me in welcoming to the broadcast with Burn with Kearns, the man himself, Kevin Kearns. How are you, man?

Kevin Kearns: [00:01:19] Good start. Thanks for having me. And thanks, Ryan. Ryan, I’ll come down and I’ll show you around town to. We’ll just go. Just go smash up the town. How’s that sound?

Ryan Schlosser: [00:01:25] Sounds like a plan. You guys in town checking everything out.

Stone Payton: [00:01:28] So, Kevin, I got 1000 questions. We’re not going to get to them all, but I think maybe a great place to start here would be if you could articulate mission purpose. What are you and your team really out there trying to do for folks?

Kevin Kearns: [00:01:44] Brian, I appreciate that question. Stone So, you know, I’m a wellness transformation coach. What that is, is it’s a new level versus personal trainer. So I was involved with the UFC. I was I trained 15 UFC fighters at one point, turn them into a conditioning system, put that on DVD. It went global. And I’ve spent 37 years and one on one now on Zoom to corporate wellness and public speaking as well. So I’ve got two books in the market, one on anti-bullying, because I was literally the kid that excuse the expression, suck at every sport. Father died of alcohol was when I was 12. Got worse. And I am in martial arts and it saved my life. Going into strength training turned around and got my degree in exercise physiology. Never expected to stop with TRANSCOM and it went global, never expected that. And at the same time, during my career taking off, I was at a very difficult place in my marriage. About 12 years ago, she started drinking and became an alcoholic, which ended up ruining my marriage. And then I fell into a deep depression so bad that I try to literally commit suicide in 2019, which is only three years ago. Twice ended up in McLean Hospital, which actually saved my life, and then turned around and wrote another book called This Light in the Tunnel How to Survive and Thrive With Depression. So my big mission now with my company, Burn with Current, is the three pillars, what we call them proper exercise, proper nutrition, proper mindset programing. So I’m on a mission. Wherever and anywhere I can speak to people about colleges, universities, corporations, about mental health and how to combat mental health and come out of that deep abyss of mental health in depression.

Stone Payton: [00:03:20] So I got to ask you a couple of questions about getting a book out there. So many of our listeners, many of our clients here at the Business RadioX Network, I feel like they have a book in them. They feel like they have a book in them, but maybe they’re a little slow to pull the trigger. What was that experience like? Did some parts of the book come together really easily for you and you struggle with others? Tell us a little bit about what that author experience has been like for you.

Kevin Kearns: [00:03:47] You know, it’s a challenging process. My first book always picked last. I went to a ghostwriter, paid her four grand, and she took notes on my chapter and disappeared. So I got completely disenfranchized with that in 2010. Then another ghostwriter through my fulfillment company for my DVDs that my conditioning system, which I’m relaunching, 2.0 version very soon. And she heard my passion and my vision on this whole thing. And she says, I got to do something with this. She literally kicked Birmingham’s her name. She helped me. She interviewed me every night while my wife was at her ex-wife was at her AA meetings. And it was there was some tough times. She interviewed me and the whole process process was, I want to be in your movie. And I want you to come out of the movie and tell me what’s going on. So every time I write anything, that’s basically the way I kind of people perceive it. And then on the second book, what happened is and I can’t tell you how many people have helped me with the book, like Nick, Pete, my my editor for Fighters Only Train Hi fi Easy. I was I was I’m a C minus and I wrote for five magazines at one point, literally. So like the two magazines, but I wrote for five magazines at one point. I don’t know why people want to listen to me. I don’t know why. It’s kind of funny when I see that.

Kevin Kearns: [00:04:57] And now two books. So a friend said to me to put the first book, I always pick class on audio video. So I had his son, who’s from Ireland, read it and then interview me, and I said, Huh? When I got the idea for the second book, There’s Light in the Tunnel How to Survive and Thrive a Depression. I said, I have an idea. I wrote so much of it. I said, But you know, people want audio and audio and video now. That’s where they’re really into. And I said, What if I conceive of the chapters but filmed myself during some tough moments? So what I did is I actually filmed myself because I’m way better speaking. On. Like we’re doing now or in front of an audience versus writing because it takes longer. And then I took that all those videos gave it to somebody to transcribe this for me, and now I had multiple products. Then I can put it up in Audible. So that’s it is a challenge, but it’s easier than they think. And I would tell anybody, any listeners this, if you have a book that’s a dream. That dream was given to you do it right. Like nobody’s going to read the book, doesn’t matter. Just get it out of you, get it out of you. And it’s very cathartic when you’ve gone through something hard to actually put it on paper.

Ryan Schlosser: [00:06:03] Just a few minutes into the conversation here, Kevin, I can tell you one of the most inspired people that I’ve talked to maybe in my life. So where does all this inspiration come from?

Kevin Kearns: [00:06:16] Wow. That’s a very good question. You know, I’m like, I’m the kid that, like I said, sucked at every sport, got picked on every day. I came from a three family home in Everett. My father died when I was 12. Great guy. Just drank too much and we struggled. You know, my mother was from a depression, so I think I get that from my mother and my father because we really struggle trying to keep us keep the family together. How to put myself through college the whole bit. I’m not I’m not the best student. I’m a this is what I say when I go out to universities in schools, I’m at 2.8 95. I’m a little bit I had a scratch and scrape and fight to get a low B and nothing ever came easy to me. And I think when you go through that, it kind of inspires you to say, okay, who else can I help? Like, I can’t tell you how many people or things I’ve read, like Dale Carnegie, Lester Brown, Dr. Wayne Dyer I’ve listened to that have inspired me. And I go, You know what? Anytime I’ve been through something rough, like when I went through the anti the bullying stuff, I said, You know what? I don’t want any kid to go through this again. My whole mission when the first book was If we can save one kid, if we turn one kid around that doesn’t realize he’s worthless, I’ve made it if we’re on Oprah.

Kevin Kearns: [00:07:26] Great. I’ve got two girls. I got to go to college and I got to pay for it. The second book, going through a depression and suicidal ideation and anxiety is rough. It’s just hard and it’s like a cement overcoat. That’s why I’m working on my first TEDTalk, because if I could reach more people, you can change more life because there’s plenty of people that have changed my life over the years with just a word or a saying or a phone call. And, you know, we’re all interconnected, we’re all human, so we’re here to help each other. So I think my inspiration comes from regular people where they’re like, Hey, man, what you said saved me. Well, how does he know? Saved you if it didn’t save me, like today, when I came forward, the Depression and I put a video up on Facebook. We had 2000 views in a day two years ago. And I said, Now I got to write the book and I’ve saved. I’m not trying to be egotistical on this. I’ve saved 23 people from committing suicide just by talking to them. Some I knew, some I didn’t know.

Ryan Schlosser: [00:08:22] Man. That’s that’s a that’s deep stuff. And that’s an impressive way to use the inspiration you clearly have. What’s what’s been the most challenging aspect of this process for you in the last three, three years?

Kevin Kearns: [00:08:39] Going through a very messy and bloody divorce, not seeing your kids full time wife turned their kids, ex-wife turn the kids against me. I don’t really see them that much. Covid trying to come back from attempted suicide to rebuilding the business. And oh, by the way, here’s a here’s a plague is a pandemic across the globe, which shuts down 80% of your business. I have a certification business, too, where I was traveling to teach people my system from aquariums, my fitness trainer system that shut down. I used to be in England at least twice a year. I traveled to Japan, Canada, you name it, shut down, and then clients aren’t seeing you. So that part of my business, the one on one, the corporate, all got shut down overnight. And then then you turn to something else and then now people are trying to do you can’t. There was no fitness conventions. There was no martial art conventions. So it all got shut down. So I think that’s some of the biggest challenges was life had to go on, the bills have to be paid, but you’re making 80% less money. It’s like, how do you rebound after all that? And there’s an article I think I sent it to Stone this morning from the New York Weekly, did a piece on me. Rock bottom’s a good foundation to stand on, which is solid.

Stone Payton: [00:09:50] Well said. So how does the whole sales and marketing thing work for a guy like you, a business like yours? Do you have a structured process for going out there and getting the new business? How do you get the new the new clients, man?

Kevin Kearns: [00:10:09] That’s a good point. You know, I think I’m going back to old school and you’ll probably appreciate this. Ryan. Sounds like he’s young, but he probably knows this. You really have to network. You really have to get out and do grassroots. You know, the social media, all that stuff is great and that’s all fine and dandy. But if you don’t have a grassroots effort, if you’re not going to Chamber of Commerce meetings, if you’re not going to conventions, if you’re not shaking hands and kissing babies, you’re really kind of screwing yourself. If you’re not going out and publicly speaking, if they don’t have money to do it for free, and then you film whatever you can and post that, you ask for referrals. I really think the attitude of gratitude has to be there where you just give. You know, it’s almost like. Gary Vaynerchuk would say, give, give, give, then ask. So why are you doing it? Like people say to me when I was training all these fighters, why do you still do one on one with clients? And why do you still do this? Why do you still do corporate? I go because it keeps me grounded.

Kevin Kearns: [00:11:02] Because, you know, at the end of the day, I put my pants on one leg at a time. Right. So it doesn’t matter. So I think we’ve lost in the world of social media, we’ve almost lost that personal contact and the world of the pandemic. We’ve lost that personal contact. So I think people want to get back to that. So you go you go to the Chamber of Commerce meeting, you go to the BMI meeting, you go to the the convention. It really is a matter of figuring out. I think at the end of the day, you have to figure out what your target market is and what that niche is and go after it. Like my saying, I think we mentioned this be relentless. Just keep going after it and don’t don’t quit. Dr. Wayne Dyer would say, hold your vision, keep your passion. Well, one of my tattoos says Vision, passion. And the last one is perseverance. If you do not have perseverance, you cannot succeed, whatever it is.

Stone Payton: [00:11:52] So do you feel like there are elements or disciplines or experiences or, gosh, I don’t know, maybe even mentors that have contributed to your ability to to so visibly demonstrate that degree of resilience, that that degree of mental toughness after all this.

Kevin Kearns: [00:12:14] Absolutely. I have to thank my first martial art instructors, Paul Taylor and Charlie McIver, who got me my first black belt. And they taught me something at 17 when I got my first black belt. You’re always white belt. You’re always a beginner. If you don’t think you’re learning, you’re dying. You know, learn and grow what you go through, you grow through. As far as other mentors, you’re talking about Coach Steve Whittier, SPG, East Coast, Mark, Delegate from City Time, one of the best striking coaches in the planet. Dr. David Thomas My my first professor in exercise physiology who told me when I graduated, he said he was proud of me. I’m like, What? You never say that, Dr. Dave. He said, It’s not always the people that get 4.04.0 in grades that do well in life. It’s people like you that have to scratch and scrape and claw to get a B that do well. And I think all along, really what matters is friends along the way, people like Lionel being Craig Rose. You know, you really know who your true friends are when you become vulnerable, who’s going to stick by you? Who’s going to stick by you? I’ve had some of the same friends for 40 years. Other friends. It’s just people that you meet. And I don’t know if you’ve ever explained this, you’re just instantly best friends like Detective Mark Morrissey and his family from Hoboken, from north of New Jersey, where we’ve known each other for years. Nick Pete, my editor, he’s the one that found the first cover for my book, which my first cover was Junk. He designed it, and I’m still friendly with him in the UK all the time. I think, you know, I think to have one mentor, I think you have multiple mentors. It’s like people that you can go to. Definitely people like Dr. Wayne Dyer, Zig Ziglar, Dale Carnegie, All the stuff I’ve read are very, very influential in my life. And then I’m a big yoga person too. So a lot of what I’ve learned from yoga people like Jackie Barnwell all all contributed to my to my world.

Stone Payton: [00:14:05] So let’s talk about the work a little bit, because I get the distinct impression that you have kind of cracked the code on helping people get a handle on nutrition exercise mindset and bring it all together in a way that they can live into as a lifestyle as opposed to, you know, I’m going to do this to get ready for my daughter’s wedding.

Kevin Kearns: [00:14:29] Exactly. Very good. I love that question because it really does have to be know when when, when motivation stops. Okay. Because you can get all motivated. Everybody’s motivated in the New Year, New Year’s, New Year’s resolutions, New Year’s resolution. After that, discipline has to take over. Discipline has to take over. It really does. It really has to take over. So I usually tell clients that we’re going to be one on one. Even corporations give me six months and the first thing they say was all the money. The money. I go, So what? The money? I go, okay, every time you work out is a deposit in your fitness IRA, right? It’s a deposit. The Egyptians figured it out. You can’t take your money with you. So what good is it because you got to stay healthy Now you’re going to stay healthy now. And I think some of the big things we we need to focus on and I work on this daily is instead of focusing on what’s going wrong, focus on what’s going right, you know, you’re either in a problem going to the next problem and coming out of a problem and what is problems, They need to be solved. It’s like math solve the problem. And I think when you’re when you’re really focusing on, okay, when you’ve made up your mind, it’s like Anthony Robbins says, what I must do, I must lose weight, I must be successful, I must be number one in this.

Kevin Kearns: [00:15:42] I must it changes from what you have to to what you must do. Like when I was feeling sick and I got depressed and tried to commit suicide, I literally have a scar on the left side of my neck from trying to slip my own throat. No joke. No joke. And then I found therapy, electroconvulsive therapy. Now, that was a big risk. I knew nothing about it, but I swear my father talks to me and he says, You got to do something different, Kevin. You’ve got to do something different. Usually takes 12 treatments. I started feeling better after three. It was like the sky opens. So I think the way you talk to yourself and the way you talk to other people influences everything. Give an example. If somebody says My bad shoulder, I would say, Your injured shoulder. Why do you say that? When you say bad, it’s a connotation of negativity. When you say injury, injury is temporary. It’s like one of my favorite sayings Pain is inevitable. Pain is inevitable. Suffering is a choice.

Stone Payton: [00:16:36] You know what? I think that’s going to be the quote on the on Stone’s next article. I’ll try to remember to credit you.

Kevin Kearns: [00:16:44] It’s not my quote. I heard it from somebody else, to tell you the truth.

Ryan Schlosser: [00:16:47] Yeah, It’s all about what we do with that, with our suffering. Everyone. Everyone’s got problems they got to deal with. And I love what you said, that motivation or discipline replaces motivation. I can tell that that very instilled in you. How about your customers? Do you do you see that you’re able to get that message in their head and have it stick? What’s what’s that retention process look like for you?

Kevin Kearns: [00:17:12] Well, I’ve had some customers, believe it or not, wine for 23 years. Wow. How about that, huh? And I’ve had fans for and I don’t like the term fans, but people that have been following my DVDs for years. And I think if Stone wants to quote me, this is one of my biggest things. We say what’s called column response. We’ll say hustle equals. And their answer has to be Muscle hustle. You hear me on? I think the biggest one I had was like 300 trainers. I’m like, hustle equals muscle coach. I’m like, That’s right. Think like that. And when you think like that, it’s not just just it’s not just physical muscle. It’s mind muscle. What’s the mind muscle take out could of should have would have just do it. Don’t live with regrets. Who wants to live with regrets? I want to ask them out or I want to ask them out or I want to try for the job. I want to try for. I’m afraid of failure. So one of my talks at schools and corporations is if you took the two year old mine and shoved it into the 40 year old body, you wouldn’t worry about anything, right? You wouldn’t worry about failure. Think about how many times you fail. Think about it. How many times did you fall to walk? But it’s inherently in you. You have to do it. It’s inherently in you. You have to be able to feed yourself. It’s inherently in you that you have to learn how to get home from school. And then what happens is ego takes over. And I was like, and as I say, something told me before, ego is not your amigo.

Stone Payton: [00:18:31] Man. I am taking such copious notes over here. But my whole talk is to be like the Kearns methodology. Your TED talk when you do it is going to be fantastic.

Kevin Kearns: [00:18:42] I hope so. I’m working on it.

Stone Payton: [00:18:45] Before we wrap. I’d love it if we could leave our listeners with with a couple of actionable tips. I’ll call them Pro Tips. And look, gang number one tip on any of these topics is reach out to Kevin and his team, tap into these books. But yeah. Kevin if we could leave our listeners with a couple of things, they could begin thinking about reading, practicing. Let’s leave them with a little something to begin acting on as they come out of listening to this conversation.

Kevin Kearns: [00:19:17] Excellent. I appreciate that. Sure. Action. Step one. Number one. Number one. You matter. Remember that you matter. I don’t care what anybody told you. I don’t care what your family said. I don’t care what your ex-girlfriend, your ex-wife. You matter. Remember that you are important. Number two. Somebody always has it worse.

Stone Payton: [00:19:40] Hmm.

Kevin Kearns: [00:19:41] Number three today is a gift. That’s why they call it the present. Number four, if you’re exercising whatever you’re doing, think of it this way we or you get to do this today. What about those people that can’t? What about those people that are hospitalized? Think of it that way. You get to do this that every time I come out of yoga, I got to do this today. Every time I come out of Tong Muay Thai, I got to do this today. Every time I do my own conditioning from a conditioning, I got to do this today. And you got to do this today. Now, number five, forgive yourself and move on. There’s a great quote and I’ve got a ton of I’m sorry from Mark. I think it was Mark Twain. Forgiveness is the fragrance that is shed by the violet on the heel that has crushed it. I’ll say that again. Forgiveness is the fragrance that is shed by the violet on the heel that has crushed it. Number six, one of my biggest foundations. Be relentless. No matter what it is. I don’t care if it’s an education. I don’t care if it’s playing football. I don’t care if it’s swimming. I don’t care if it’s building a house. I don’t care what it is. Whatever your what is Forget about the how, what’s the what’s the why, whatever it is, be relentless in everything you do. And if you need to reach me, real simple. Brian with Kerns dot com. Kevin at burn with current and I’ll be so bold I hope you don’t mind Stone I answer my phone. 508404 8503.

Stone Payton: [00:21:10] Well, Kevin, it has been an absolute delight having you on the show this morning. Thank you so much for the time and energy that you’ve invested with us to share your insights, your experience, your perspective. And thanks for the work that you’re doing. Man. It is such important work and we so sincerely appreciate you.

Kevin Kearns: [00:21:30] Ryan, Please send me an email because I know Stone has my Kindle version and I’ll send you both whatever you want.

Ryan Schlosser: [00:21:36] Appreciate that. Yeah. Keep, keep. Keep the word going. I love your message. And clearly you’ve got the inspiration.

Stone Payton: [00:21:44] Nicely done, gentlemen. All right. Until next time, this is Stone Payton for my guest host Ryan Schlosser, and our guest today with Burn with Kearns, Mr. Kevin Kearns, and everyone here at the Business Radio X family saying we’ll see you in the fast lane.

 

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Casey Stubbs with Trading Strategy Guides

October 24, 2022 by angishields

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Casey-Stubbs-Trading-Strategy-GuidesCasey Stubbs is a 9 ½ year United States Army Veteran and married father of nine. He is an entrepreneur, a leader in his local church, and is a successful business owner and trader. That, however, wasn’t always the case.

Casey’s compelling broke-dad to seven-figure trading education business story will captivate and inspire you. He loves to share his failures with others because he believes that is where the most growth and character-building takes place.

Casey is dedicated to helping people from all walks of life fulfill their financial dreams, while also achieving financial freedom. Helping others is at the heart of all that drives Casey on a daily basis.

Connect with Casey on LinkedIn and Twitter and follow Trading Strategy Guides on Facebook.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

  • How to build a trading mindset
  • How to overcome downturns and obstacles
  • The key to becoming a successful trader
  • How to get free online traffic
  • How to successfully cast vision and grow a team that is loyal and dedicated
  • How to do joint venture projects to boost revenue

This transcript is machine transcribed by Sonix 

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Intro: [00:00:04] Broadcasting live from the Business RadioX studios in Atlanta, Georgia. It’s time for High Velocity radio.

Stone Payton: [00:00:15] Welcome to the High Velocity Radio show, where we celebrate top performers producing better results in less time. Stone Payton here with you this afternoon. You guys, this is going to be a marvelous conversation. Please join me in welcoming to the broadcast with trading strategy guides. Mr. Casey Stubbs. How are you, man?

Casey Stubbs: [00:00:36] I’m good. Stone How are you doing today?

Stone Payton: [00:00:38] I am doing well. Really been looking forward to this conversation and I’ve got a ton of questions. I realize we won’t get to them all, but I think maybe a good place to start is if you could share with us Mission purpose. What are you and your team really out there trying to do for folks, ma’am?

Casey Stubbs: [00:00:57] So we focus on teaching people how to trade the financial markets. And so our mission is to help traders learn how to make cash flow every week from the markets.

Stone Payton: [00:01:10] How in the world did you get involved? Did you get into this line of work? What’s what’s the back story?

Casey Stubbs: [00:01:19] So it’s a pretty cool back story. And, you know, it started out many, many, many years ago. I I’m not that old. I’m 46. But when I was a kid in the nineties, eighties and nineties, my Aunt Mary, she worked for Intel and she was involved in computers and that was really new back then. And she would bring home computer parts and teach us how to teach me and my brothers and sisters how to build computers, take them apart. And so she taught us a lot about computers, which was really cool because they were all brand new back then. And my dad was a stock guy. He would do investments, but he was older, you know, and older guy. He’s my dad, obviously. And so he didn’t know anything about computers. And he realized that trading and online stock purchases was going online for the very first time ever and he needed to get a computer. And so he asked me to help him get set up. And so I did. I taught him about computers. And in the process he taught me about stocks. And that’s how I got started.

Stone Payton: [00:02:32] So I’ve I guess I’m of the opinion or maybe it’s more fair to say assumption. I’m under the impression that to to to trade and trade effectively, you got to have a little different mindset maybe than the than the average bear. Is that accurate? And if so, could you speak to that a little bit?

Casey Stubbs: [00:02:54] So that’s a really good point. Stone And I think you hit it right on the head when you said a different mindset, and that’s for trading, but it’s also for anything in life, right? Most people don’t hit high performance levels no matter what they do. And so trading is something that really puts people to the test because it puts their money, you know, it involves their money. So they’re going to find out if they have what it takes really quickly. But yeah, you’ve got to have the mindset of. You need to do what it takes to learn how to do this successfully and not just shoot from the hip.

Stone Payton: [00:03:30] And money, I guess, is such an emotionally charged thing for for so many of us. So when you get the the ups and the downs and treating the ups properly and overcoming the the downs and the and the barriers, any insights you can offer to us on that front? I’m sure it would be more than welcome.

Casey Stubbs: [00:03:53] So money is really emotional and we’re human beings are emotional people, and you can’t just stuff it in because if you just stuff in your emotions and. And you hold it in, You hold it in, you hold it in. It’s eventually going to blow up, Right? Have you ever experienced that stone?

Stone Payton: [00:04:10] Uh huh.

Casey Stubbs: [00:04:11] Yes. Yeah, it happens. So we can’t we can’t do that as a trader. Because if we hold in all of our emotions and then all of a sudden it’s going to just come out and that’s going to result in our losing all of our money because we’re just going to act crazy. So we have to learn how to process those. And what I do to do that is I have what I call a daily system for high performance and consistency, because as a human being, we have a lot of different systems. We’ve got a mind spirit, body. We’ve got to take care of all those systems, right? So my I have a seven point system and it starts with a daily routine which involves reading, prayer, meditation, exercise, planning, nutrition and hydration. And that’s just step one before I even get to the charts. But just doing that, I got to take care of my whole body, my whole mind, everything. And so just doing that process helps me stay consistent. So we have to focus on being high performance and also consistent. Not much different than an athlete or anyone that’s doing high performance activities.

Stone Payton: [00:05:14] Yeah, no, it makes perfect sense. So are you finding that there are some patterns or some common characteristics among the people who are drawn to your work? Want to tap into what you’re doing, want to learn from you, and pursue this path.

Casey Stubbs: [00:05:31] Oh, man. So. So let me just make sure I’m clarifying the question. So you’re saying is there any certain characteristics that attract people to the financial markets? Is that kind of what you ask?

Stone Payton: [00:05:45] Well, yeah, that and to you and your work specifically, like, you know, like some of us, like in the consulting profession, sometimes we find it, you know, if we just work with redheaded firm and that’s our niche, you know, like as a. Yeah.

Casey Stubbs: [00:05:58] Okay, got it. Yeah. So is there a certain type of person? So the first type of people that are attracted to financial markets and this is not really a good thing, but it’s people that have some financial pain and they want to turn it around quickly. Right? So they like heard about this guy who made a lot of money in the market or they got a hot tip, right? So they’re like, oh, I need money, so I need to go to the markets and try to get money. Well, that kind of person is going to fail ten out of ten times because they have the wrong mindset, right? They’re thinking of solving a financial problem with the markets. And in order to solve a financial problem, you’ve got to work. That’s the secret. You got to solve the problem. And you can’t treat the markets like a slot machine because you’re going to get the same results. So that’s generally a good percentage of the people that come to us. And so I have to set them straight right from day one. It’s like, if that’s you, please don’t continue because you’re not going to make it.

Stone Payton: [00:06:59] I can hear it in your voice. You obviously enjoy the work. It must be incredibly rewarding to help people kind of crack the code on this and have a fulfilling experience doing it. What are you enjoying the most?

Casey Stubbs: [00:07:17] Yeah, So that’s a great question again. Stone Thank you for, for asking. But yeah, I do enjoy seeing people get success. And I think the greatest thing about it is. Letting people understand that this is going to be difficult and not shying away from it. Right. So, yeah, this is going to be really hard, but we’re going to do this and we’re going to see you do it. So I love seeing people do things that are really hard and then have success over that because doing things that are really tough, that’s not what the average person does. And so that’s kind of cool.

Stone Payton: [00:07:54] So so how does the whole sales and marketing thing work for a guy like you, a practice like yours? Like how do you get the new the new business, the new clients?

Casey Stubbs: [00:08:04] Well, you know, I. I got really fortunate right in the beginning of of this business that I started way back in 2009. I started a website. And usually when you start a website, nothing happens. But in my case, the markets were really down at that point. I was trading stocks, but I was also working. And so it was too out right after 2008 and I was a construction worker and everything went just there was no work. So I got laid off and I had to figure out what to do. So I built a website and then people started reading the content on there and I started getting a lot of traffic. And so that’s kind of how it started as far as getting the leads. I was just teaching people what I knew and people just started coming. And so that system of getting traffic hasn’t changed. I just continue to update my content on my website and people come to learn about trading, learn about what’s happening in the markets.

Stone Payton: [00:09:06] And you have the website. You’ve also written a book, if I remember my show notes, right, The ultimate Harmonic pattern strategy book, if I got that right.

Casey Stubbs: [00:09:17] Yeah, yeah, that’s correct. I have a website and I’ve written a book and you know, that’s all part of putting out good content to help people get educated because you got to get educated to learn how to be successful in the markets.

Stone Payton: [00:09:31] So what was that experience like? Did parts of the book come together really easily and other parts a real struggle or what? Yeah. What was it like getting that thing committed to paper and out there into the marketplace?

Casey Stubbs: [00:09:45] Well. Stone That’s a really cool question. And have you interviewed authors before? I’m sure you have, right?

Stone Payton: [00:09:51] Yeah.

Casey Stubbs: [00:09:52] Yeah. You probably have heard a lot of different stories about how people launch their book. Well, mine is really unique. Maybe not, but for me it was pretty shocking. So I’m a podcast host and one of my guests was very good at writing books. And so he challenges people to do like a 60 day or a 30 day book challenge. And so he’s like, Yeah, I challenge these people to write books really fast. And so I was like, okay, I’m in. And so I was he, you know, I had a conversation with a guy and he motivated me. And so I left and I immediately did it. And the cool thing is I had a lot of the content on my website, and so I just pulled it up, threw it together, and had that book out in like 30 days. Wow.

Stone Payton: [00:10:40] You know, I have heard of that concept. I feel like I’ve even maybe tripped over a website or two that talks about that, but I’ve not interviewed that person or that outfit, so I don’t know, maybe offline you can get me connected with them because I think that would be a fascinating interview to learn how they coach people through that. I can tell you, you know, my business partner, Lee Kantor and I, we’ve been we’ve been doing this for for a while. We I think August was our 18th year and probably for about the last five or six a couple of times a year, we’ll pick up a like a client as like a business consultant or something like that, and they want to get a book out. And we, we have coached them to, to use the, the recording software to sort of talk a book, get it transcribed and then get some help turning that transcript into a manuscript. So that’s that’s a strategy that’s worked for some folks, you know, helping them get something, actually pulling the trigger and getting it out there.

Casey Stubbs: [00:11:38] Yeah, that’s that. So I’m actually doing another one. And this one I’ve been working on for quite some time. It’s going to be release sometime next year, but that’s kind of what I’m doing for this one because the first one was quick. Now I want to make sure I really go into detail and teach everything I know in one book.

Stone Payton: [00:11:56] Wow. So tell us more about this podcast. It sounds like maybe it’s it’s it’s an interview format, or at least that’s one of the ways that you use the the platform. Tell us about this podcast.

Casey Stubbs: [00:12:07] I it’s called How to Trade It How to Trade It podcast by Casey Stubbs and I interview expert traders. And so it’s kind of like just for me to meet amazing people and to. Learn from the best, right? And then at the same time, it’s beneficial to my audience. And I’ve had some amazing experiences through the podcast, like I got a book published, right. And another experience as a guy invited me to a trading conference and paid for my ticket to go, and it was a $10,000 person ticket on the British Virgin Islands at a special resort. And he just invited me and said, Hey, I’ll cover your ticket. I’m like, okay, cool. Plus all the knowledge I get. It’s awesome. Being a podcast host is the best.

Stone Payton: [00:12:59] Oh, you learn a ton and you get to meet so many fascinating people who, you know, almost invariably they’re there, they’re bright, they’re passionate about what they’re doing. And I’m talking lifelong relationships that you forge with people because you’re having these genuine, authentic, substantive conversations about their work and the why behind it and where they’re taking it and what they’ve learned from it. I mean, I know I’m biased because I’m in the business of helping business people create and execute on these things. But man, I just it’s been a marvelous experience for me. I love the just if nothing else, just the relationships that you’re able to cultivate through this platform.

Casey Stubbs: [00:13:41] Yeah, it’s the networking and sometimes you get deals, but I like to do deals with my friends. But you know, I’ve had six, seven figure deals happen through people just who I’ve interviewed. So it’s really awesome.

Stone Payton: [00:13:52] Wow. So have you found that either through the relationships you’re cultivating there or through the education and content marketing or the execution of the work, have you found that that you have come across people and done any kind of like collaboration, joint venture kind of work? You found some ways to work and play together beyond that immediate thing that you’re doing with him.

Casey Stubbs: [00:14:19] So sometimes we’ll get together and then we’ll plan an event together, which if I feel the synergy and we just have a good relationship, sometimes we’ll plan it right then and there, and sometimes it takes a long time to develop. I’m doing a joint training where we’re teaching market principles with someone that I met over ten years ago and we recently reconnected on a podcast interview and now we’re doing a joint training together. And so you never know how long those relationships will develop and how they go. But business of good part of business is number one, to creating a good product and service that solves a problem. And number two, maintaining great relationships with other business people.

Stone Payton: [00:15:05] I saw in my notes that you are a U.S. Army veteran. Have you found that that being a veteran, that experience has had any impact on the way you choose to conduct yourself or the way you choose to recruit and develop and retain team mate team members? Has it had some sort of impact on your professional life?

Casey Stubbs: [00:15:32] Stone. I think that it has a great impact because you’re pretty young when you join. At least I was I was like 18, right? So, yeah, you know, you’re still pretty pretty fresh at that point. And so a lot of the principles and things that I learned there really helped me out in business, like just right from the very beginning and basic training that is really tough and you’ve got to work hard and you’ve got to push yourself to your limit. So great. A great thing is always get out of your comfort zone and always push yourself to your limit. Those are things you learn in basic training and you can go a lot farther than you think. You can just keep moving forward. If you can remember that in anything that you’re doing, it’s going to it’s going to give you positive results.

Stone Payton: [00:16:19] All right, man. Let’s make sure that our listeners have an easy path to tap into your work, maybe connect with you, have a substantive conversation with you or someone on your team. So whatever you feel like is appropriate, whether it’s LinkedIn website, I want to make sure they can get their hands on this book. I want them to be able to access the podcast, so let’s leave them with some coordinates here before we wrap.

Casey Stubbs: [00:16:43] Yeah, that’s great. And I like to connect with with anyone that enjoyed the conversation. If you want to learn some stuff about trading, that’s great. If you’re interested in learning more about business, that’s cool too. Or if you just want to send me a note that’s even cooler. But. But you can find out everything about me at my website. Trading Strategy Guides dot com forward slash podcast. And there I have a special trading guide for people for free if they’re interested in learning some things about trading. That’s trading strategy guides dot com forward slash podcast.

Stone Payton: [00:17:17] Well Casey, it has been an absolute delight having you on the show this afternoon. Thank you so much for investing the time and energy to to visit with us and keep up the good work man. You’re doing important work there and we sincerely appreciate you, man.

Casey Stubbs: [00:17:33] Thanks, Don. I appreciate the opportunity. And it was a great interview. Thank you so much.

Stone Payton: [00:17:38] Absolutely. My pleasure. All right. Until next time, this is Stone Payton for our guest today with trading strategy guides Mr. Casey Stubbs and everyone here at the Business RadioX family saying we’ll see you in the fast lane.

 

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BRX Pro Tip: Find the Right Partner

October 24, 2022 by angishields

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Stone Payton: [00:00:00] Welcome back to Business RadioX Pro Tips. Stone Payton and Lee Kantor here with you. Lee, here’s a piece of counsel maybe you should have paid more attention to 18 years ago, find the right partner.

Lee Kantor: [00:00:13] Yeah. I think in today’s world it is critical to have partners. I think it’s really difficult to do anything on your own nowadays. You have to have partners in some regards whether they’re business partners, whether they’re other service providers that are complementary to you. But you have to find other folks and you’ve got to work together with these folks. And the ideal partner is going to have some sort of complementary objective where a win for you is a win for them and vice versa. You’ve got to create these true win-win opportunities.

Lee Kantor: [00:00:44] A great strategy to test whether these partnerships will bear fruit is to just set up tests where you can see if it can work out, you know, try 90-day project experiments, see how well you work together. Then, if it works, continue. If it isn’t working, then end it and move on.

Lee Kantor: [00:01:01] Finding the right partner is so important today. It can really grow your business. It’s so important to have other people that are helping you find business. And if you can help other people find business, that’s great too because then you’re going to have a really good, motivated partner that’s going to want to figure out ways to help you be successful because you’re helping them be successful.

Lee Kantor: [00:01:22] But in today’s world, you have to do it. You’ve got to find partners. You should be trying these 90-day project experiments and finding the right folks so you can build your team and you can grow.

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Rome Floyd Chamber Small Business Spotlight – Merrill Davies with Toastmasters, and Bill Davies with The Davies Shelters

October 21, 2022 by angishields

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GACC South Unplugged – Pat Wilson, Commissioner of the Georgia Department of Economic Development

October 21, 2022 by angishields

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We conducted this podcast in the conference room at the GACC South offices with a beautiful view of Atlanta, Georgia. Our guest is Pat Wilson, the Commissioner of the Georgia Department of Economic Development. Our host, Matthias Hoffman of the GACC South, is sitting in a Strandkorb. You may be able to take this beach cabana home from an upcoming fundraiser. Find out more by listening to the show!

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Real Estate Professionals Robert Mason and Stacey Wyatt

October 21, 2022 by angishields

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staceywyattStacey Wyatt is a full-time real estate sale professional committed to offering his clients the best service possible.  He is not your average agent, he is one of the top producers in Atlanta and he works tirelessly to find his buyers the best deals and provide his sellers the exposure and expertise they need to net the most money in any market.

Throughout his career, he has personally sold hundreds of homes and managed the sales and development of over 500 homes.  That is a total of over $500 Million in real estate deals.

He has always been most passionate about assisting his clients sell their current homes, find their perfect new homes, and the excitement that comes from knowing he was a part of making their dream come true.

Wyatt runs the Stacey Wyatt Group, a full-service real estate team that covers the metro Atlanta area to help people buy, sell, invest, build or renovate. Transactions range from $20,000 to $1.5 million. In 2019, Wyatt’s team completed $33 million in sales on 90 transactions.

Wyatt, who has a degree in architectural/structural engineering, is also a licensed general contractor and is quickly scaling another pillar to his business that buys, holds and flips investment properties.

Connect with Stacey on LinkedIn.

RobertMasonRobert Mason is a full-service Real Estate professional, specializing in Sales and Listings as well as Property Management. His 24 years in this business has shown him a variety of situations and He handled them all.

As a Previous Owner/Broker of RM Property Group, Currently, an Associate Broker with Keller Williams he concentrates on real estate sales. As a former Commercial agent and a 21-year residential real estate vet, he has sold and leased commercial properties, residential homes and participated as an investor and investor/portfolio services.

He has been fortunate enough to have been honored as a Top Producer on many occasions and He has sold millions in real estate throughout his career. Buyers and Sellers will get his honest opinion and that in its own right, is uncommon in their arena.

In a world of uncertainty and real estate flux, your decision to work with a Pro is your choice. There are no cutting corners in today’s business environment and working with the best ensures the Best outcome.

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Randell is a former Naval Commander with a background in engineering and special operations. A lifelong outdoorsman and photographer, he also holds an MBA from the University of Texas in Community Planning (joint program between the school of architecture and real estate programs), and extensive experience in logistics and team building.

He applies his business expertise, operational planning background, and award-winning photographic talent to the challenge of producing exquisite marketing materials for his clients. His extensive real estate career spans over 25 years in every aspect of real estate: development, construction, marketing, operations, and design.

He is a member of the Board of Directors of Lutheran Social Services of New York and an accomplished guitarist.

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TRANSCRIPT

Intro: [00:00:07] Broadcasting live from the Business RadioX studios in Woodstock, Georgia. It’s time for Cherokee Business Radio. Now here’s your host.

Stone Payton: [00:00:24] Welcome to this very special edition of Cherokee Business Radio. Stone Payton here with you this afternoon, and I am delighted to bring back into the business radio studio with Beck Schott, Mr. Randy Beck. He’s going to be our host today. How are you, man?

Randy Beck: [00:00:40] I’m doing great. Stone Thanks for having us back. I’m bringing the gang, actually. Robert Mason and Stacey Wyatt, they’ve been here before, and we’re circling back on real estate topics again. So Stacey Wyatt, owner and broker of EXP over in Roswell.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:00:55] Yes, yes, yes.

Randy Beck: [00:00:56] And Robert Mason, real estate broker extraordinaire with EXP.

Robert Mason: [00:01:00] Yes, sir. I’m here all year.

Randy Beck: [00:01:02] So I guess the topic on everybody’s mind. Let’s get it out of the way right out front. Interest rates, What’s going on?

Robert Mason: [00:01:09] Okay, so historically speaking, interest rates have been anywhere between seven and nine and a half percent. So if you look at since the 1930s to the present day, I know we went through some incredible low periods of time and people were ecstatic. People were the lending institutions were refinancing, a lot of people out of five and six and seven. But there’s been a lot of panic and a lot of people associate the Fed’s mark ups with the with the interest rates and the mortgage industry. And that’s not fair because that’s not parallel. So interest rates I checked today, they’re under 6%, which is a really good a really good percentage. What people are failing to realize is when you’ve got a 1.75 or 2% interest rate on a mortgage, you don’t have a whole lot of deductions when you do your taxes. And so, historically speaking, rates are still low at, say, 5.5 to 6. And now we’re having you’ve got a much bigger income tax deduction when you do your taxes because of the interest rate.

Randy Beck: [00:02:11] So basically what you’re pointing out is that. Even though we had this super low trough of interest rates where we had our two and 3% mortgages or whatever they were, that the fact that they’ve jumped up to five, five and a half, six is not necessarily a big change.

Robert Mason: [00:02:26] No, it’s not a game changer. And I was looking at the numbers of houses that have sold this year as opposed to 20, 21, 20, 22 or 2020. And we are roughly at the same inventory moving the same amount of inventory, irregardless of the interest rates. And, you know, COVID opened up a lot of opportunity for people to move places. And Atlanta, we got about 120,000 people that moved here. And looking at the data, I’m very analytically driven. We’re going to roughly do about the same movements.

Randy Beck: [00:02:55] Now, analytically speaking, you know, an interest rate, it’s a big word. You’re doing leverage on a house, right? It’s like a this is like a bond. The big one, interest rates up, prices. What happens to prices? This is got to affect price.

Robert Mason: [00:03:08] Yeah, well, prices have actually backed down a little bit. The average price in Atlanta four months ago was 400,000. We’re down to about 385,000 as the average number. That’s not me saying that’s not Robert Mason’s numbers. Those are false data numbers that I brought for everybody to look at as well. So yet prices have dipped back down. When my wife and I bought our STR short term rental property at Big Canoe Harley Hideaway a couple of months ago when the house came on the market, it was listed at 550 where there was that big shift in late June, early July, we got the house for 45 because prices had come back down, which was a win for us, and it’s going to be a win for my clients.

Randy Beck: [00:03:50] Did you have an appraisal issue? Is that how you got it back down?

Robert Mason: [00:03:53] Yeah, the appraisal came in at 485 where it was listed at 550. The seller was horrified. We were grateful.

Randy Beck: [00:04:02] I guess that was based on what was going on in market prices, based on interest rates. Yeah.

Robert Mason: [00:04:06] Things had shifted over about a 30 day period and pretty steep.

Randy Beck: [00:04:11] Yeah. Stacey, how are you seeing these effects in the general market? You know, your brokerage covers a lot of ground. Are you seeing the same thing?

Stacey Wyatt: [00:04:19] Yeah, from a sales price, we’ve got to be a little bit careful because if you’re looking at it on a monthly basis, you know, which is I think what Robert is taking a peek at was it does appear the prices have come down. I think the better way to look at sales prices is on a 12 month rolling average. Right. So you can take 12 months. So if you look at it on a 12 month rolling average, prices are still trending upward because I think what we’re seeing a little bit right now is seasonality, right? If you go back and look at 2020 as a little, you got to throw that one out because that was COVID. But 2021, 2019, from June to October, prices have gone down every single year. So I think there’s a little bit of seasonality playing in. But let’s face it, long term with rates, I mean, they’re hovering around seven right now. Soon to we’ll see what the Fed does in November. It’s ultimately going to push prices downward. But, you know, are we we’re definitely not going to see the price growth like last year. What we saw like 20%, you know, is that getting down to 8 to 10 or a little bit lower or are we just going to get back to what has been for the last two decades, which is 3 to 6% growth, which is we don’t have a crystal ball, but at least in Atlanta, Georgia, I think we’re going to get to where prices flatten out and we get back to a little bit of a healthier three, 3 to 6% appreciation.

Randy Beck: [00:05:38] Last time you guys were here, we talked about people moving into Atlanta, like on the order of 150,000 people a year. Nowadays, something like that.

Robert Mason: [00:05:45] It’s 120 and.

Randy Beck: [00:05:46] 20,000 and so. Mai Mai. We talked about the outlook for the market with that many people coming in. Now, it strikes me that some changes happen in the market. You get a little speed up, a little slowdown or whatever. With that kind of demand for housing, there’s no way anybody can keep up. So my feeling is. Will be less affected here than other markets may be. Sure. What do you think?

Stacey Wyatt: [00:06:10] I would agree 100%. Atlanta. I mean, was it was either Fortune or Money magazine just voted. Atlanta’s the number one city to be in. And for all the reasons that we love to live here, it’s what I tell my team. It’s like our rate is going to have an impact. Of course, it’s going to be in the high dollar markets first. It’s going to be in what I call, like the Rust Belt states, you know, the Ohios, the where people are all leaving. Right. Nothing against Ohio or or that is just reality. Everybody’s coming to the Sunshine states from if you drew a, you know, sun belt which to me is like from Phenix draw the smiley face from Phenix to Atlanta. And for all the reasons like I enjoy living here, you know, so low cost of living, housing still relatively cheap. We got access to oceans, to beach, to lakes, to pretty much everything you want. And it’s a very pro-business environment. So that’s why everybody’s moving here. So I do think we’re going to be impacted the least in the country, mainly just because of the demographics and the pro-business environment. So 100%, I think Atlanta is going to survive this better than anyone in the country for sure.

Randy Beck: [00:07:09] Atlanta really hasn’t seen much of a recession compared to the other business markets.

Robert Mason: [00:07:13] As you know, COVID changed things in a lot of different ways. One of the main things that it did for the US in particular is you don’t have to live in New York City to work on Wall Street. You don’t have to live in Chicago to work on the mile. You can go anywhere that you want to go and you can literally walk out of your home. You can go to Florida and have an office or your your main gig in New York City or any state in the union. And that is a big, big plus, especially for us in the real estate business, because just like Stacey just said, people are coming to the Sunshine states or coming down south where the weather’s good. I mean, I’ve got clients coming out of California and they’ve sold a32 that’s 500 square feet and they sold it for 1,000,008. And they say, okay, Robert, where are we going? And I’ll show them something that’s 550 or 650, and they’re like, What’s wrong with it? You know, I’m like, There’s nothing wrong with it. It’s just a scale you’ve got. You’re scaling back pricewise. And so Georgia, Atlanta in particular, the greater Atlanta area. And that’s what we’re here to talk about as has been found, you know, it was that everybody was going to Florida. We see Hurricane Ian, you know, that was a big interrupter down there. And 2008 really took the shine off of Florida for a long period of time. And people you know, there’s a reason to come to Atlanta besides just the nice weather and the low taxes. You look at the Fortune 500 companies that are based here. I mean, we are expanding big, big time and it’s still affordable. I mean, look, average price house right now, 385, 400,000. That’s nothing if you’re in New York or Pennsylvania or New Jersey. And yeah, and back to something that states.

Randy Beck: [00:08:56] California or Washington.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:08:58] Oregon. Right.

Robert Mason: [00:08:59] So getting back to some of those numbers, we talked about growth. Stacy mentioned some of those numbers. My forecast is we could have a minus six price reduction from where we were up to, say a positive 5%. I think we’re going to be in that range. And I could see 18 to 20% appreciation levels like we saw for like two or three years. And so that’s what people are going to have to.

Randy Beck: [00:09:25] Estimate constitute a normal market here when you’re giving those numbers, is that what you would call a normal market or is that still hot or.

Robert Mason: [00:09:32] Well, Atlanta’s hot because of the numbers, right? So there’s a couple of different variables. Is that normal 5% appreciation? Probably, yes.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:09:42] And I would from an appreciation standpoint, absolutely, 3 to 6%. And it depends. Right. Like Metro Atlanta and Total’s been, I think on average, 3%, somewhere between three and six or last couple of decades. Obviously, if you’re in Buckhead, you’re probably going to get a little in-town, always typically pulled a little more or as you go out and maybe the outer stretches of metro Atlanta, maybe it’s a little less like three. But for all the reasons we described earlier, I don’t see how Atlanta really suffers greatly. Even if prices were to pull back a little bit just for everybody’s moving here in Buckhead.

Robert Mason: [00:10:14] It’s an interesting model to look at moving forward. Buckhead is talking about becoming their own city, right, pulling away from Atlanta like so many other folks. Woodstock, I mean, you know, people people are talking about Buckhead becoming their own city. And there’s a lot of variables to that, too. Right now. They’ve got some issues in Buckhead associated with crime. And there’s a lot of people that I know down in Buckhead who are like, I’m getting out of here. And these are people with money and they’re just tired of the nonsense.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:10:43] So pulling up the ten sticks and move into Milton, they’re getting this moving farther north because they I mean, Woodstock, if you can’t comfortably jog down in front of the next mall and not get shot just because you were jogging, which is unfortunate situation there. Yeah. And that was kind of a covert thing, too, where a lot of people are moving up in the northern burbs, getting a little bit of land. They can work from anywhere now. So it’s an interesting dynamic for sure. It is.

Randy Beck: [00:11:06] Stacey, a minute ago you mentioned seasonality. So Atlanta is this great outdoor lifestyle city. We got weather most of the time. It’s never really that cold. It doesn’t rain overly much. It’s a fantastic place for outdoor lifestyle and all that. How much seasonality do you have through the winter here? Typically.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:11:25] Typically, most home sold in Georgia is always second quarter. Second best quarter is fourth quarter. Right? First quarter is always the least. I mean, who’s really out shopping during December to write, you know, to write an offer and close in January, February. And then third quarter typically is the third best quarter and third quarter lands in July. I mean, if you’re in the burbs, you’re finishing vacation, you’re getting ramped up since we start school earlier here. But there really is no is there a seasonality? Of course. Right. Just fewer people that want to buy in the fourth quarter because you got the holidays, your kids are in school, you’re likely not wanting to move. But we’re a very pro-business environment. We get a lot of relocations into Georgia. I mean, I think 20% of our clientele is from California this year. So is there seasonality? Sure. But it’s not like we have to shovel eight feet of snow to show a house in December. I mean, how December here, I’m usually in shorts and, you know, pullover. But, you know, January is usually our cold months. So we do have seasonality, but man, people are buying and selling off for two quarters of a year here.

Robert Mason: [00:12:29] Thanks. I’ve changed. A little bit.

Randy Beck: [00:12:32] Okay. Before we move on to other topics. Accounting for seasonality, interest rates, slowdowns, general business environment, here’s the rapid fire question part Good areas for people moving into. Where should they be looking at?

Robert Mason: [00:12:51] I guess it starts.

Randy Beck: [00:12:51] To make money. Not not the nicest area, but where’s where’s the where’s the economic opportunity at?

Robert Mason: [00:12:56] Well, you would have to ask, do they have a family? Or school is important. So that would be the first question. I’ve got a client that’s coming in from Florida, from South Beach next Tuesday, and she’s like, we want to be in the north Georgia mountains. That is a huge switch for her, six, $700,000 purchase for them and moving to the mountain as opposed to the beach. I would ask what is important And, you know, like your your purchase down and near the beltline, you know that that area, that Pittsburgh area down there is really, really growing. So there’s really good opportunity at the price points that you could buy property down there. And if you’re looking to live there or is it something you want long term wealth on? All these questions are going to come up in the first 5 minutes of us talking to you.

Randy Beck: [00:13:40] When I got here, flips were huge hot. Is that still still a hot market?

Stacey Wyatt: [00:13:47] Yeah. I mean, we’re we’re still flipping quite a bit. We’re we’re being patient. And I tell my team and because, you know we do quite a few flips is we’re definitely making sure we’re buying at a deeper discount right now because we don’t know what price is going to here. I think a lot of flippers are going to get exposed over the next 90 days. For this reason. You got a lot of people that hadn’t flipped before got in the business. They could make a lot of mistakes and they were going to be saved because prices were running out of control. Now that prices have pretty much let’s just say they’ve stalled at, you know, at worst, let’s just say they’ve stalled. I still going to make the argument that they’re slightly going up. We just want to buy at a deeper discount because we know what our what our expenses are. And we we we always buy knowing what our RV or after repair value going into it. And we stick to that. We don’t assume that the market’s going to go up. I think a lot of people have assumed. So I think those are going to get exposed. But to answer your question is this I think it’s a tale of two markets right now, people’s houses that are in great condition and priced right.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:14:50] We’re still probably getting two or three offers on right now. It’s no longer the 15 offers and selling for 50 grand over list. A properly priced house that’s in good condition is still going to garner a few offers because we’ve still only got two months of inventory, which is low. Right. Six months is balanced. One zero months is no supply, which is a heavy seller. So we’re still in a strong seller’s market now. With that being said, here’s the other market. If your house is hasn’t been maintained, you’ve got deferred maintenance. You’ve got a wonky floor plan. Right. Buyers have already suffered their first of all, they have a little bit of PTSD from. Four months ago when there happened to be 50 grand over list, there are no contingencies. Now they’ve got rates that are going sky high, so they’re being a little more picky now. So if your house is not right, so me personally, where I think there’s opportunity from anybody moving into the land market, you’re going to have the 80% of the crowd that wants a house that’s perfectly ready, move in and not have to do any work. If you had an investor hat on or you wanted somebody came in and said, I want a little bit of opportunity, I’m going to tell you, going a little farther outskirts of Atlanta, you know, maybe like Powder Springs to the west, maybe Snellville to the east.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:16:06] Typically in areas that schools might not be as great. Right? Because we know that drives a lot of house values. Look for the little ugly ducklings, because they’re probably sitting. And if you have cash, it’s even better because you’re not affected by rates. Sellers are going to get a little more desperate in that end. And I think some people are going to be able to get some discounted houses for very good price that they could be walk into some equity. Because I think what happens long term here, it’s going to be interesting. I think first quarter is going to be a little bit of a hot mess, especially if rates go up again in November by the end of the year. I think what’s going to happen is there’s going to be a little pent up demand because they’re artificially tamping down. Well, they’re artificially tamping down demand, right. Because we know inflation is out of control. They claim it’s 8%. Last time I checked at the pump, at the grocery store, buying a car, buying a house is 20%. And I don’t I mean, for political reasons, obviously, they’re not going to advertise that.

Robert Mason: [00:16:59] You’re on the radio, though.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:17:00] Yeah, you’re right. You’re advertising.

Randy Beck: [00:17:02] Anybody that ever had an economics course knows you don’t clamp down on supply to kill inflation or print more money to kill inflation.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:17:07] Correct. Yeah. And what have we printed? Like 40% in the last 40% of our money supply in like the last five, six years?

Robert Mason: [00:17:14] Yeah, two years, actually.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:17:15] But yeah, yeah. A lot in that time. So just from that standpoint, I think it’s going to get really interesting next year. I do think maybe towards the end of the next year we’ll see third, fourth quarter somewhere say in second. I just don’t think it’s going to happen that quick, maybe third, fourth next year when they actually are going to have to step off the brake or step off the gas. On pumping the rates. I think there’s going to be a little bit of pent up demand for all these people that have been sitting on the side because inventory still that’s why it’s such a wonky market. Rates are high and an inventory slow. So you’ve got a feeling that that’s going to pop and some people are going to be able to ride that up at a later date.

Randy Beck: [00:17:49] Are the lenders clamping down based on interest rates, too? What’s what’s their strategy now?

Robert Mason: [00:17:53] Well, I think they’re just trying to hold on. I worked out with my lender, Brad Hartman, over at Cornerstone Mortgages this morning. And we talk we’re talking shop all day long while we’re working out. And I’m like, Brad, what what are the lenders thinking about? And he’s like, well, you know, there’s a lot of people that panicked early two months ago. Oh, my God, five, five and a half, 6% interest rates. And then that the the fear factor sets in but kind of tails off and people still need to move, Randi. They just you know, if you’re in Philadelphia or if you’re in California and your tax rates have gone up 16, 20% like New York City, you’ve got to get out. You’ve got to save yourself. So you’re going to look for a market like Atlanta and you’re going to pay the piper, you know, and that’s in the interest rate. But again, I’ll get back to you’ve got a bigger deduction. So that’s a way I soften that. And it’s not just me. It’s just it’s reality. Right? The lenders always fear change. We all fear change. Right. But I think that’s settling down. I think back to your original question on what are we looking for as far as opportunity part of the flipping issue and part of like the STR, the short term rental and investment portfolios.

Robert Mason: [00:19:08] The problem is labor costs, labor availability and being able to get things done quickly. And that has been a real bugaboo for our business for a while. I mean, look at if you’re looking for wood, you know, we’re having all kinds of supply chain issues and inflation and cost of a piece of board has gone up dramatically and people have not put that into their recipe and they haven’t done their homework right. And a lot of cases. And so they end up at the end game. Like when I got my sister, she didn’t expect to spend that much and she did. And it ended up being a case where she had to sell and we got it. Those are problems for people. Here’s something that we’re going to see early next year is we’re going to see some inventory of foreclosures. A lot of companies looking at their stock portfolios. They’re not expanding like they were. A matter of fact, they’re contracting. They’re letting people go. There’s a lot of people out there that are hurting because of inflation. And you’re going to see you’re going to see some foreclosures pop up. And I thought they were going to pop up earlier this summer and it kind of didn’t happen.

Randy Beck: [00:20:13] Even here in a strong business environment, you’re still going to see that even here.

Robert Mason: [00:20:17] And so you’re going to see some opportunity on foreclosures.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:20:19] And.

Randy Beck: [00:20:20] At the low end of the market or the high end or sort of broad based kind.

Robert Mason: [00:20:23] Of both.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:20:24] Yeah. I mean, in any weather. It’s a healthiest market of the worst market. I mean, because we look at foreclosures all the time, I do think there are going to be some foreclosures. But let’s face it, the banks learned a big lesson and eight, nine, ten and 11 working with their clients. Anything that may come out of that, because I get people ask me all the time, well, I’m going to wait market. Some people are going to get hammered. Stock markets got hammered. People are going to lose their jobs. There’s going to be opportunity, right? And there will be a little bit. I just think the banks learned a big lesson and they’re going to just like Robert said, they’re going to spend more time trying to figure work out because they banks don’t want to take houses back. They’re not in the home business, home selling business, nor do they want to dilute house values, which when they dumped all that inventory at mass back in when I got into the market in 2010, it really hurt house prices. Right. And then that’s why we’ve had such a ramp up since it.

Robert Mason: [00:21:15] Was a I.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:21:15] Think you’ll see a little bit.

Robert Mason: [00:21:17] It was an equity of 2008 when let’s just say that’s a crash. Your value went all the way back to 1998 and that was a big sum.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:21:26] And if you look at it, because even if you drew if you look at house prices over the last three decades. Right. And you’re still going to draw a line, you just see that big dip in house. But we’ve since made it up. Oh, right. So we’re obviously well past the oh seven market when when I was at its height before a crash. But to go to your question on the mortgage thing, so here’s a little just some numbers I was looking at. So year over year purchase mortgages are down 39% write refis are down 86%. So we’ve seen mortgage companies lay off some people because they just don’t have the level of refis and nobody’s going to be refined for quite a while. So purchase mortgages are down 40%. That’s a little disconcerting if you’re, let’s say, in the real estate game. However, the one thing that I do know is both in the agent world and the lender world, you’re going to start to separate the pros from the novices. And I don’t mean that to be mean. We are now move. Let’s all face it, it’s been pretty easy to do business in the residential real estate arena over the last couple of years. We’re now moving into a skill based market, right? The savvy mortgage people and the savvy agents are going to be the one that are advising their clients, like, hey, let’s talk about a21 buy down on the mortgage rate.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:22:37] Right? Sellers are going to have to get some concessions right now. And let’s just take a half a million dollar mortgage. Say the buyer puts 20% down. They’ve got a $400,000 mortgage. I can get the seller to pay roughly like 9800 bucks, let’s call it ten grand in seller concessions. And instead of a 7% rate year one, you’re going to get a five year two, it will go up to six, and by year three you’ll be back to your seven. Now we enter. I think we all know that we’re in a recession or I guess it depends how you define it. And you ask, right, What do they typically do to get us out of recession? They have to take their they have to lower rates, at which time you more likely can then refi it. I don’t know what you guys think, but I think rates like you said historically, even if you look since like 90, 1990 to 2022, median interest rates somewhere between five and five and a half. So I think the days at 3% are long gone. 4%. I don’t see a seen. Let’s get back to five, five and a half. That’s what it was before COVID and the market seemed to be really good then. So hopefully we just get back to a reasonable 3 to 6, 3 to 6% appreciation and rates in the fives and life will be good.

Randy Beck: [00:23:45] Now, a skill based market also means the real estate professionals, right? So you’re going to see some weeding out in that market. The survivors are going to be the only real estate, only going to be the real estate people that were smart enough to use like high quality professional imaging and marketing video from big Shot like, you know.

Robert Mason: [00:24:01] So but you laugh at that. But go to the point.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:24:04] There’s not.

Randy Beck: [00:24:04] Laughing at.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:24:05] It. There’s only two reasons a house sells is price and condition. Right? And the number one job of listing agent. First of all, you’ve got to get the house ready. Right? And we all know the job of good listing agents gets people through the door if they’re not using professional photography and the consumer expects high end video At this point, if you’re not doing that well, you’re probably going to be out the business very quickly because that is a skill based.

Randy Beck: [00:24:29] That iPhone video stuff is right out the window.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:24:31] So spine is really good now. I’m kidding.

Randy Beck: [00:24:34] Right? Sure it.

Robert Mason: [00:24:34] Is.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:24:35] I stick to know what I know. Well, and that’s just selling real estate.

Randy Beck: [00:24:38] I see a lot of both. I believe you. I really believe you how good it is. But if you look.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:24:43] At listings, though, right, you could tell a seasoned agent from a non seasoned agent based on the photos in the video, when you when you agree that you’re professional.

Randy Beck: [00:24:50] Absolutely. I can tell I can tell their annual production by looking at how they market.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:24:53] Correct. And those are the ones I’m looking for because I want to pick that listing up when it doesn’t sell because that was an agent that just doesn’t have the skills to be able to or didn’t care. And that’s the market that we’re moving into that I think is going to expose a lot.

Randy Beck: [00:25:05] If you’re thinking about moving to Atlanta, here’s what you want to know. Moving out of New York, Pennsylvania, California. Right. They’re going to sell that million eight house. They’re going to have a 500 and $600 million price, and they’re going to have a pile, a bucket full of change left over to do something else with. Right. So these are potential investor buyers. And I know you’ve been making big strides in short term rentals lately. So let’s talk a little bit about investment properties and short term rentals.

Robert Mason: [00:25:35] Okay. So people make mistake by saying, oh, I’m going to get into the Airbnb business or I’m going to get into the VRBO business. No, you’re getting into the short term rental business. Those are companies. Strs are not something that you’re going to make money just playing around with and doing willy nilly. You have to do your research and literally there are videos for every step of the way to put your story together. So there’s I mean, my wife, she’s an IT and she knows her way around data and I know my way around real estate and values, but I had to watch videos and videos and videos and listen to podcasts of people that have done it. So I wouldn’t make those mistakes. So there’s no excuse to to get it wrong. And I lean on my investors that I’ve represented like Brad and, and five or six of other guys that got four or five stars. I lean on them and I go to and I’m like, okay, guys, I’m going to do this. I’m not only going to sell you that house, I’m going to be investing myself. So what should I be doing? What should my wife and I be thinking about? And the first thing is, okay, here’s a list of videos you need to watch.

Robert Mason: [00:26:46] Just like when I talk to you and I’m constantly saying, Listen to this, watch this, take these notes, use these tools. And there’s a lot of tools for success. But I see I still see some lazy folks out there trying to just throw it out there. And the analytics on let’s just say Airbnb sites have changed and some of that has changed to the point where even seasoned STR folks, I look at their site and I just I’m like, why did they why are the headers like this? Why are they doing this? And the percentages are going down on the bookings because of it, because people don’t understand it. But I mean, I’m building an I’m building a good base of properties. I’m building a good. Base of professionals like yourselves to help me be into this business. And like the client that’s coming up from South Beach. I’m putting all of my pros in the car with her, and we’re going to we’re going to take her to the stage that we got in at. And hopefully there’s not going to be any pause or any hiccups.

Randy Beck: [00:27:47] Are you up on the new Airbnb rule in Atlanta? The ordinance, they passed about two houses and all that.

Robert Mason: [00:27:53] Yeah, I saw that. But that’s that’s City of Atlanta ordinance.

Randy Beck: [00:27:56] City of Atlanta.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:27:57] Right. Specifically. And you have to live in the state. So yeah, they really are.

Randy Beck: [00:28:01] Not allowing a foreign investor essentially from another state.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:28:04] You don’t live in the state in state of Georgia.

Randy Beck: [00:28:06] And I know there’s other.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:28:07] Than too.

Randy Beck: [00:28:07] I know there’s a short term rental association down there and they are recommending not to register yet, not because they’re not enforcing that rule at least until the end of the year. Yeah. And part of the part of the dispute is they make you register at least one of them is your primary house. And I don’t know, my guess is most of the short term rental people are probably not using their primary house now, of course. And so there’s a there’s a point of nonsensical, nonsensical reality in the ordinance, Right. That they’re trying to resolve. But does that apply across anywhere else or is that strictly in Atlanta?

Robert Mason: [00:28:43] Well, right now, that city of Atlanta, now there’s other there’s other provinces. There’s other cities like Big canoe. They’ve got some changes on their poha and they’re just you know, they’ve got 240 rentals at Big Canoe and there’s 3000 homes and big canoe, and they’re all up in arms because of you know, there’s 8% of the big canoe is is rentals, short term rentals and that we should pay more because we’re taxing the system more which.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:29:08] Is along Lake Lanier. Since these come out, that’s become a little bit of an issue, too, because, I mean, I had a friend whose whole strategy was they went and bought like 1,000,002 house, right? Big house. And then they can go rent it out for three days over a weekend for a huge party of 40 for like 1520. K The challenge is the people to the right are the people to the left may be homeowners and they don’t want 40 cars and 40 people and be loud all night. So there are a lot of restrictions that Forsyth and some of those counties have put in there. So you really have got to do your homework. I’ve stayed away from STR not because of all of that. I just didn’t get it in in early enough. But now it seems like as everything’s transitioning, just being very careful.

Robert Mason: [00:29:52] We’ll talk about that afterwards. Your other show.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:29:55] I still think a long term wise, Here’s what I would say too is for me, because I’ve always flipped and I do small holds in the areas that I know if I was to go. The STR game definitely interests me because I am a long term holder. I think the two things people need to know is one, there’s a lot of noise with an Airbnb, right? You’re talking people coming in and out. You’ve got to be a good host. There’s cleaning, there’s all of that. So like you said, I think you’ve got to go into the game knowing that this is a little more of either hire a really good property manager if you’re going to do it, know what you’re getting into. But I have seen cases where I’ve got friends that are making a fortune on the STRs. My point was I just haven’t studied the game enough. If I was going to go buy an STR up in the mountains right now, I’d probably hire you or have somebody go show me, because I just haven’t taken the time to do the homework on it.

Robert Mason: [00:30:42] There’s a lot of details and, you know, there was a there was a big hubbub a couple of years ago. There was a bunch of house parties down in Buckhead in particular, where they were somebody would come in and rent out a nice house and they would have 203 hundred people at this all weekend party. And they were things were getting destroyed and people were getting shot and it ended up being party houses. And so one of the things that I like about Big Canoe is there’s a gate that allows cars in or not and custodian. There’s a lot of subdivisions throughout Atlanta where you have to get through the gate to get through and you have to get a gate code or a gate pass. And that kind of alleviates that kind of a problem, which I’m a man that makes tons of sense. But so.

Randy Beck: [00:31:27] You bought in Big Canoe and Hartmann also has at least one in big canoes.

Robert Mason: [00:31:30] Sold Brad one three weeks ago. One big canoe.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:31:34] Yeah. And the reason I like these str is also, again, from a different perspective, because I don’t own one, right? Is I’m doing a team retreat next week, next Thursday and Friday, and it costs me 2500 bucks for two nights. Wow. Right.

Randy Beck: [00:31:47] I know a great place down in downtown Atlanta. You can use.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:31:49] Oh, you got to let me know.

Robert Mason: [00:31:50] Know a bunch of property.

Randy Beck: [00:31:51] So. So your your Stacy, your exposure to investment real estate a little different. You’re doing construction flips. What all. Tell me about your version of investment real estate.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:32:01] Yeah. So somebody recently corrected me. I always talked about flipping houses as an investment, which it’s not really an investment, right?

Randy Beck: [00:32:09] I like speculation.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:32:10] It’s what I’ve done. Use for wealth, basically wealth acceleration, right? Because it’s taxed like ordinary income. So to me, it’s not really an investment. The investments come into play, which is when you start holding properties because that’s when you get all the advantages of owning real estate, right? Get somebody paying down the mortgage. I’ve. Table. I still write off my taxes. I get to write off my mortgage interest. I get depreciation. When you get really savvy at the whole game, then you can get into special depreciation, depreciate it much quicker, start helping to offset some taxes. And if you’re a real estate professional, there are some carry carry forward losses and some other things you get an advantage of. So. Me Yeah, we use the flips a lot of times to accelerate our wealth because then if I can generate more capital, I can say, let’s say I make 100 grand on a house. Well, now I can take five sets of 20 K if you look at it that way, for 20,000 deposits on five more rentals. So for me getting into I’ve always just long, long term rentals, mainly because that’s just been my comfort level and I hadn’t had time to get on the STR craze, but I am interested in that, especially in the secondary markets like the mountains and around the lakes and everything George has to provide because we’ll talk later. Stacy I don’t think that’s stopping anytime soon.

Randy Beck: [00:33:26] I see Stone over here listening and taking notes. He’s he’s figuring out where to put all that big radio money.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:33:30] Exactly how important to all of us.

Stone Payton: [00:33:32] I’m handing all my money to.

Randy Beck: [00:33:34] The millionaire makers, the market masters right here. Yeah. So short term rentals in Atlanta have some unique features. I just shot one the other day. It’s becoming an Airbnb for 20 $300 a night. Six bedrooms, 9000 square foot place. Right. And house the Cobra kai house, right. Yeah, they can you can add on to that. A private chef. Private jets in and out of Atlanta. Exotic car rentals, limousine rentals. You know, this is a big deal place, right? So they’re going to they’re looking to capture big dollars on every night that somebody’s staying there. And it’s a unique house, not only because of the film set, but also because it’s an old Tuscan style villa and the shower, the shower in the.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:34:19] Main style with it. Right.

Randy Beck: [00:34:20] It’s not an old house. It’s just built like in the shower in the main bathroom is 14 by 14. And it’s two nozzles coming out of the wall, right? I mean, this is a.

Robert Mason: [00:34:29] Cold.

Randy Beck: [00:34:30] In there. It’s a party shower and and every room, you know, it’s built like a villa, right? Every room opens onto a courtyard or the swimming pool or an outdoor space of some sort. So you’re never more than one door away from the outdoors. It’s really neat place.

Robert Mason: [00:34:42] Well, you’ll be shooting the parties at that house sometimes.

Randy Beck: [00:34:46] I don’t know what I’m going to shoot, but that’s.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:34:48] What the house ended up selling for. No, it’s two one, two, two.

Randy Beck: [00:34:51] It was 2.4 million, the owners. So what happened was Cobra Kai has rebuilt those interior sets in a soundstage now. Okay. It’s much easier to control the light, believe me, after being in there and shooting video. So they get more control that way. And and so the owners, they’re still shooting the exteriors there, at least occasionally. So the owners have said, I guess how how do I replace that income? Right. Yeah. So one of their whatever it is, they made the business decision to sell this into an LLC and operate as an Airbnb. So that’s what they did. They put it in an LLC and now it’s now it’s going to become a high end Airbnb.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:35:30] Well, do I think they could have done that ten years ago? Probably no. Why do I think they can do it now? We’re the Hollywood of the East Coast. Yeah, we.

Randy Beck: [00:35:36] Are. Well, that show was.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:35:37] A rap where the rap music hub of the East Coast were all Hollywood stars like a lot of pro athletes have. Like, we’re we are now a super diverse city that anybody that wants something can get in Atlanta.

Randy Beck: [00:35:54] That particular show shoots nearly all of their footage here. Yeah, very, very little of it’s actually shot in California, where it’s set Exactly. A couple of a couple of pieces. But most of it’s here in in that house down in Union City is where his where Danny La Russo’s dealership is. Right. They’re using one down in Union City. Really? So it’s all around Atlanta and there’s a lot more to. They’re hardly the only show shooting around here. Walking Dead was around here somewhere.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:36:21] Yeah. Stranger things. I mean, Ozark, like I don’t think people realize when I say, you know, Atlanta is the we have more major motion pictures shot here than LA, mainly because of Marvel. Right. Marvel Studios is down south of town and they’re building another studio there. And there was a time when they had to bring all of the let’s call them the technical people, right. The grips, the makeup artists, all that stuff. Well, now there is an actual school next to Marvel Studios, so they all get trained. They don’t have to come from California. They just walk next door into one of the two.

Randy Beck: [00:36:56] Studios, walk their way right into the business here.

Robert Mason: [00:36:58] Correct. I just sold the house to a gal that’s a makeup artist for all of that. And she makes fantastic money and she her opportunities are just great. I’ll think about.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:37:08] The cost of living in LA versus Atlanta. Oh, yeah. I mean, it’s crazy. Yeah, well, look.

Randy Beck: [00:37:12] Look at Tyler Perry Studios alone. Look what he did with that old Army base. It’s incredible. And then there’s Treeless down there on the South Side, which is a whole community literally built around the movie industry. Mm hmm. And you can live there and work there on one side of the highway. It’s houses, and the other side it’s soundstages and offices and production suite.

Robert Mason: [00:37:30] And when you bought your place down in Pittsburgh, that’s we had these conversations about these opportunities.

Randy Beck: [00:37:35] Yeah, yeah. It’s two miles from Tyler Perry and you know, draw, draw one mile circle around it. There’s probably 20 studios.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:37:41] All right. That’s funny. Yeah. Just right down the street from you. We just had a client is actually an Internet lead. We bought the house, we renovate it for him, and he just turned it into an SDR. He works in the movie industry, and he’s going to rent it out to, you know, all his connections within there. They all need a place to stay. He’s like, Hey, I got my place. Here you go. Perfect.

Randy Beck: [00:37:59] So and so. So we kind of went down a rabbit trail there. But but that Cobra Kai house is an example of how unique this short term rental business can be and how, you know, how you can find an angle and really play it right. I’ve got to figure if you’re close to a stadium, that’s a good investment. You’re close to the arts and the cultural centers of Atlanta. That’s a good that’s a good investment.

Robert Mason: [00:38:22] And our income is an A-plus and a minus and a B plus. So. Beach properties. Obviously, you got the beach. That’s going to be a something, right? Mountain properties like Blue Ridge, Ella, Jay Bigelow, Helen, those are going to be aged for the most part because it’s destination oriented. Then when you get in kind of the B-plus, which you kind of like down in Pittsburgh, downtown Woodstock, downtown Roswell, I think downtown Roswell is an A-plus because there are no hotels down there. There’s nowhere to stay. And they got all those convention centers, our offices there. And there’s no there’s there’s nowhere to stay down there. And so I personally push my investors to look in downtown Roswell. I’m looking for downtown Roswell all the time. And I think there’s going to be some opportunity in the cities like right around here as well. I’m looking at that house that I was telling you the other day about. That’s downtown Woodstock. You can drive a golf cart downtown.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:39:18] Well, all those cities now are moving to Alpharetta downtown area, like what, seven years didn’t exist. So they’re all moving back to this little because of the only downside of like I’ve just talked about, all the upside of L.A. Like downside is we know it’s traffic. Traffic. So everybody’s moving more to these like Holly Squares is or Holly Square’s Holly Springs is in the process of building a little downtown area. So I’m with you 100% anything down like in a downtown, walkable golf cart. That’s what people want. They want the experience, the shops, the restaurants, and they don’t have to go far for it.

Robert Mason: [00:39:46] If we could just talk East Cobb into doing the same thing. Right.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:39:49] They’re doing the avenue, so we’ll see what happens there at.

Robert Mason: [00:39:51] The Cobra Kai house. We got that.

Randy Beck: [00:39:53] Going for us. Exactly. On on Woodlawn right over there.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:39:55] Yeah, Yeah. Right behind Chick-Fil-A.

Randy Beck: [00:39:57] It’s going to it’s going to fuel.

Robert Mason: [00:39:59] Right behind the 15 banks.

Randy Beck: [00:40:00] The economic recovery of the whole area.

Robert Mason: [00:40:02] Yeah, we got tire stores, so we got that going for us.

Randy Beck: [00:40:05] Well, listen, you guys have been a strong presence on on the show here so far. So let’s take a minute and talk about XP. Sure. Right. This is your chance to recruit or pitch your business or anything you want to do as far as why XP, what’s good about XP and so forth.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:40:21] Well, I’ll throw it out there. So, you know, Robert runs his own business under Robert Mason and then I’ve run mine under CC White flag. Right. And XP there’s been a big shift in let’s call real estate brokerages with technology and a lot of other things. The broker itself doesn’t carry as much value to agents anymore. Right. And that’s not to diminish it. But, you know, if I asked a client this, would you pay me more, more commission if I was my own broker or I was at XP, they’re going to hell. No, I wouldn’t pay you more. My point exactly, XP is basically giving us a platform, a virtual platform that we are more connected with the agent, obviously with the agent community worldwide because XP was a company that went, you know, I’ve been here three years. When I joined, they had 18,000 agents. They then jumped to like 50 and we’re already at 85,000 agents from from 18 to 85. It’s historic growth. The only way they could do that is because it’s not the old franchise system. Right. Which I’m going to likened to Blockbuster. You’ve got to have the master franchiser that then goes sells a region, the regional owner buys and then has to go sell market center or like market centers or franchises. And that takes time and money on a virtual brokerage like and when I say virtual, like we literally have a piece of software, Robert and I make our little avatars that look just like us. And is it wonky out of the gate? Oh, yes, it is a little weird. It’s like Sims world.

Robert Mason: [00:41:48] I don’t have a bald spot on my little guy.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:41:50] Yeah, You know, And I could get my tennis shoes or my fat belly. Just perfect. But the cool thing is, if I have a luxury listing in East Cobb next to, let’s say I wanted to sell Cobra Kai’s mansion, right? I literally can walk into the virtual software and I could talk to somebody in Dubai. I could talk to somebody in Italy, I could talk to somebody in London in my office that could sell that house. And so they’ve turned it where I like an XP. Now to Netflix versus the old school broker model, which is more of a blockbuster type situation. The other piece I’ll add into that is EXP is publicly traded. They actually were a penny stock that has since grown to the Nasdaq and Nasdaq and they’ve got a large larger market cap than Compass Realogy, which includes Sotheby’s, all the major franchises basically combined. So what does that do for the consumer and the agent? Well, for the agent, we’re finally being treated like we’re owners of the company, Right, versus the brokers making all the money. So Glenn is the CEO of the company has built a platform that not only could I build whatever type of business I wanted, it’s allowed me to partner with guys like Robert, Right? Robert and I how we live less than 10 minutes from each other.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:43:01] We work in the same area. So I could look at Robert, say He’s a competitor of mine, right? I take more of an abundance mentality. Robert and I now can work together and help each other with our businesses because he could do 100 transactions. I could do a hundred transactions, and we may never do a deal together. So if you take an abundance mentality in this mindset, XP is now leverage. So the better Robert does and the better I do, the better the stock price does. And since XP gives us stock, we’re now owners. And then there’s some other things you can do. On revenue share and some other things. So the company is really put the agent first versus the broker first, because at the end of the day, even if I likened it to Wall Street, the consumer doesn’t care whose broker in the deal, like if I’m going to buy stocks, I don’t care who’s the clearinghouse to broker the deal. They just want to know that the deal got done. So nobody’s paying us more. The fact that I’m not my own brokerage. So we decided to build our businesses on the expense.

Randy Beck: [00:43:53] It’s not like we’re Sotheby’s. We get extra money for that anymore.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:43:56] No, and that comes up so much and we can make it. I can make an easy pitch on how many luxury homes we’ve sold in comparison to the Sotheby’s or Ainsley’s. We’re in a day of social media. You’re in video. I can be my own spokesperson. I’ve got social media to my advantage. Your brand is stronger than the broker’s brand. First of all, clients work with people. They don’t work with the brokerage. Half the people think on my own brokerage because I’m branded so well. I wasn’t branded so well four or five years ago. Now you’re branded really well. They don’t even know who XP is. Most don’t even bring it up. Most of consumers don’t understand that. So the agents that I feel haven’t developed a really strong brand lean on. Well, I’m with Sotheby’s because they hope it gets some higher sales price. At the end of the day, it’s your network of who’s going to be in your Rolodex, right. To get you that business. And then you better hope you’re branded really strong to be able to compete.

Randy Beck: [00:44:52] We’re in a time where where these market paradigms are shifting. You know, in my world, I talk a lot. You’re playing right into presentations. I make all the time about the fact that the advertising model is becoming largely obsolete, except in radio and content marketing is taken over. So it’s a very comparable subject to what you’re just saying 100% about your branding. Now, Robert, you moved to XP, what, six months ago? Something like that.

Robert Mason: [00:45:17] Yeah, about five months ago.

Randy Beck: [00:45:18] Five months ago. So you came from Keller and Keller.

Robert Mason: [00:45:22] Williams at eight years.

Randy Beck: [00:45:23] And remember, remember, I knew Gary Keller back in Austin. So if you’re blowing smoke up my skirt, I’m going to know it. How’s the transition been for you?

Robert Mason: [00:45:30] Well, I was with Remax back in the early 2000, and Sean Rawls, who started Keller Williams got wind of who I was, and I was doing some pretty good stuff over there. And Remax Atlanta at the time was like the cat’s meow. We were we were doing more business than everybody. And so I came to a couple of meetings with Sean Rawls, and I was really, really impressed with what Keller Williams was doing. And it was the new wave. It did take over from the the axis of the world, the other guys. And so having spent eight years there, being on the leadership Council, helped leading a team that I was a part of for a while, I started to get the impression that the company was moving away from agent friendly, and for years we were called the technology company because nobody else had the training and stuff like that. It started moving away from us. Stacy left a bunch of good agents, left my ex wife who recruited me to Keller Williams ex wife, and she actually recruited me kind of to EXP as well. So we’re still connected there, which is a good thing. But Stacy and I had been doing some deals when we’ve been talking and I’d been bringing some deals to him and I have so much respect for Stacy.

Robert Mason: [00:46:43] I was like, at some juncture I want to hook my wagon somewhat some sorts of way with Stacy Wyatt. And it was the right time. And Stacy and I sat down and he gave me the the the tour, the 5000 foot tour of what the company looks like. And one of the things that that attracted me to XP was brick and mortar costs a lot of money, right? And so all of these real estate companies are spending an inordinate amount of money on brick and mortar office space and employees. And having had a peek behind the curtain when I was with the LLC, I saw the numbers that were being spent on all of this stuff. And what that did, what that did was it was less monies to go to the agents. One of the great things about XP, whenever I have a closing, I had a $16,000 check come out the other day from a closing and a certain amount of percentage of that went towards XP stock. I never saw the amount. I literally don’t even know how much goes out of my check to my stock portfolio. Free XP.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:47:48] At a 10% discount.

Robert Mason: [00:47:49] At a at a discount where stocks right now are being discounted all together. And five years from now, when the stock market goes back up or however long that takes, I’m going to I’m going to be stockpiling all of this stock at cheap prices and it’s going to be worth even more. I like the idea of the virtual platform because I don’t need to go to an office. I don’t need to bump into people, I don’t need to talk to people. I need to be talking to people who can come by and buy and sell. I’d go to Keller Williams and I’d get caught up training people and giving people advice and sitting down with people that want to get to where I’m at, which I love teaching and training and giving people knowledge, right? Because the stronger our industry is, the better they’re going to be, the better we’re going to look. And we get reputation. You know, realtors, I was on a podcast Sunday night and it was talking about the Second Amendment and concealed carry for realtors and I was the expert in that on on that subject matter.

Randy Beck: [00:48:46] Now this is Georgia. Every realtors got their 45 in their pocket or their handbag. Right. You know, and that’s not why not.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:48:52] Glock is my choice.

Robert Mason: [00:48:53] Yeah, I’m a Glock guy, too.

Randy Beck: [00:48:54] Okay. Glock.

Robert Mason: [00:48:55] And this particular show ended up being the number one watched podcast for these guys, two Alphas talk. And it’s with Saber Team Tactical.

Randy Beck: [00:49:05] Where I should say.

Robert Mason: [00:49:07] It was their number one. Show by far. We had 35 people calling in. It was it was impressive stuff and it was great. It was Sunday night, 9:00 till 11:00. That being said, I wanted to hitch my wagon with Stacy. He gave me a lot of reasons why that was a good idea. And all I can say is, man, that was the right decision. And expe is is the new kid on the block. It’s got to be.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:49:31] And if I was just to tie that out, there’s just been a it’s been a shift in the business model. You know, in the 1900s, early 1970s Coldwell Banker high split to the broker low split to the agent because it was there was no technology right broker had all the information then it moved can argue century 21. But then Remax really came in with a high split model. Their agents keep more, but they pay high higher on a monthly. Then Keller Williams came in and brought in new model in Remax model. And I’m not being market resistant. So when the market crashed back in ten, how many agents can pay that high of office bill? Even if they’re getting 95% of their commission? They couldn’t. Many of the Remax offices went talking, talk about Sean Rawls, went belly up. They all came to work for KW because TCW or they brought in the cap where an agent only pays in in Atlanta 18,000. After that for your anniversary, you get to keep rest of your money and they brought profit share. So they brought in a brilliant model. Right? I was KW ten years. You never hear me say a bad thing. But then I saw this new kid on the block come out and seen where the market’s going, the Netflix versus Blockbuster. I’m like, Wow, these guys are commissions are shrinking, expenses are not going down. They’re going up. How long are these blockbusters, these old franchise is going to last? I saw the virtual model being treated like an owner, so I don’t have to go own a blockbuster. And it’s just the new wave. Now you’re seeing all the knockoffs of XP come out, all the new broker. There’s some couple KW agents that left and modeled their new brokerage after the XP structure. Real and some of these other knockoffs have all come in to do that. So I think you kind of know when you’re doing it right was everybody else starts to copy you.

Randy Beck: [00:51:11] So your paradigm is changing from who used to control the information. Now it’s more it’s more and more going about how easy can you make people engage with the information and who’s got the farthest reach on their brand and their and their customer contact, their customer relationships 100%.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:51:28] And that’s why people hire you to do video.

Randy Beck: [00:51:30] It’s exactly what.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:51:30] Because I’m now like I look at the Stacey Wyatt Group is it’s much bigger than me now, right? It’s you know, I’m now responsible for 14 people on my team and it’s no longer about Stacey Wyatt. I’m now a spokesperson for the brand. So I hire somebody like yourself to do video because and this is a perfect example. I’ve got a guy.

Randy Beck: [00:51:48] What a great idea.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:51:49] Great idea. 30 days in my George is another friend of ours. It’s in our group, started a YouTube channel and he has produced 30, I think something like 30 videos and this is less than 30 days. He was already got 11,000 views and he’s already probably got 8 to 10 people off of that. Now he’s got a little bit of a niche because he’s he’s bilingual, putting all his stuff in Spanish. He’s already got three or four leads off of that. That stuff’s working while he’s sleeping, Right.

Randy Beck: [00:52:15] So not only is it working when you’re sleeping, but it’s working everywhere, all at once. Everywhere, no matter where. You know, in Ukraine during the middle of the war, it’s still working for you. If somebody wants to find out about you. You know, it was interesting. When I first started doing video way back, I made this stupid little video for my off roading stuff about how to build an off road trailer frame, Right. Because I was building a.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:52:37] Little camper ahead of your.

Randy Beck: [00:52:38] Time. Yeah, I was pulling a little camper. Building a little camper I could pull behind my 4×4. Right. And and my friend was welding it up because he knew how to weld. And I’m a I’m worse at welding than I am at golf.

Robert Mason: [00:52:51] And would you say.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:52:52] It’s you and I should meet golf partners.

Randy Beck: [00:52:53] So I had smoke and sparks and all that and talked about a little bit about the I’m I’m a former naval engineer. Before the teams, I was on a ship, I was an engineer. And so I kind of had an idea of how to build this, much like a ship is constructed. It made a neat little trailer that only £800 at the end so you could pull it behind a Tesla if you wanted to, and a leaf or a Prius. And and so.

Robert Mason: [00:53:18] Not through saltwater, though.

Randy Beck: [00:53:19] So I put this video on on my I had a YouTube channel for my off road stuff. Right And I put it up there and I kind of forgot about it, you know, and I occasionally get a message and I’d answer it and all that. And one day I was looking and it had 37,000 views on that one thing. And I was like, Well, order some trailers, man.

Robert Mason: [00:53:37] I’ll build them for you. Yeah.

Randy Beck: [00:53:39] But it was really cool. Video has reached that you just, you just don’t expect.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:53:42] And so when you say if you’re comparing kind of the older model brokerages, right. I think the forward looking brokerages understand that the agent is now the brand and the consumer that in you’re the tightest to the consumer. So if they’re not using video, they’re not on social media. We have the ability to have our own. I do think radio is still a huge play. We’re looking into that now. Do you think billboards still have a little bit of play in the. Game. I struggle with everybody in their car staring down at their phone. But those still have pretty great reach, at least for now. But if agents aren’t using video and social media to basically act like their own TV station, have you? That is the new way of everything. And it sets us up to leverage. If I’m sitting in here doing a podcast. I’m not out regenerating, right? And that’s the old school. But if I’ve done 100 videos on what it’s like to be in the land of my fave five of favorite five dog parks, that stuff’s living and operating while we’re here. And I could have three DMS when I get back saying, Hey, I want to move to Alpharetta.

Randy Beck: [00:54:47] You know, commercial brokerages have for so long been a good old boy thing, and it’s all about the Rolodex control of information, right? They’re not they’re not as advanced as the residential people yet on the use of marketing and on videos and on ways of creating contact with their clients. But some are here and there. Michael Burr down in Atlanta found out about him through the group. Hi, Chris Myer and and spoke to him the other day. He’s been doing a panel, you know, a TV style panel, commercial real estate show every day for ten years. He’s been doing it.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:55:23] I think Robert needs to talk to him.

Randy Beck: [00:55:25] Yeah. And he’s and he.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:55:26] Might be a good fit somewhere. Yeah.

Randy Beck: [00:55:27] You know, he’s killing it. Yeah. So, I mean.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:55:30] He gets it. The market is modern day marketing.

Randy Beck: [00:55:32] Yeah, right. It’s changing.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:55:34] Yeah. I mean, I’ve got at this point three Vas in the Philippines that do a ton of stuff for me, right. It’s like, figure out who are your people to build your marketing machine. So.

Randy Beck: [00:55:45] Well, listen, the last time you were here, I drove the whole discussion. Today, I kind of have to. Making you talk about things maybe you wouldn’t rather talk about, like, interest rates. So let me throw it open a little. What do you guys want to talk about?

Stacey Wyatt: [00:55:56] Jump in there, Robert.

Robert Mason: [00:55:57] Go ahead, Stacey.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:56:00] Well, I think to your point earlier, what you’re talking about is just because I do talk to a lot of agents. My friend put it. You think there’s going to be a bloodbath in first quarter for agents, mortgage brokers, just where the things are moving, right. Because the majority of agents have gotten the business in the last five or six years. So they’ve known nothing but a good market, right? So now we are talking a skill based market. So I do think there’s going to be a thinning of the herd both in agents and mortgage brokers which transactions are already down 20%. And so there’s less volume. But as the agents, it’s a tough market, right? Because it’s a weird market and you’re having to give good advice to sellers and buyers. But the beauty of it is and I wrote this down, so I pulled it out the other day, the bright side of this is, you know, real estate is one of three basic human needs, right? Shelter, water, water and food. And for all the reasons and don’t want to come off too trite, but death, debt, divorce, deployment, displacement, meaning like relocation, disease, COVID, and then I say delivery for people having babies. Those are all reasons people need to buy and sell.

Randy Beck: [00:57:02] Like days of the apocalypse there.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:57:05] But, you know, listen, life still happens. People are still going to have to buy and sell. And, you know, you go back and look at the eighties when interest rates were in the teens to high twenties. Real estate is still going to transact. When I got in the business in 210 and I thought that there was nobody buying and selling. Well, everybody in health care and military complex and everybody else needed to buy and sell. So my advice to agents would be it’s like, listen, you need to get an environment that you are learning in a learning based environment, and you better be building some muscles because we are in a skill based market. The good news is there’s going to still going to be people to serve that are going through all of those different life changes. Right. And not to get your head off of Nightline news if you aren’t already like you’re being so programed at that point because 90% of this business is mindset. And when I say it’s between the six inches, between your ears. 10% of skills. So where I am saying we’re moving to a skill based, skill based market. If your mindset is not right, I don’t care if you’re in real estate, mortgage, video, or selling widgets to me is get your mind right or get yourself in an environment that’s going to. Give you the right mindset to succeed regardless, because I actually like down markets more than I like up markets.

Randy Beck: [00:58:18] So as much as I would like to say that my transition out of corporate America into big shot is the best decision I ever made, It’s really only the second best one I ever made.

Stacey Wyatt: [00:58:27] What was your.

Randy Beck: [00:58:27] First getting rid of TV? There you go. Yeah. Robert, what’s on your mind?

Robert Mason: [00:58:32] So I’ll segway on the back of what he just said. I too, think, you know, I’ve already seen it. There’s a big. There’s a big. Negative loss of realtors and mortgage bankers and people that are in the real estate business, whether it be title companies, whether it be attorneys that just got in like 2008, we saw like a reduction of at least 35 to 40% of the actors. And when I say actors, whether it be builders, whether it be closing attorneys, real estate agents, there was a there was a big, big shift in that market. We’re going to see a bunch of that happening now. I try to tell people in Stacy’s already said it’s all about mindset. Life is about mindset. And a lot of people get stuck on what happened or the baggage that they’ve got or a failure that they came through. And one of the simplest things I tell people is the windscreen and your car is bigger than your rearview mirror for a reason. Don’t forget what happened in the past, but keep looking forward. People keep finding ways to move forward and to modernize your business like what we’re doing right here with stone and doing with you with videos and whatnot. And you and I talk about this a great deal. Okay? You’ve got to figure out what is working in the marketplace If you’re going to stay in this market as a realtor or a mortgage person or anything else, and you’ve got to put in the mat time use mat time on an old wrestler, you know, the more I wrestled, the better I was.

Robert Mason: [01:00:06] And the more time you spend figuring out what works, what are the analytics, really know them, don’t just make it up and and keep persevering and don’t listen to the naysayers. There’s a lot of people out there. I wrote a post on Facebook today and I meant to to make people mad. Basically, I have friends and folks around me that they’re just negative. They start with their injuries or their illnesses and everything else. When I call them on the phone or I see him out, Hey, man, how are you doing? And that’s an open invitation to tell me about all your woes. I don’t want to hear that. You know, I got my own woes. I’ve had my own injuries and my own stuff that’s happened. But I’m not going to tell you all that stuff. What I’m going to tell you is what I can do and how we can do it and how we can have fun and how we can move forward. So I definitely think that there’s going to be some challenges next year, but there’s going to be some opportunities because wealth is driven and rough times and I’m going to be there and I can help folks do that. And I appreciate the opportunity to come on air Stone Presents and what you do for us and Stacey saying, come on over, Robert. I mean, I’m in the catbird seat here and I’m going to try to take advantage of it and love while I’m doing it.

Stacey Wyatt: [01:01:16] And to put a bow tie on that. What I’ve been telling people is control what you control you and I can’t control rates, Right? But I can control my attitude and I can control my resourcefulness to be able to go find out and find out how people win. And then a simple one that that I stole the other day was and work works what we’ve been doing for the last few years. We have to double that, right? There’s going to be double the effort. So work works. Just do the work. And then the last is I think a lot because you left corporate. I left I got introduced to out of corporate because when the market crashed last time and you couldn’t pay me, my wife would shoot you if if you told me I had to go back to corporate and take a job. So I am going to say to all this people not to be so tough on them. I think they have to go back to their why and decide why did they get into the business in the first place, put in the work in the effort, because work works right and figure out what it is that’s really driving them to to move through tougher times.

Randy Beck: [01:02:11] Yeah, that corporate thing. You remember Fleetwood Mac, Lindsey Buckingham never going back again. Yeah, I love that. So we talked a little bit about video. You guys should check out TMZ, their website or their Facebook page because they picked up the Cobra Kai shoot in an article yesterday. So those photos are on there too. So love that listing. Architectural style, listing photos. Right. All you really shape people pay attention. There’s a great example on there and it’s getting national attention.

Stacey Wyatt: [01:02:37] So all your work then is on the Airbnb promoting the promoting this.

Randy Beck: [01:02:41] House for that house. It’s an Airbnb. I love it. Or it’s on VRBO. He’s a trip.

Stacey Wyatt: [01:02:46] So what’s all your work?

Randy Beck: [01:02:47] Ralph Remo is the property manager. He’s on a trip broker with a specific territory here, and I do all his work for him. So this. This work is all oriented for the work for this house is all oriented at its Airbnb status. Cool. And we shot a bang in video of it that’s going to be out in a few days and.

Stacey Wyatt: [01:03:05] The photo bang in a photo was in it.

Robert Mason: [01:03:07] He called me and he said, Come on over, man.

Randy Beck: [01:03:09] I can’t help you there. I did invite him to.

Robert Mason: [01:03:10] He did. He did. And I was busy.

Randy Beck: [01:03:12] So let’s use Stone as a proxy for the audience here. Have we left anything out? Is there anything you want to know or that we that we very stupidly forgot to talk about?

Stone Payton: [01:03:20] Well, of course. I don’t know what I don’t know, but to me it was informative. It was inspiring. I think I just want to give Stacie all my money and I just want to hang out with Robert and just like and just go see some of these places, because simultaneously, you guys built my confidence and interest in real estate investing, but you very clearly made it abundantly clear to. Me. If you’re going to do this, you’ve got to do it with some professionals that have some expertise and experience in this. Otherwise, a guy like me, man, I could just absolutely lose my shirt because I’ll get going down the wrong path.

Robert Mason: [01:03:54] Yeah.

Randy Beck: [01:03:55] Diy is the same in video, real estate, home construction, whatever it eventually shows, it starts looking like DIY at some point. And yeah, professionalism shows enough. You care to get it right?

Robert Mason: [01:04:06] Yeah, sure does.

Randy Beck: [01:04:08] All right. Well, that’s a wrap, guys. Let’s wrap there. And thank you guys for coming out. I really appreciate you coming again. Thank you, Stone, for having us on and devoting some of the airtime.

Stacey Wyatt: [01:04:15] Thank you, Big Daddy. And congrats on the TMZ and your hard work paid off.

Randy Beck: [01:04:19] Whoo! Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Stone Payton: [01:04:21] All right. Until next time, this is Stone Payton for our guest host today, Randy Beck, Robert Mason and Stacy Wyatt, and everyone here at the Business RadioX family saying we’ll see you again on Cherokee Business Radio.

 

Shanna Beavers With Off Your Plate ATL

October 21, 2022 by angishields

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Shanna Beavers, Owner at Off Your Plate ATL

As an accomplished people manager and trainer, Shanna has trained over 200 servers, bartenders and managers, managed high performance sales teams and scaled businesses with the belief that success depends on the way we treat the people around us.

Today she owns a fast growing cleaning organization with a focus on elevating client and employee experiences.

Connect with Shanna on LinkedIn.

This transcript is machine transcribed by Sonix

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Intro: [00:00:07] Broadcasting live from the Business RadioX studios in Woodstock, Georgia. Welcome to Kid Biz Radio. Brought to you by the Business Radio Main Street Warriors program. For more information, go to Main Street Warriors dot org. Now here’s your host.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:00:32] Hello, everyone. Renee here. And I’m here with Amy. We are here to create conversations about the power of entrepreneurship and the positive impact that journey can have on kids.

Amy Guest: [00:00:44] In With us today is a special guest, Ms.. Shanna Beavers with Off Your Plate.

Shanna Beavers: [00:00:50] Welcome.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:00:51] Thank you. Thank you for being here.

Shanna Beavers: [00:00:53] Thanks for asking.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:00:53] So we have a lighthearted topic today. Failure and redefining what that means. So, I mean, it’s hard to jump right into that.

Amy Guest: [00:01:07] Let’s talk a little bit about her business and then we’ll go into that.

Shanna Beavers: [00:01:11] Oh, cool. Okay. So, yeah, I am one of the owners of Off Your Plate ATL. So we’re local residential and commercial cleaning company. Anything else?

Renee Dierdorff: [00:01:22] How long have you been doing that?

Shanna Beavers: [00:01:24] I have personally been doing it for a year. My partner Emily has been doing it for over six years.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:01:30] And. As I say, she we we were hoping we could have her with us today, so.

Shanna Beavers: [00:01:36] Hi, Emily. Good luck with.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:01:38] Everything you’ve got going on. So, yeah, we. Teaching our kids about failure is one of those things that is inevitable. They’re going to go through things in their life that they’re going to be have some setbacks and they’re going to feel pretty crummy. And I was just talking with Amy earlier about how as a parent, you can’t really you can’t shield and protect your kid from those things because they’re going to happen.

Amy Guest: [00:02:10] Despite our best.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:02:11] Efforts.

Shanna Beavers: [00:02:11] The best efforts.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:02:13] So I think. What we’re going to talk about today is kind of understanding that we need to have conversations with our kids about failure and, you know, pushing the drug. You’re fine, you’re fine, you’re fine or.

Amy Guest: [00:02:29] Positive ways to get through it.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:02:30] You learn.

Amy Guest: [00:02:31] That what comes from it.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:02:32] From it, maybe sharing some of the own your own failures, showing them that you’re a real person and things like that. So that being said. I thought maybe you guys could tell me if you don’t have anything to share. But have you guys had to deal with this in your own life with your kids yet so far? And how did you go through that or anything?

Shanna Beavers: [00:02:58] Oh, yeah. So with my daughter, Lily, she’s almost 12. She takes failure pretty hard, so she doesn’t bounce back easily. She takes it very personally. And I’ve I’ve struggled. My husband and I both are one of these, you know, pick yourself, feel sorry for yourself for a moment, then pick yourself back up and get started all over again. And she just doesn’t tend to think about it that way. So I was pretty inspired recently when we saw a short interview clip of a woman who said her father used to encourage her to fail and then basically turn, turn the failure around. And what did you learn and how can you do it better next time? And I thought that would be such a great way to encourage Lily to embrace failing. And you know, her most recent, I guess, failure that absolutely broke my heart was trying out for cheer. So she’s been doing competition cheer and we specifically got her involved with that to help her with her middle school tryouts. And so she and all of her friends tried out and she was one of two cheerleaders that didn’t make it. And then on top of that, she tried out for the school competition team and didn’t make it.

Shanna Beavers: [00:04:16] And so it was really hard on her because her gym was having what they call evaluation. So when you try out at the gym, you actually get put on a team. They just evaluate what team you should be put on. And so we went into those and she kept saying, Try out. What if I don’t make it? What if I don’t make it? And it just killed me, you know? So it was I guess it was good for her to be able to have that win after those two failures. But I wish I could have I wish I’d had that point of view when she didn’t make it the first time in all of her friends made it and could have said, Hey, great, So, you know, you you didn’t make the team. What can we do to make that different next time and what did we learn from it? And that just means that this opportunity is coming instead of maybe that wasn’t the right opportunity. So I really like the idea of encouraging your kids to get out there and and fail and then figure out how do you make that into something that is a good thing.

Amy Guest: [00:05:14] Yeah, absolutely. I think that’s a great idea. A better way of looking at it. I know it tends to be harder when you have the emotions that come with that age range and trying to make that make sense when it is all about what your friends are doing and what you may not be doing. So I imagine that isn’t going to be an easy concept, you know, like initially to try and implement or in that scenario, I think I know for my girls, I imagine at least one or one of them doesn’t take failure very well at all. I have a perfectionist, so I can see how that how hard that is to try and explain that, like find the positive and they just sometimes can’t, you know, for a while until they can wrap their head around it and see the other side. You know, it’s hard.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:06:03] Yeah, that’s why they need to go through those failures so they can see that they can be resilient and then be proud of themselves.

Shanna Beavers: [00:06:09] Yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:06:10] For doing so. And then the next time it happens, they’ve got these coping skills. They feel a little more equipped, right? Because they kind of have to I don’t know if we can guide them on it, but it’s their own personal. Experience that they like, how they process that failure individually.

Shanna Beavers: [00:06:29] Right.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:06:29] And that’s what I think builds that resilience. And because, you know, you have we have our own frame of reference that we’re going through and we’re trying to coach them through it, but. You know, they’re going to be because Lily is different than you, like you said. So she might take a little longer or whatever. But I mean, I’ve known her for a few years now, and I, I think she’s come a long way with all of that. And a lot of that is just growing up, too, of course, because she’s older now, But I think she’s doing great. And you guys are doing great because there was an article I was reading and like kind of what we were talking about, it’s failure is good for kids because there’s a variety of reasons, but it’s a gift of coping. So allowing them to fail and makes them stronger gives them the ability to process natural consequences. So I think we’ve talked about that before. Sometimes if they fail or they get in trouble or something. And I don’t like using the word fail so much because it’s so negative. But when something happens and they might get in trouble or something, it can go the way they wanted it to. They kind of have to sit in it for a minute.

Amy Guest: [00:07:32] Yes. That that one is hard for me. Yeah.

Shanna Beavers: [00:07:35] Yeah.

Amy Guest: [00:07:35] I had to learn to change the way I approach the scenario. Like letting my child who’s upset about a scenario sit in it for a minute because you automatically you want to fix it, right? Like, that’s why I don’t want you to be upset. You can’t hurt. You can’t hurt, You can’t cry like I am here to fix it, but you can’t. And that is so hard. I think personally, as a parent, I had to learn how to teach her that her feelings of negative feelings like sadness or anger, those are okay. And it’s she has to feel them to get to the other side instead of waiting for somebody to fix it and move her to the other side. It’s the powers within herself. So I had to definitely learn the sitting in the SOC part of the feelings. That one was a hard concept for me, like.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:08:22] You’re talking about. So she you’re not going in there and validating her and saying that she’s okay. She has to find it within herself, that she’s okay. And that because we were talking about Bernie Brown and if you’ve listened to any of her stuff, but she talks about shame.

Shanna Beavers: [00:08:36] Love, Brené Brown. I read all of her books.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:08:38] Oh, well, if you still have any hardcovers, I would love to borrow them.

Shanna Beavers: [00:08:41] I do.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:08:41] But she talks about, like, the difference between shame and guilt. You can feel bad about doing something, but it’s not. You are not that bad thing that happened. And so I think processing, giving them that space to process and then they may have questions and you might be able to coach them a little bit, but it’s like you are the thing that happened was not.

Shanna Beavers: [00:09:01] Doesn’t define.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:09:01] You, it doesn’t define yourself who you are. And I think those words and being able to have those conversations are important because another thing she was talking about was when she was growing up, everybody was fine in the house. You didn’t talk about emotions. You just everybody’s fine because and it may just be and that’s within the family unit. It’s not necessarily because from the outside you want everybody to perceive a perfect family.

Amy Guest: [00:09:22] I think that’s also generational.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:09:24] Absolutely.

Amy Guest: [00:09:25] Yep. I think that more I’ve. Trying with raising my daughters, learning how to find my path. Outside of that, the way that I was taught, you know, like we have to come up with another way sometimes so that they are free to feel their emotions and express their feelings and find it within themselves and gain that confident confidence and empower themselves where we because it wasn’t a central focus for the generation prior to us to teach us that because everybody was fine. You do your own, you survive, right? And us having to learn to to rearrange that thought process, to teach our kids to do that, I think, excuse me, is our generation’s like new way, you know, that cycle breaking and trying to come up with a better way to let your kids grow more confident within their emotions and finally figure out how to survive their failures. And not just like not just survive them, but get through them, I guess.

Shanna Beavers: [00:10:26] Yeah, I found that, you know, Lily is my only child, so trying to figure all of it out. Obviously, Firstborn is like, you’re just trying to figure out how to do all this stuff. And I found myself, especially when it came to grades, trying to prevent failure. And my husband and I would go kind of round and round about this and, you know, got to get straight A’s, we’ve got to have straight A’s and B’s, blah, blah, blah. And at one point I was like, you know what? She’s got to figure out how to fail, you know? And if that means failing a grade, that means failing a grade. But I can’t force her to not fail. She has to figure that out on her own. So also part of that, I think, is kind of stepping out of the way. And us as parents trying to control the experience of whether or not they fail and just knowing when the the moment is. It’s okay if she fails this time because she’s got to learn, right. What that’s like.

Amy Guest: [00:11:22] Being the safe space for her to come to once the failure occurs. But knowing that you’re there, but you’re not the one that’s going to solve it, right. Unless, you know, obviously there are situations, but in general, she’s got to learn how to do it. I mean, giving them back that power, I think has been key. Is key rather, to a healthier way of learning this.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:11:43] I like the way you said, giving them back the power, make them feel. I mean, it’s part of independence, but making them you are in control of this, you know, and that sets them up in the future tremendously. And another thing was talking about being a role model. And I think what you were saying about the generational thing is like we had to we have to not unlearn things but learn how so that we can be that role model.

Shanna Beavers: [00:12:10] And.

Amy Guest: [00:12:11] You know, no, you do have to unlearn it. I mean, if you’re taught a certain way, but you want your child to learn a different way, like you first have to figure out what that looks like before you can be that model of that. Absolutely. You do have to unlearn some things or rearrange them, I guess.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:12:28] Redefine it, Redefine.

Shanna Beavers: [00:12:29] School, right?

Renee Dierdorff: [00:12:30] Yeah, Yeah. Redefine the way you think of things. Another thing I know that Brené Brown talks about, and since you’ve read the stuff, you might be able to fix my quote here, but she just talks about. Being curious, being, having the courage to try.

Shanna Beavers: [00:12:44] Things.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:12:45] Helps with. If it’s something new, there’s a likelihood that you’ll fail doing it or have hiccups along the way. So encourage your kids to try new things. Like Layla, for example. She. My oldest. Years ago, she. She did go to a counselor for various things, but she learned coping skills and stuff. But one of the things that they recommended is behavioral therapy. And it was amazing. One of the things they recommended was her to try something that scared her to do, something that scared her because she was rather cautious and she chose to do zip lining.

Shanna Beavers: [00:13:21] Oh, that’s a big jump.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:13:22] Yeah, well, you know, go big or go home. Yeah, but it was there’s a there’s a couple of them and there are parks around and they’re up in the trees and stuff and there’s different levels and everything in your harnessed in and I was safely watching from the ground but it. Gives them the power. She tried it. She had some issues, you know, learning how to do all the things. But when they do it, that just it’s just incredible to be able to. You know.

Amy Guest: [00:13:52] I bet it helps her confidence so much.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:13:55] And she’s wanted to do other things. It kind of stemmed from that. And now she’s, you know, more daring than I ever thought she would be, so encouraging them to try things. And it could be a variety of things. It depends maybe on what that fear is that they have. So, yeah, I mean, if you have a fearful or cautious kiddo, that’s I recommend doing that completely. And I mean, like with our expose, right?

Amy Guest: [00:14:16] Well, yeah, I was going to say that that’s trying something new, like they’re putting themselves out there and they’re learning a brand new way of interacting with people and learning how to communicate on a different level and what And so those the day comes with ups and downs of failures and what works and what doesn’t work and positive and negative things. But they’re doing it and they’re learning from it on. A Yeah, and they’re learning from.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:14:40] It because as we’re going through all of it, we’re, as we’re preparing up for an expo, we talk to the parents and stuff and our Facebook group that we have and you know, we always through the emails that Amy sends out and also those lives, we tell them like the kids are front and center, like you can come and bring a chair and sit in the back, but let them do it because that’s the point. And then another thing would be, I think it’s important and I kind of talked to the generational thing and just things of the past where we show our kids that we’re also human, right? It can be when we fail currently kind of talk them through how we’re processing it with as long as it’s, you know, make it kid friendly. But and then how you’ve maybe in the past you’ve had some failures obviously when they go something like, well when I was this back when I was a kid.

Shanna Beavers: [00:15:33] Back when we were dinosaurs to school. Yeah. Uphill both ways in the snow. No barefoot.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:15:38] Dinosaurs. I like.

Shanna Beavers: [00:15:39] That.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:15:40] So, yeah, I mean, 1900s.

Shanna Beavers: [00:15:43] Yeah. All right. Just like. Oh, no.

Amy Guest: [00:15:48] But learning. Yeah. Showing that your kids at your human and how I know for me as somebody that has anxiety and then also a child that suffers from anxiety, I had to learn that. I have to show. Positive ways that I feel about myself and what I’ve learned. Because if I constantly, I’m like, Oh my God, I did this to God and I failed this. And you know, everything is bad, bad, bad, bad, bad. And I have a kid who’s just like me. She’s going to see it the same way that all of these things about me are bad and they’re not. So you have to also reframe how you present yourself and how you feel about yourself, like letting them see that, like the good and the bad. But they got to see the good too. Like, you can’t only be like, Oh my God, all these things are awful and everything’s falling apart and blah, blah, blah. You know, like, you have to be like, But I got through this and I did, you know, and we’re moving forward, you know, like showing them that, okay, if mommy who has these similar situations or even not, but just seeing that like I’m trying to find the words that I’m explaining, but like, you’re a real person. Yeah. I mean that you’re real, but you have to not let them see. Like, severely beating yourself up about it, Right? You know, they have to ask because then that’s that’s all they’re going to do to, like, practice what you preach. Yeah, I.

Shanna Beavers: [00:17:12] Think that’s part of finding the positive part of failure. There’s always a positive part of failure. It may be hard to see immediately, but as an example with Lily, at some point when I think it, we did handle it properly. Again, back to competition cheer. Sorry. I mean, that’s hard work, right? That’s super hard. Work hard. But in her very, very, very first competition, she was a bass, a side bass, and they did their stunt. And the other two bass has lost control of the flier and she started to crash to the ground. Well, in competition, if your flier touches the ground, the entire team is disqualified. Oh, so, Lily, we watched Lily as she just flung her arm around that girl, and with all of her strength, literally kept her from touching the ground. Wow. And brought her back up. That’s awesome. Well, me, we’re looking at that going, Oh, my gosh, you just saved the team. You know, when we go backstage.

Amy Guest: [00:18:11] And she gave me chills.

Shanna Beavers: [00:18:13] We go backstage. And when they all come back out after the team huddled and everything, she saw us. She lost it, just tears and sobbing. And we’re like, What? What? What in the world What are you crying about? Oh, we dropped her. I dropped her, I dropped her, and I said, Lily, you saved her. You saved the team. And it wasn’t until she she didn’t comprehend that. And then they ended up winning third place. That’s awesome. And after that, when we were in the car, she was like, Okay, yeah, I did that. I did that. Yeah. And I said, Honey, you take the win. Yeah, that’s a big way. Yes, Yes. Your flier fell and yes, you guys lost points over that, but you saved the team from being disqualified. You have to give yourself credit for that. That’s a big deal. Yeah. So. Yeah, but it was funny to us. We didn’t see failure.

Amy Guest: [00:19:06] No, not one bit.

Shanna Beavers: [00:19:06] You know, we were like, wow, she’s eight. But in her mind, she just completely let the entire team down, you know?

Amy Guest: [00:19:15] But seeing that positive, like changing her way of thinking, like she automatically went negative, but then seeing that, wait a minute, that turnaround, like there’s the bad side of that, like you did save the day. Like, that’s amazing. And that I imagine that was a huge boost of confidence to look at it that way. Yeah.

Shanna Beavers: [00:19:33] For her, yeah she was when the look of shock on her face when they announced them as third place winners, that was priceless. I wish I could have gotten it on.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:19:43] You got to talk to her before.

Shanna Beavers: [00:19:44] We did talk to her before. So that’s because we had to continue watching competition. Yeah. And she wouldn’t even sit with her team. She was so embarrassed and so down on herself that she stayed with us instead of sitting with the team.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:19:56] While we talk to her.

Shanna Beavers: [00:19:57] Well, you know. Yeah, but it’s like later. It’s a whole. Nah, I don’t think so, but it’s a whole. Hey, we did great. We did. It’s okay. Don’t let the bad things get you down. That kind of. Yeah. Talk. Yeah, but, yeah, it was. It was. That was a good opportunity.

Amy Guest: [00:20:13] Yeah, that’s a great moment. Oh, I.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:20:14] Love her so.

Shanna Beavers: [00:20:15] Much.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:20:16] She’s such a big heart.

Amy Guest: [00:20:17] That’s it. Awesome. Like to think that quickly. Like, that’s.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:20:21] Awesome. She knew what she was supposed to do.

Shanna Beavers: [00:20:23] Yeah. Yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:20:24] And it was just second nature. But, you know, she didn’t see it in that way right away, right?

Shanna Beavers: [00:20:29] Oh.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:20:30] We love her so much.

Shanna Beavers: [00:20:32] Me too.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:20:35] There are some other there are some other things in this article like. It was the beginning of a. It’s the origin of success. Failure can be like you can talk to your kids about like Abraham Lincoln and everything that he went to before he was went through before he became president. If you look it up, it’s incredible. It takes you long to explain it now. But all the things he ran for in the Senate and whatever else and just didn’t win, didn’t win, didn’t win, didn’t win, but kept going. Family stuff happening and everything. And and obviously that time period, you know, there was a lot of death and things that happened. But just Albert Einstein and the light bulb and all the things, you know, and just showing them how it’s inevitable and. People throughout time have been doing this. But that’s that’s the only way to innovate.

Shanna Beavers: [00:21:27] Well, yeah, it is to.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:21:28] Try new things.

Amy Guest: [00:21:29] Probably the majority of all businesses that run our day to day life started in a completely different direction. That all stems from how it’s going to circle into a different area, you know, and it essentially is a failure. But then what comes from it? Yeah, something else that now we rely on, on a daily basis, you know.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:21:49] Well, we’re all business owners. So is there anything, any kind of business failures or lessons that you’ve learned along the way that you would like to share that you’ve overcome?

Shanna Beavers: [00:22:00] Oh, my gosh. So, yeah, when I shared this yesterday on Facebook, I made a joke about how I’m an expert at failure. And to be quite honest with you, I am an expert at failure. I do believe I am. It’s not my middle name, like I said. But I mean, I have had so many businesses and some of them have been successful and some of them haven’t. And so people you know, I had a restaurant at one point that I stupidly opened in the middle of the was the crash like 2007 0809. Yeah. Oh, gosh, young and stupid. But anyway, I went into that making all kinds of bad decisions. And because it was a dream of mine, right? I had worked so long in the restaurant industry and I thought, Oh, here’s this opportunity, it’s time. And everybody kept saying, But you don’t have enough money and you don’t have this and you don’t have that, I’ll forget it. I’m just not that I’m not that kind of person. I’ll figure out how to make it work once I get into it. So anyway, it did end up failing and, you know, it crushed me for for two years. I wouldn’t cook a meal. I just I wouldn’t it just I was like, I’m done with food. I literally just walked away from food. And many people are like, Well, do you regret it? No way. I don’t regret regret a single thing about it. I learned so many things about business.

Shanna Beavers: [00:23:19] I joked with Rene the other day. I for the longest time I’ve said I should write a book about how not to start a business because that’s probably brilliant. I’ll do it. I know how not to start a business. So, yeah, I mean, even like with Lily, she was when I got laid off in 2018, she was at an age to watch me for the next two years, try one thing after another and fail and fail and fail and fail until I finally did come across something that worked, you know, it just worked. And so, yeah, she’s seen the me, the ups and the downs and the and feeling bad, talking bad about myself and all of that kind of stuff. But I feel like personally, as her mother, I’m a good example of, you know, what comes out of failure. And I know a friend of mine, her mom commented on the post I shared about this and she kind of suggested maybe the word is stumble, not failure. And to a certain extent I disagree because we don’t talk in terms of, oh, well, you stumbled now what are you going to do? It’s failure. That’s you know what I mean? The word failure has a specific meaning for a reason. And so I think that if we glossed over what failure actually is and how failure actually feels, then we’re not doing ourselves or our kids any good.

Amy Guest: [00:24:42] Makes sense. Yeah, absolutely. If you don’t know what the word even means and how to understand what just happen, then how can you feel it and soften it and get past it?

Shanna Beavers: [00:24:51] Yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:24:52] Don’t put lipstick on it.

Shanna Beavers: [00:24:53] Right.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:24:54] It is what I mean. It’s.

Shanna Beavers: [00:24:55] I get it. I get where she’s coming from. Their kids. Right. So maybe we don’t want to be used what we feel is such a harsh word, but that’s the whole paradigm shift that I think has to be made is failure should not be a negative, dirty word, Harsh, dirty word. It shouldn’t be because there is no successful person that I know of that didn’t fail at something. Absolutely.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:25:17] I think it’s the communication around it like we’re trying to do. And we’ve heard more about, obviously in the last five, ten years trying to not normalize it. Maybe that’s the right word. I don’t really know. But just make it more commonplace that you can talk about this. It’s not taboo. It is a part of it. You’re not going to get around it. It will happen is not if and I know Brené Brown talked to one time about how she goes and talks to leaders of companies and, you know, she’s like, well, what are you going to do when you fail? And they’re like, Well, we’ll just strategize around it. She’s like, You can’t strategize your way out of failure. It’s going to happen. And they just she’s trying to change the way they think from a high level corporate world setting to be prepared for the inevitable. Yeah, because it’ll happen. Yeah. And it’s okay.

Shanna Beavers: [00:26:04] You can’t be, like.

Amy Guest: [00:26:06] Invisible from it, you know?

Shanna Beavers: [00:26:07] Like, yeah.

Amy Guest: [00:26:08] You can’t hide from it.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:26:09] So you got to learn how to cope with it, right? Yeah. And when we talk about kid biz and why we. Or why we started this to begin with. One of the things is to learn failure and learn resilience and then therefore be proud of yourself and grow your confidence. I mean, there’s so much that comes from it.

Shanna Beavers: [00:26:31] Mm hmm.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:26:32] Like the Phenix rising out of the ashes, as I say, you know, I mean, like, you, you, it it adds to your personality. I mean, it makes you who you are. I mean, there are so many positive things. I mean, you know, you talk you start dating, right? When you’re, I don’t know, a teenager and you’re it’s very superficial. And, you know, there’s not a whole lot to you yet, you know, like there’s not there’s no depth necessarily. And then as you gain experiences throughout your life, those conversations you have with dates and stuff become a little more interesting. And, you know, I mean, it’s important to have those experiences. And like we were saying, like, have your kids try new things that helps with that, like something totally off the wall and different. That’s what we try to use the summers for. Yeah. Is try to go do something that maybe none of us have done before and just have the experience.

Shanna Beavers: [00:27:20] That’s one of the things I love about Kid Bizz Expo is, you know, most business people are going to try something and figure out it doesn’t work for them and try something else. And so, you know, they’re they’re kids, so they’re not like you and I where we’re like, Oh, this is my business. And now you go out and you just advertise and you market and blah, blah, blah. And then if it fails, it’s super embarrassing. And then you have to show up at the networking group and go, okay, that didn’t work in business. Just kidding. Yeah. So for them, they don’t have that yet. It’s. Oh, well, making jewelry wasn’t as good as I thought it was going to be. So let’s bake Dog biscuit.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:27:54] I didn’t enjoy it.

Shanna Beavers: [00:27:55] Let’s try that now, which is.

Amy Guest: [00:27:56] A great way to look.

Shanna Beavers: [00:27:57] At it. Yeah, I think that that Kid Expo is a the perfect outlet for children, even if they’re not born entrepreneurs to feel comfortable and safe in trying new things and then understanding why it didn’t work and then having the opportunity to try again.

Amy Guest: [00:28:15] Absolutely. And like we always say, they’re not going to like, rule the world with their cookies or jewelry, but they’re understanding all the concepts that come with it by trying these things and seeing what their passions actually are.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:28:28] Mm hmm. Having the courage to try it. Courage is an important word, I think.

Amy Guest: [00:28:32] Which I would say. I was thinking when you were saying you were like a master at failure. Maybe you’re just, like, incredibly brave at trying new things.

Shanna Beavers: [00:28:41] That’s what I was like.

Amy Guest: [00:28:42] You can reword the way that you see yourself in that situation as well. And yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:28:47] And you show up to the like if it’s one thing or the other, you show up to those meetings with your head held high like this is you can laugh it off or you just, you know, you’re like, you accept it and it’s what it is. And I think a lot of what can be said for that.

Amy Guest: [00:28:59] Yeah, yeah. That’s incredibly brave. I think personally.

Shanna Beavers: [00:29:03] Thank you. I tend to operate that way. Emily and I both. One thing that makes us a good partners makes us good partners for each other and then bad partners for each other, because we both are like, I have an idea. Let’s throw it out and see if it sticks. And when it sticks, we go, Oh, crap. We got. We gotta figure out how to make that work. Oh, no. So you can ask anybody. In my life, I’ve always been like that. And Renee and I are very opposite in that way, where I’m like, okay, I think I’m going to do this. And she’s like, But don’t you? You need something. Like you need to play. Nope, nope, Throw it. Yeah, that worked.

Amy Guest: [00:29:35] I feel that I get like, super crazy, like, thoughts and like, I need somebody to bring me. I get very excited and, like, this is going to work and it’s going to be amazing. And let’s like all of the things in Rene’s like, or.

Shanna Beavers: [00:29:47] What if we just.

Amy Guest: [00:29:49] You know, map it out like step by step and link? But that also makes sense.

Shanna Beavers: [00:29:56] But that’s fun though.

Amy Guest: [00:29:59] But it works.

Shanna Beavers: [00:30:00] It does work.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:30:01] But sometimes I need y’all’s personality. Both sides push me to do things that I might be too scared to do. So yeah, it’s.

Shanna Beavers: [00:30:11] A good balance.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:30:13] I mean, we’re here doing this right, like we’ve gotten this far and it’s a lot to do with.

Amy Guest: [00:30:17] It’s funny because then like the things that like I may be like, overly like crazy about or whatever are the things that you’re like, more conscious about and then like, reverse like then there’s like, this is like in your wheelhouse, like this. No fear for this. Like, this was like, totally fine for you. And this is like, I’m like, What? What are we doing? Yeah, What? It’s just like the dynamic of needing that balance.

Shanna Beavers: [00:30:41] Emily was the same way. I was like, We’re going to do a radio interview. And she was like, Really? Really? I was like, Come on, both of us. We need to go on. Okay.

Amy Guest: [00:30:52] Yeah.

Shanna Beavers: [00:30:53] So I’m sure she’s not feeling too terrible that she wasn’t able to make it today.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:30:57] She would have done great.

Shanna Beavers: [00:30:58] She would have done great. But yeah, it’s that’s one of those again, things that makes us good as partners is she thinks she likes going out and networking and stuff like that. And then she doesn’t she’s like, Hmm, no, it doesn’t feel like, yeah, you do that. I’m good.

Amy Guest: [00:31:11] Yeah. Muscle.

Shanna Beavers: [00:31:13] Yeah. I go to the thing.

Amy Guest: [00:31:15] It really does.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:31:16] But see, she’s grown so much.

Shanna Beavers: [00:31:17] You’ve grown so much. Amy I try.

Amy Guest: [00:31:22] Being this whole role model thing. I kind of have to.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:31:26] Here.we just did this. We did vision boards last week at the Ball Ground Business Club and, you know, I guess that can tie into the whole thing because people, I guess we started talking about it. They said, you know, is there anything from your vision board last year that didn’t happen and that kind of thing? And not that those are failures, but, you know, you had these goals that maybe you didn’t. Disappointments, disappointments, things like that.

Amy Guest: [00:31:50] On DeLay.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:31:51] That was interesting. But the fact that we were there and doing them, you know, making one for next year and in October, you know, and planning ahead and stuff. And I think that’s, you know, like I said, you can’t like she was saying Brené Brown was saying you can’t strategize yourself out of failure, but you can plan for the things.

Amy Guest: [00:32:08] That you’re going to.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:32:09] Try, you know, and and hope for the best, but then pivot or adapt and be flexible and pivot whatever you need to do when those things happen.

Shanna Beavers: [00:32:20] Speaking of Bernie Brown, if there’s one thing I could say that I would recommend to parents and I work on this with my husband and he’s been pretty good at being open to this concept because he was raised with a lot of shame. You shame the child into doing what you want the child to do. And I really struggle with that with my mother in law. And she doesn’t mean any harm. It’s just the way that that they were raised. But I think that if when our kids fail, if parents can take a step back and make sure that they’re removing the shame from the situation, the kids will develop better coping skills and they’ll come out of it a lot quicker. That I could do an entire other interview with you guys on Bernie Brown and Shame and Courage.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:33:06] It’s incredibly interesting.

Shanna Beavers: [00:33:07] Her work is amazing. It completely, fundamentally changed the way that I that I look at myself and the way I look at the world and how I view people when they make mistakes and that kind of thing. So, yeah, if you if you could figure out how to, you know, the guilt, making them feel guilty for having done something wrong and taking the shame out of failure, I think that that would really help make it less of a negative experience.

Amy Guest: [00:33:36] Yeah, absolutely. Just acknowledge it for what it is.

Shanna Beavers: [00:33:39] And it’s not from.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:33:40] The person.

Amy Guest: [00:33:41] Right? It’s not the person. It doesn’t define you. It’s just. It’s a moment in time and it is what it is. And now where we at kind of thing.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:33:48] What does it say? You can follow me. You have to. You just get up again. I think that’s where it makes a difference in. I think people, if you fail and you fall. People can cheer you on when you get up and move forward. That’s the you part.

Shanna Beavers: [00:34:05] Yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:34:05] What happened is right there, right? The you is you moving forward. And I think that can give you a sense of pride and take the shame out of it. Yeah. And separating it.

Shanna Beavers: [00:34:16] Well Lilly tried, Lilly went and did her evaluation and she got herself on a good team. And now she looks back at all of that and like, no offense to sideline or anything, but she kind of watches at the games and she’s like, No, I’m good. I’m in a much better place. You know, she’s her skills are, you know, significantly better than a lot. And she knows that she’s getting a lot more time and investment put in her. And she’s she’s like, yeah, okay, that turned out the way it should have turned out. That’s awesome.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:34:50] Did she did she figure that out? Did she start talking about that on her own or did you kind of point things out at all or do you?

Shanna Beavers: [00:34:57] She figured that out after we went to a game recently to go support her friends, you know? Yeah. And she sat back in the stands and was kind of watching and was like, you know, again, the girls are great. Like.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:35:11] You know what I mean? Yeah. But like.

Shanna Beavers: [00:35:12] She really puts it up.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:35:13] For her.

Shanna Beavers: [00:35:14] Far more hours of conditioning and training and blah, blah, blah. So it’s only natural for, you know. But yeah, it was, she’s watching it going. It’s just not the environment for me, you know.

Amy Guest: [00:35:25] And that makes sense. And the fact that she’s able to figure that out and see that, that’s that’s great. That’s what that means. She became like she overcame it essentially. That’s incredible resilience.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:35:37] Yes. Found the positive.

Shanna Beavers: [00:35:39] And I was very proud of her for I’ll never forget sitting in the car right before it was time to go in and four to do the evaluation. And she was just, mom, I hope I make it. I don’t I don’t know what I’m going to do if I don’t make it. That’s hard, you know. But she got out of that car and she went in. It meant enough to her, you know, to go out and do it. So. Yeah.

Amy Guest: [00:36:02] It’s so hard because you’re like, okay, you just want to be like, No, you don’t have to do anything that makes you sad. I know. Then the other side of you is like, Oh my God, make her do it. Yeah, she has to do it.

Shanna Beavers: [00:36:11] Go in there. Try out. Excuse me, Coach. Yeah? What do we need to do to make sure she gets on the team?

Renee Dierdorff: [00:36:18] I was reading something where it talks about failure Friday, and I think maybe we should embrace that.

Shanna Beavers: [00:36:24] Ooh, that sounds fine.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:36:26] You know where you can in a variety of ways. But Philly Friday, maybe you post on social media, it’s like, what? Did you fail it this week? Yes. And what did you learn from it? You know, then, you know, and then the.

Amy Guest: [00:36:38] Dinner was planned.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:36:40] And then I mean, but if you say it straight up like that, it’s like, wait, what? Like that kind of catches attention. And then you can also say at the dinner table.

Shanna Beavers: [00:36:47] And.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:36:48] Encourage your kids to talk about it and be open because we try to put conversation starters on our page to encourage conversation. Because if you get in the car after school or they come coming off the bus and you’re like, How is your day? Like at my oldest, she’s even said she’s like nobody. Like, you know, somebody says, How are you? No one really wants to know how you are. They’re just it’s just pleasant. It’s just they don’t want you to just all your baggage on the table. That’s not the expectation. So when you say it that way, when they get in the car, they’re like, It was fine. That’s why they say it. Because there’s no like if you let them decompress from the day and then in their own dinner dinnertime, even if it’s just driving to practice because you’re you’re eating in the car, it doesn’t have to be around the table. But those times in the car really matter. And if you that can be a thing that you talk about on Fridays, I wouldn’t want to do it every day because that’s like focusing too much on negative, but just finding things to learn.

Shanna Beavers: [00:37:38] That little short interview that we saw, that’s what she said her father did every day. She’d come home from school and he would be like, All right, so what’d you fail out today? And it was a very, like, energetic, positive, you know, celebration, celebration. And she said it just got to the point where it was like I was just able to look at mistakes I made and stuff throughout the day and not feel like it was the end of the world, you know, is a.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:38:01] Training.

Shanna Beavers: [00:38:01] Exercise. Yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:38:02] To look at the world differently.

Shanna Beavers: [00:38:03] Instead of being like, Oh, honey, what’d you fail at today? It was more like, Okay, so what did you fail at today? Let’s talk about it, you know? Yeah, I mean, there’s no celebrate with an ice cream.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:38:13] Yeah. Shame can’t find its way in that.

Shanna Beavers: [00:38:15] It can’t find its way in there.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:38:16] No, no I can’t. I like that.

Amy Guest: [00:38:18] It’s just reshaping the mindset.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:38:20] Yeah. Growth mindset. Yeah. Super important. I like.

Shanna Beavers: [00:38:23] Failure Friday. Let’s do that.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:38:24] Yeah.

Shanna Beavers: [00:38:24] Is it Friday yet? Because I’ve got something I can talk about.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:38:27] We can have some wine on the back porch and talk about failures. Woo! Sounds fantastic. That’s probably all I’m good for on Friday because I’m just so tired.

Shanna Beavers: [00:38:34] Oh yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:38:37] We were just talking about like letting failure happen. Emphasize failing forward. Learning from your mistakes. Teaching a mindful approach. The link between mindfulness and resilience is very well documented. With practice, kids can learn to respond to strong feelings about failure rather than simply reacting, respond rather than react like that. That makes sense. I like.

Shanna Beavers: [00:38:59] That. Hmm.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:39:03] I was just looking at some other stuff that I had that I found the other day. And none of it is the same things that happen over and over again.

Shanna Beavers: [00:39:11] Yeah, well, there’s little bitty little ones, you know, fail to test today. You know, failed to get on the bus today. You’re going to different levels.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:39:24] There’s gratitude journals, Right. And then when you do a gratitude journal. You starts with the big things and then it gets harder and harder to come up with things that you’re grateful for. So the thing thing would be a failure. It’s hard to find a nitpick the things, but maybe sometimes it’s like you’ve just so become so accustomed to being adaptive. You didn’t even realize it anymore, that.

Shanna Beavers: [00:39:44] You’ve.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:39:45] Just coping. It was like survival mode, you know? And I know we went I was at the business club this morning and we were talking to the mayor of Canton, and we were kind of talking about, I guess he’s been in business since 89 and his ups and downs along the way. And I think a question was asked or, you know, are you always this optimistic, optimistic person or how do you deal with all this? And, you know, you talk about being optimistic and I think he just he’s like, I’ve just learned to be adaptable and, you know, that kind of thing. So I think that’s where that comes from is when you’re a small business owner, you do have to if you’re going to continue, you’re going to hit those things and you have to learn to be that way. Yeah. And they may just become more optimistic and less cynical over time.

Shanna Beavers: [00:40:31] Bronson asked them, Have you ever wanted to quit? And he was like, Yeah, like we all feel that way, But if I quit, then what am I going to do?

Amy Guest: [00:40:41] Yeah, then what?

Shanna Beavers: [00:40:42] You know, so we just have to adapt and move on, you know?

Renee Dierdorff: [00:40:45] He’s like, I’m not going back to the corporate world, you know, because he had been working for himself for so long. He’s like, No, thanks. So well and talk about celebrating their progress, too. So. Maybe with like the Expos, we always talk about the certain things that they’re doing to lead our workshops, help lead up to the Expos. And like when you did the one on sales pitch and stuff, but even going backwards like building their inventory. So I think maybe it would be good if we helped, like maybe maybe make a checklist of some kind or like a goal sheet where they can check off or have some fun way with stickers depending on their age or whatever, like. You’ve done this yet. Have you done, you know, like celebrate that you’ve finished your inventory or celebrate that you’ve done this and like along the way to encourage that progression?

Amy Guest: [00:41:35] Yeah, because those are still accomplishments. I mean, we don’t. Not only can you just, like, find a way to be resilient from the failures, but you still have to celebrate your accomplishments. You still have to maintain the positives in what you have done, not necessarily only finding it in what you didn’t do or what failed, but you also have to find it in what you actually have accomplished.

Shanna Beavers: [00:41:58] Yeah, yeah, yeah. That’s definitely important. It dawned on me just now that I used to ask when Lily would come home from school, I would ask her what went well and what didn’t go so well. You know, and she would have a hard time thinking like, what didn’t go so well. It was like she was uncomfortable talking about it.

Amy Guest: [00:42:17] Yeah. I always asked him, like, okay, so did we have a good day? And then I was like, Yeah. And I’m like, okay, well, what was bad about today? Or what was like boring or what was good and what wasn’t good, you know, just like trying to pull it out of her, like describe it in a different.

Shanna Beavers: [00:42:30] Way, getting them to talk about it. Lily’s Lily’s go to line is. I don’t know. Yeah, I don’t know.

Amy Guest: [00:42:35] I don’t remember.

Shanna Beavers: [00:42:36] Yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:42:37] I mean, like, I get it. Like you’re done with that part of your day. I get it sometimes, you know, But I try not to write. When they get off the bus, I try to let them decompress or whatever for. For a minute, because I know I need that. Need some space from it.

Amy Guest: [00:42:47] What was hard or did a subject go better or worse than you thought? Like just trying to.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:42:52] I’ll think I say to my nine year old, I’d be like, So what? What’s something that happened today that was awesome?

Shanna Beavers: [00:42:56] Yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:42:57] You know, like, or funny or whatever. And I know Laila. There’s a couple of class clowns. Well, actually, yesterday she came home with a bright orange piece of paper, and she was like, Well, thanks to the seventh graders, now we have to have a hall pass just to go to the bathroom. Oh, So what are they doing and what were they doing? She said like half the class was like loitering in the bathroom. Oh, my God. And I don’t want to tell you what she said, but she was being very negative.

Amy Guest: [00:43:19] No, not an eighth grade girl.

Shanna Beavers: [00:43:22] 13 year old.

Amy Guest: [00:43:23] That’s insane.

Shanna Beavers: [00:43:24] Yeah. Yeah.

Amy Guest: [00:43:26] And that’s.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:43:26] All I asked is.

Amy Guest: [00:43:28] So hard to battle that with. Trying to maintain the positive mindset and teach them that when they physically like, that’s just where they are emotionally and physically, that’s where their brain is. And so you have to be patient with that and trying to they’re not going to be positive 100% of the time. It’s just literally impossible for their brains at this point in life.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:43:53] We aren’t either.

Amy Guest: [00:43:54] Granted, but we can still, as an adult, we can turn it around and be like, I know it’s going to be okay for them. They don’t.

Shanna Beavers: [00:44:01] Know.

Amy Guest: [00:44:02] I know it’s going to be okay.

Shanna Beavers: [00:44:03] Remember that? Oh so well. I remember.

Amy Guest: [00:44:06] World could literally end. Yeah, because of what somebody said to them.

Shanna Beavers: [00:44:10] Yeah. My mom would be like, okay, this isn’t that big of a deal. And I remember thinking, Do you not see the chaos? But I think that’s bad. The kids.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:44:20] When they say something like that, it can feel dismissive to the kids. So it’s like, how else can.

Amy Guest: [00:44:25] We I know.

Shanna Beavers: [00:44:27] We know.

Amy Guest: [00:44:27] That. It’s like, okay, well, I mean, just like.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:44:31] You know, like saying like, don’t feel that feeling. Like I understand that.

Shanna Beavers: [00:44:34] That.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:44:35] Feels that way right.

Amy Guest: [00:44:36] Now for now. But also in a few minutes when we’re over feeling that, let’s look at this or whatever. But explain that to a 13 year old tends to be the most challenging.

Shanna Beavers: [00:44:47] Yeah, I’m going to give it a few hours. No, Explaining it to my 46 year old husband is pretty challenging. Yeah, Lilly will do, you know, some kind of emotional, you know, lash out and the look like deer in the headlights. He’s just standing there like, what does that say? You know, he wants to say, stop it. There’s nothing to cry about. And I’m just like, okay, stop. You know, I remember this feeling. It’s not logical. Walk away, you know? Yeah.

Amy Guest: [00:45:12] Yeah, yeah. Always like that. Our husbands just, like, live in that logic based.

Shanna Beavers: [00:45:18] Constant Boys don’t feel like that. We don’t ever get like that.

Amy Guest: [00:45:21] Yeah, like, just. I always call my husband the dream killer because he’s the one that has to be realistic and logical. So, yeah, when you come at him with a 13 year old drama, he’s like, No, we’re going to not talk. Do that. You need to calm down. And it’s like, okay.

Shanna Beavers: [00:45:36] Yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:45:37] It’s like you come out of the wolf’s den. Good luck. See you later. Yeah. My my husband joked around. He’s like, when all that stuff goes on, you can. I’ll just go fishing. I’ll see you later. You know, he knows he just needs to remove himself. But yeah. So all of our husbands are girl dads and bless them.

Shanna Beavers: [00:45:52] Yeah, no kidding.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:45:53] And our husbands. So bless them.

Shanna Beavers: [00:45:54] Yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:45:55] They’re very patient with us. And, you know, they’re all really good dads, and all of our daughters are very lucky to have them.

Shanna Beavers: [00:46:00] I completely agree.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:46:02] For sure, because they care a lot.

Amy Guest: [00:46:04] But they do offer that different perspective that they do that does help bring them down to earth when necessary.

Shanna Beavers: [00:46:12] The stable.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:46:13] Thing that.

Amy Guest: [00:46:14] They need, I mean, they need that. Everybody needs that. Not just just in general. Like you need both sides of the coin, right? Yeah. You have to find. Yeah, good and bad, stable and dreams and chaos and also consistency. Like you got to find the balance.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:46:28] And when we were talking earlier about trying to take a subject, but. We tell them we have them sit in it for a minute, you know, sit in and think and learn or whatever, sit and suck. And then it may not be that same day, but maybe whenever it’s appropriate, go back and say, well, what did we learn from that? Kind of come full circle with it and wrap it up because I know you like with her catching the flier, you guys had the opportunity to do that and then she’s even still learning from it. But being able to have them see the big picture, see it come full circle is really important with anything but specifically that because it kind of reiterates the fact that it’s okay to talk about it and it’s completely normal and human. You know it’s going to happen and. Have them remember that they’ve overcome that. Right. And what they learn from it.

Amy Guest: [00:47:19] And I think them learning different levels of quote unquote, failures. Right, is important. Like I know for one of my kids who can have panic attacks and anxiety about a lot of things, she gets caught up in her head and it becomes like a snowball of emotion and and then it becomes a snowball of shame on herself because she hates that she’s causing distress. She thinks to me or to anybody else that’s having to deal with her not being able to solve her own problem. So just trying to I’ve had to learn a lot about helping her understand and empower her feelings and different levels of failure or what she sees as failures and what don’t define her. And that’s where I got that term, like sitting in the SOC, like from therapy, teaching you that it’s okay. You can just because you’re feeling like this or things look like this or you’re overwhelmed, it doesn’t make you wrong or bad or different. If this is how your brain wants to comprehend the situation, then we’re going to let it for a minute and then we’re going to figure out within ourselves how to pull us out of it.

Shanna Beavers: [00:48:34] Yeah, I think it’s important to sit in the SOC. It’s like the grieving process. You can’t skip the grieving process. And if you try to skip the grieving process, it’s going to come back to you later. It’s true and it’s going to be much worse.

Amy Guest: [00:48:45] So manifest.

Shanna Beavers: [00:48:46] Yeah. So it’s, you know, I guess in a way, failing does have its own grieving process. So just letting your kid take that that night or that 24 hours and just sit in it and then, you know, give them an opportunity to get it out and then be there to be the person that’s like, okay, now that we’ve done that, what are we going to do differently? You know, how are we going to get up and do it again?

Amy Guest: [00:49:10] Yeah, because you’re there safe space to help them when they fall. You’re not going to stop them from falling. You just are there for them when it happens and they need somebody to lean on.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:49:19] Have you seen Inside Out?

Shanna Beavers: [00:49:22] Yes.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:49:23] So they need a character for. I don’t know. Shame, character, failure, character. I don’t know because they have sadness. And the whole point of the movie is you learn that you can’t be happy all the time. You have to have the sadness to.

Shanna Beavers: [00:49:36] Appreciate the happy.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:49:37] The happy. So it’s just and how at the end there were more islands, more her personality grew out of that experience, right? So I thought that movie was brilliant and very creative. That’s what blew me away. I was like, Who thought of it? You know? It was.

Shanna Beavers: [00:49:51] Just the way it was That.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:49:52] To kids. Yes. Yeah, I think it’s fantastic. But another thing you were talking about was. Coming back to them later. I was listening to something on the way this morning to the business club where I think when we get older kids, when your kids get older and they come to you with a problem or something they think they failed at or whatever. Letting them just talk to us and then just say or do do you want are you looking for my advice or you’re just looking to vent?

Amy Guest: [00:50:22] Yeah, listening, actually, just listening.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:50:24] Just listen sometimes and not try to fix and stuff like that because that’s super important to.

Shanna Beavers: [00:50:29] That’s the hardest.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:50:30] Part. Ask them what they want, but ask them what they’re looking for. Right? Right. Because that you’re not talking at them at that point. And I think if you develop that now, they’ll be more likely to come to you in the future for when they have problems and stuff because they know that you’re not just going to try to fix it or you’re not going to just do this every single time, like you actually care what they have to think about or what they have to say about it and are willing to take the time to walk you through that process like the grieving part, you know, whatever it is to get to the solution instead of just trying to quickly move on from it.

Shanna Beavers: [00:51:00] Right.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:51:01] Because, you know, feeling dismissed is not that brings shame. You makes you feel bad about even feeling bad. You know, that you failed or whatever it is, It just.

Amy Guest: [00:51:10] Becomes a cycle.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:51:11] Yeah, it’s just awful.

Shanna Beavers: [00:51:12] When somebody jumps straight into the solution, it’s like, Oh, I didn’t hear anything. I just said, Yeah, there you had.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:51:18] Yeah, yeah. And I’m not there yet. Yeah, that’s super important. Do you guys have anything else you want to wrap up and say about the topic?

Amy Guest: [00:51:25] I think we covered a lot our.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:51:28] Whole TED talk on.

Amy Guest: [00:51:29] There’s just so many different avenues and you almost feel like you’re saying the same thing over and over again. Just, you know, at the same time, essentially. Not to say that I don’t know, but you can you just have to remember there’s different levels and it relates. It all relates and it just it is kind of a cycle in a circle. But anyway.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:51:48] Yeah, I mean, the topic was redefining it for kids and I think it comes back to we have to redefine it for ourselves.

Amy Guest: [00:51:55] First. Well, yeah, that’s the only way that you can be a role model if you can act out what you’re saying and actually believe what you’re saying.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:52:03] Yeah, target practice.

Amy Guest: [00:52:04] Harder, more. I think for us to believe what we’re saying than to actually show it. Yeah.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:52:09] I mean, together. I know I’ve told this to Layla before. I said, you know, I’ve never had a 13 year old before. I’m learning how to parent you at the same time you’re learning how to be 13. Oh, yeah. You know, just trying to get her to understand that I’m a person we’re all trying to learn, just like you are. So, you know, giving each other some grace sometimes goes a long way and understanding each other for sure. And sometimes it’s better. Just take a step back. Give each other a second. Well, I can I’ll just wrap it up by saying that if you need your house cleaned, I can tell you you have.

Amy Guest: [00:52:41] Failed at cleaning your.

Shanna Beavers: [00:52:43] House.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:52:43] That’s right.

Amy Guest: [00:52:44] That’s right. And you would need assistance.

Shanna Beavers: [00:52:46] And we won’t shame you in any way. No, they will not.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:52:49] Tired speak from experience. They will do a fantastic job. So, Shana, if you want to let everybody know how they can reach out to you guys.

Shanna Beavers: [00:52:56] Yes. So you can find us on Facebook. Off your plate, ATL. You can also email us at info at Off Your Plate ATL and check out our website. On the website, you there’s there’s a form that we’ll have you fill out that’ll give us the information we need to give you a quote.

Amy Guest: [00:53:12] Awesome. And you do residential and commercial.

Shanna Beavers: [00:53:14] Yeah, we do both.

Amy Guest: [00:53:16] Perfect.

Renee Dierdorff: [00:53:17] Thank you for being here and having this wonderful conversation with us and sharing all of your thoughts.

Amy Guest: [00:53:22] And I would like to say that you are the queen of courage, of trying not failure you. So we’ll go with that 100%.

Shanna Beavers: [00:53:30] Thank you. Thank you.

 

Jeremiah Cundiff with Property Management Inc.

October 21, 2022 by angishields

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Jeremiah-Cundiff-1-300x300Jeremiah Cundiff has fourteen years of franchising experience, growing a broad range of franchise systems, from start-ups to large franchise systems with hundreds of millions in systemwide revenue.

In his leadership role at Property Management Inc. , he’s laser-focused on the two most important things in franchising: 1) Franchisee Satisfaction and 2) Franchisee Profitability. He is passionate about helping franchise owners advance the economics of their franchise.

As the Chief Operating Officer, he works diligently on integrating the vision of the brand internally across all departments and externally across the operating franchise units.

Jeremiah and his wife Kristi are the parents of six children. In his spare time, he enjoys fly fishing, golf, skiing, and spending time with his family. Jeremiah has a bachelor’s degree in Business Management with an Entrepreneurial Management emphasis from Brigham Young University – Idaho.

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