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Angela Kim with Illumines Core

March 28, 2025 by angishields

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Angela-KimAngela Kim is the founder of Illumines Core, a transformational space dedicated to mental, emotional, and self-development.

Her personal journey—rooted in generational trauma, survival, and healing—inspired her to pursue psychology and dedicate her life to helping others overcome deep-rooted pain.

Through Illumines Core, Angela now supports children, veterans, spouses, athletes, and professionals in navigating trauma and reclaiming their inner strength.

In her heartfelt conversation with Trisha Stetzel, Angela shared her powerful story of resilience and healing. Together, they explored the importance of self-care, mindfulness, and self-awareness—especially for women who often neglect their own needs. Illumines-Core-logo

The discussion touched on trauma, loss, and the emotional toll of comparison culture driven by social media, emphasizing the power of compassion, grace, and self-acceptance in the healing process.

Connect with Angela on LinkedIn.

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Intro: Broadcasting live from the Business RadioX studios in Houston, Texas. It’s time for Houston Business Radio. Now, here’s your host.

Trisha Stetzel: Hello, Houston. Trisha Stetzel here bringing you another episode of Houston Business Radio. It is my pleasure to have my guest on today who was introduced to me by John Brocato, who always introduces me to the most amazing people. I want to introduce you to Angela Kim. She is an Empowerment Coach, a Reiki Master Realtor, Illumines Core Core LLC, and D-town International LLC. Angela, welcome to the show.

Angela Kim: Thank you.

Trisha Stetzel: I’m so excited to have you on today.

Angela Kim: It’s so great to be here. I’m so nervous. I know me. Um, and I think I’m just just get to get it out and say it.

Trisha Stetzel: Yeah, absolutely. So, Angela, we’re going to tackle some tough stuff today, right? Uh, but before we get there, tell us who you are.

Angela Kim: Well, um, I am a mom, um, of a nine year old boy, and he is turning ten in May, and, um, I am actually working on building an empire, both in real estate and in the mental health world. Um, and, uh, it just it all stems from my backstory. Who? You know, what I went through and where I came from, um, and experiencing the things that I experienced that really helps to shape who I am and how I’ve experienced life and how I can help people see life a little bit differently. So I think I just summarized myself.

Trisha Stetzel: Yeah. No. That’s beautiful. And, uh, I love that you introduced yourself as mom first, right? Um, because you are. And I think a lot of times as women, we put everyone else ahead of us. And I think the thing we’re going to tackle today is our overworked nervous system, because we are always thinking about all of the other things. Right? And sometimes we have to stop and really assess ourselves and where we are and the things that we should be working on, um, internally and externally for ourselves. So why don’t we start with Angela? The whole idea of just being overworked. And as women, we are always caring for others. I like to talk about, um, putting our mask on first. You’ve been on a flight. Uh, listeners, anyone who’s been on a flight. You know, the flight attendant always tells us to put our mask on first before we help others. So, Angela, how does that play into the work that you’re doing on yourself and even the work that you’re doing with your clients?

Angela Kim: Um.

Angela Kim: Well, for me, the selfish slash unselfish thing is, you know, whenever I remind my clients, hey, or you have a habit of worrying about other people and worrying about this and that, and you forget about yourself, at the end of the day, there’s nothing left. And whenever I say that, I’m like, okay, let me check with myself. Have I been doing what I’ve been preaching and how am I implementing it? And so I really the the work that I do and how I coach myself constantly is really the work that is the work that’s constant because we have those dark, negative thoughts that come up, especially when we’re overworked. And we have, you know, we’re working from fumes. There’s nothing left. You know, there’s it. And I’m getting emotional right now because I’m seeing the pattern and the effects of an overworked nervous system, you know? Excuse me.

Trisha Stetzel: It’s okay.

Angela Kim: I have a hard time with it. And seeing my family members pass away from stress. Over and over. Um, it’s just like that constant reminder for me to really be self-aware and teach my my son and my clients how to learn that practice of self-awareness. And it’s it’s almost like back to basics of life, right? And how are your manners with yourself? How are you treating yourself? What are you saying to yourself? And that’s really what I do, is help people shift. And that’s why I call myself a paradigm shift advisor in that sense, is helping people to shift the the ways that they look at themselves in the different areas of their life. And so.

Trisha Stetzel: Yeah, thank you for sharing that. And I appreciate you being so vulnerable today. And, you know, we’re always I think we should always be working on ourselves. And I think you as a coach are particularly special because you know what your clients are going through because you go through it as well. And I think that that’s something really special that you bring to the table. Um, do you want to talk a little bit about your backstory and why you do the work that you do?

Angela Kim: Yes.

Angela Kim: Um, I’ll start with my most recent backstory, and I think it kind of ties into my whole life story is, um, a few days before the pandemic is when I had my miscarriage, and it’s my first and hopefully only one. And that experience tore me apart. And it helped me realize that I had overcome PTSD, you know, trauma over and over again, not realizing that I did. Um. The miscarriage was a very somatic thing that happened. It was the trauma for my body. And. I had a challenging time coming to terms with the fact that while I had lived through, you know, high intense anxiety and, um, PTSD and, um, it just helped me realize that I had, um. I had complex PTSD. It was really hard to acknowledge and to accept that. Um, at first, because I was like, I’ve been doing this personal development work. I’ve been working on myself. I’m a coach, you know, I want to, you know, my background’s in mental health counseling. I’ve worked with soldiers. I’ve worked with schizophrenia patients. It’s nothing in that mental health area really scares me. And yet I was scared of myself.

Angela Kim: Mhm. Yeah. And I didn’t realize.

Angela Kim: You know, the trauma that I was experiencing at the time. Um, and why it was so hard. Why did my manners go away? You know, overnight. And so it was a challenge to accept that this new me was something that I get to work on. It’s a piece of work.

Trisha Stetzel: Yeah. And how how important is it to know that the triggers. Right. Those things that are setting us off. So we’ve talked about our overworked nervous system, which started the conversation, and then leaning back into your backstory, which is not just overworked mentally, but your body. Right. Uh, was in a position and overworked from the miscarriage. What are some of the things that you worked on personally for yourself to move through that trauma, and even some of the things that you work with, with your clients as they move through trauma as well.

Angela Kim: Well.

Angela Kim: The I will say the the biggest lesson that I learned through this experience is my compassion, grace and patience. Um. And really deciphering, you know, is this person gaslighting or are they really saying that they are tired and that they’re really struggling, you know, and really hearing and feeling engaging where they’re at? Um, because I’ve been through the the challenges of PTSD and the complex PTSD. It it opened up everything that I worked on was, you know, as a younger child, my first suicidal thought was around 5 or 6. And that’s not normal, I realize. Later on in life that for a child to want to kill themselves at that age, it means that there’s a lot of trauma that I had gone through because my mom was very suicidal, and she would have a lot of threats about her life and just not wanting to be here, and it’s too much. And so that’s what I thought life was. But I overcame those things. And when PTSD from the miscarriage opened up complex PTSD, it just opened up everything. All my negative thoughts were roaring back because it was gone. You know, I worked on it. I, I tamed that part of myself. And it was almost like this, this thing where you want this change in your life. And so, hey, you’re going to really dig deep and really learn the nuances. What how to gauge your energy level, how to work with your nervous system, how to really calm yourself as much as possible. And it takes a lot of practice and a lot of, um, intention.

Trisha Stetzel: Yeah, absolutely. So as you were doing this work on yourself, is that where you found the part of you who wanted to help others with the same challenges?

Angela Kim: Yes. Yeah.

Angela Kim: It’s, um, every time I go through a life stage or a life cycle or a loss in my life, it just helps me see another aspect of, okay, this is why I’m doing this, um, and this, this last miscarriage. And I’m still in the month of the anniversary. It was last week was the anniversary of my miscarriage? And I’m still going through it. Experiencing the loss of a child is very different from the loss of a parent. I’ve not lost a parent in the physical sense. Um, I’ve lost my dad who had a brain tumor. Um, and he had surgeries multiple times when I was in middle school. High school. So that’s building up to the traumas and the losses that I’ve experienced. And so I’m very considerate and compassionate when it comes to the energy of what people are saying because, um, I realize that I’m highly sensitive and that highly sensitivity came from a lot of the trauma that I experienced. Um, and so when I see another individual going through what I’ve been through and I see that I can understand. And I’m more compassionate when it comes to coaching my clients and when it comes to giving them that space to just be themselves and actually feel through that experience, whatever emotion it is that they’re feeling. It could be anger, it could be sadness, it could be depressive feelings. And it’s okay. It’s just that phase because it comes and goes. And as long as we allow them to feel and I allow myself to feel and acknowledge and accept that this is what I went through and that it was rough and it’s okay to experience it that way. Then the change and the movement forward and the healing, really, it’s like it catapults you. It’s faster than a domino effect.

Trisha Stetzel: Yeah, absolutely. And I think that your the energy that you bring is perfect for the people that you work with. That because you’ve been there before them, you’ve walked in their shoes and you absolutely understand. So while we’re on the topic of energy, I want to talk about you being a Reiki master because not everybody may understand what that is. So can you talk about that just a little bit and how you use that in your practice as well?

Angela Kim: Okay.

Angela Kim: That’s a great question because Reiki Master, it’s the practice of working with the energy and really tuning into energies. And everybody has energy, right? This world is made of atoms. And so recognizing that we all feel and sense a shift in energy and space and then recognizing and tying it back to, hey, this is what makes us us. And if we think something, then we’re emitting it. And so the Reiki that I do, it’s a lot of energy work within the system of a person. Yet I’m actually working on their emotional system more than just what other Reiki masters do. Reiki masters that they probably teach more on how to treat and move the energy systems in certain organs and their different, you know, practitioners. Mine is specifically for the mind and the emotional bodies. And so it’s it’s really working with, okay, how can we move this emotion so that we can feel it instead of being numb or thinking that everything’s okay and, um, facing it and actually going through it instead. And so it’s I work with energy systems that way. I hope that explains it. I’m not really sure if I’m doing a good job of it.

Trisha Stetzel: Oh, I think it’s fantastic. And it goes along with everything that we’ve been talking about already. Right. Which is those, uh, the energy systems and the emotion and the way that you can feel people’s emotions. I think this all comes together, and I it’s a little interesting that you’re. Before we started recording, your dog came in the room, and you and I started talking about that, and then my dogs moved. And it’s not because we said anybody’s dog’s name. It was the energy that we, the two of us, were emoting into the room. Right. And our dogs picked up on it. And I think that’s really interesting. Your dog came in the room for a reason, and then mine woke up because we were having a conversation around that. Um, I’d love for you if people are really interested, Angela, in connecting with you and understanding more about what you do, your coaching practice, or even knowing more about your story, what’s the best way for folks to find you?

Angela Kim: I would say for right now, the best way is to reach me. Um, you know, what is it called? Message me on Instagram. Um, and it’s going to be at Angela Kim’s .111 and just message me and say, hey, I found you, found out about you. I heard about you through Tricia’s podcast, and that’s the best way.

Angela Kim: Yeah.

Trisha Stetzel: Fantastic. So Angela Kim 111 on IG and.

Angela Kim: .111.111.

Trisha Stetzel: Angela Kim .111 uh, is her handle on IG, and you guys can just put Houston Business Radio in there, or Tricia and Angela knows exactly how you guys found her. I really appreciate you sharing your story. Uh, Angela and I know there’s a lot of emotion around it. You work in this space of loss and trauma and holistic approaches to healing and, um, even core issues from lack of verbal communication and listening skills. Can we dive into that just a little bit? And this idea of the lack of verbal communication and listening skills between I’m guessing that that’s between people and helping others communicate better with each other?

Angela Kim: Yes. I mean, when I wrote that, it was actually more of how is it, how is it affecting across the board, across every, you know, with doctors, with yourself, with your spouse, with your kids? Um, well, we don’t really put much intention towards the way we communicate with the individuals around us or put much thought into it. We just say things and it doesn’t make sense to people. And sometimes lack of, you know, listening or lack of asking questions can create the miscommunication or misdiagnosis or, you know, if we don’t tell the doctor everything that’s going on, we’re like, well, you know, I want to tell you this because it’s embarrassing. Well, they’re there for a reason. You know, or parents are there for a reason. And parents don’t cultivate that with their kids that it’s safe for them to communicate with them instead of a judging, you know, stance that it’s that’s where people get complacent. And and my my point in all that is over time, the hurt and the even the trauma that builds up or the the resentment that gets built up in a lot of individuals or the mental health area in today’s world, I would say that it’s not knowing how to communicate what’s going on, not knowing how to prep people in, hey, this is going to be a an interesting conversation. Instead of just diving in and, you know, not having them as root when we speak and learning how to convey what our thoughts are. Most people are speaking and they’re only painting half of the picture, and we’re expecting others to understand and know exactly what we’re saying. Yet we’re not saying the whole thing.

Angela Kim: Right.

Trisha Stetzel: Yeah, absolutely. And it as you were, as you were talking through that, I was thinking it may make someone suppress their feelings because they don’t feel like they have a safe place to communicate. They’ve never had that openness or someone like you that they can openly communicate with without judgment. Right. And I think that’s so important. I, I spend a lot of time on communication skills, typically in the office, uh, less in the personal space, but I know how important it can be, um, verbal and nonverbal. Right. As we communicate with other human beings. All right. So I’m going to go full circle back to this overworked nervous system. And I think that this, um, you talk in part of your write up, you talk about artificial stimulation. So is there some part of that that really makes our nervous system so overworked? I know there’s real things. There are things that we do and we get worried about and our kids and our families and our work, and. But is there some part of this artificial stimulation that’s causing some of that? And how do we know?

Angela Kim: Yes, the.

Angela Kim: Artificial stimulation that I’m referring to, it’s it’s like the media, the news, the the shows that we watch, uh, the people that we listen to, the people that we talk to or the books that we read, um, it’s Healthy to a certain extent, to trigger ourselves if we’re stuck and numb us to feel certain emotions. Because that’s where my my specialty in trauma and PTSD working with those comes into play. However. Oh, I just lost my train of thought.

Angela Kim: Oh my goodness. It’s okay. Yeah.

Trisha Stetzel: No worries. You were talking about we were talking about, uh, artificial stimulation. How all of this outside communication can really heighten. Right. The way we feel. Mhm.

Angela Kim: Yes. When I yes, I was talking about getting triggered. Right. So when we get triggered, um, a lot of times in my coaching practice, I encourage my clients who tend to have a tendency of numbing their emotions out and not really recognizing that there’s something bothering them, that they’re not realizing that they’re behaving or reacting in certain ways. And so I encourage them to use artificial Stimulation to trigger certain emotions. Those are helpful. Yet the unhelpful side of it is when people are watching a lot of horror movies or they’re watching, you know, a lot of war movies or documentaries. Those are helpful. Yet too much of anything, you know, anything in this world, you know, is unhealthy, unhealthy and unhelpful. And so that’s where I was saying the artificial stimulation is creating the heightened. The body’s the mind’s still overstimulated. Right. So the body is going to be working and it’s going to be in fight or flight while you’re watching the movie and you’re not realizing that every little bit adds up. It’s almost like every little compliment that we give a child. It helps them to be confident and boost them, and it helps them grow. And it’s nourishment and the things that we every little bit that we, you know, chip away at our shoulders and chip away at our heart and or the traumas that we watch. That’s it does the same thing. And so that’s the artificial thing that I was talking about.

Angela Kim: Yeah.

Trisha Stetzel: No. So I see both sides of it where it can be good for healing if done purposeful. Right. Uh, but on the other hand, if we’re just filling our brains. Uh, listen, I am not a news gal. I hate having the news on because I feel like it just. It heightens my stress. So when I go in the house, I’m like, mom, turn the TV off. Let’s put something else on. Right. Because I think there’s so much outside. Um, I don’t in my head it’s arguing, right? No. I’m right. No. I’m right. No. I’m right. So I, I want to tackle one other thing because I, it comes up a lot with, uh, women that I work with, which is comparison. So I’m using social media as an example. A lot of us will get on social media and scroll, and most, most people on social media are only telling part of the story. So I’m just kind of bringing this full circle right around some of the things that we suppressed, the things that we aren’t communicating, we’re only communicating the good. But then I maybe sit alone and scroll through and then compare myself to all of the people who are amazing and beautiful and doing amazing things. So what are your thoughts around the whole idea of comparing myself or ourselves to others on social media?

Angela Kim: Mm.

Angela Kim: That’s a rough I mean, that’s comparison is ah, it’s actually one of the key things that I, I work on with my clients. Um, because how can we compare, you know, how can we compare that person’s progress or that person’s accomplishments or their looks. If you have no idea what they’ve done to get to that.

Angela Kim: Point.

Angela Kim: Or what it took, right. The discipline is something that people don’t really see on the backside and the comparison. Again, it’s a very self-defeating habit. And these are just habits, right? The habit of overthinking, the habit of comparing, the habit of worrying. So these are the things that I really work on with my clients especially. While I work on it with both male and female clients. Right. It’s just my words. I use them a little bit differently, so it works well with that population. And so women worry and then men they just think mhm.

Angela Kim: Yeah absolutely.

Trisha Stetzel: So I’d really be curious to know who I know. Who some of your clients or potential clients might be. But I also know that many of them may have been through something that, um, they’re scared to have a conversation with someone about. So what words do you have for those people who are listening to the show today that might just need to have a conversation with you? What are your words for them today? To let them know that it’s okay just to reach out and have a conversation with you?

Angela Kim: The word.

Angela Kim: Honestly, there’s I can just say that no matter what we do or what they have done or what they’ve gone.

Angela Kim: Through.

Angela Kim: Or lack thereof. Right. Because sometimes we judge ourselves more harshly than anyone else. And so, um, I would say if somebody who is a believer of God or the universe, it’s look inside of you because that’s where you can find that God or that universe. And so it takes you sitting with someone who can actually just accept you for what you’ve done and who you’ve been, and then help you recognize that for you right now is someone who gets to be loved and heard and seen.

Angela Kim: Mhm.

Trisha Stetzel: I love that. Angela, thank you for being here today. Being vulnerable, talking about working on yourself. We all need to be working on ourselves all of the time and really understand the triggers and where that’s coming from. I’d love for you to share as we finish up today a success story, either your own or one that you’ve had with a client.

Angela Kim: Um.

Angela Kim: I think right now you can see that I’m my success story. However, I have a client that is very near and dear to me. Um, I actually keep in touch with all of my a lot of my clients that I’ve had. Um, they’re a former Olympic wrestler in Hawaii and former for a reason. They had a traumatic brain injury not once, but multiple times.

Angela Kim: Mhm.

Angela Kim: Um, so, you know, when you’re in the Olympics, that’s like your dream, that’s your sport, that is your passion. That is what you live for right. And so it’s almost like my sport of coaching and working with people’s mental state. This individual was working on their physical mental everything. So when they went through the traumatic brain injury. They were pushing themselves way harder than they should have. The first time it happened and they came to me at the last, almost like at the last resort. The their family member. Nothing was working. Therapy, treatments, the, um, the cell treatment, neural stem cells. Those weren’t working. Nothing was really helping. And they finally gave me a chance to work with him. And I said, let’s work with you from the basic, from bottom up. This is rehabilitating because rehabilitation comes with a lot of acceptance and just realizing, okay, this is my new name. How can I take what has happened to me and transform it into something that I can help others, you know, do better the next time? Around because he’s now coaching other wrestlers. He has his own gym now and he’s passionately helping other students. You know, the kids that he’s coaching and how to take care of themselves, how to work on their mental, emotional and physical state because there’s that, that soul part of your passion. Right. And learning how to shift that around from pain to purpose.

Trisha Stetzel: That’s beautiful. Angela, thank you so much for being with me today. It’s been a joy to have you on the show. And again, I appreciate your vulnerability telling your story, and I would love for people to connect with you if they’re feeling that energy from you. So how do you want people to connect with you?

Angela Kim: Thank you.

Angela Kim: Must connect with me through, um, the Instagram and just reach out that way. And uh, Angela Kim .111.

Angela Kim: One.

Angela Kim: And just message me there and say, hey, I found you out through Trisha’s podcast. Um, and it’s called Houston Business Radio. And so just let me know that you heard about my story and it it resonated with you. And, um, let’s have a chat. So thank you so much, Trisha.

Trisha Stetzel: Thank you. I appreciate you very much for being here. So Angela Kim 111 on Instagram. I’ll have all of her other social channels available for you in the show notes, so that you can just point and click if you’re sitting in front of your computer. Angela, thank you again for being with me today. That’s all the time we have for today’s show. Join us next time for another exciting episode of Houston Business Radio. Until then, stay tuned, stay inspired, and keep thriving in the Houston business community.

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Alan Lazaros with Next Level University

March 28, 2025 by angishields

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Alan-Lazaros Alan Lazaros is the Founder and CEO of Next Level University, a Global Top 100 Self-Improvement Podcast reaching listeners in over 175 countries.

After a near-fatal car accident at age 26, Alan transformed his life through holistic self-improvement, leaving behind an unfulfilling career to pursue his true calling.

Today, he leads a global team, coaching and training others with his heart-driven, no-BS approach to achieving lasting success and fulfillment.

In his conversation with Trisha Stetzel, Alan shared his powerful personal journey from tragedy to transformation. They discussed the role of self-belief, mindset, and consistent action in reaching one’s potential.

Alan also shared strategies for working with individuals stuck in negative thinking and emphasized the importance of prioritizing personal growth to create lasting, positive change.

Connect with Alan on LinkedIn.

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Intro: Broadcasting live from the Business RadioX studios in Houston, Texas. It’s time for Houston Business Radio. Now, here’s your host.

Trisha Stetzel: Hello, Houston. Trisha Stetzel here bringing you another episode of Houston Business Radio. It is my pleasure to have Alan Lazaros with on with me today. He is the CEO and founder of Next Level University and does coaching, training and podcasting. We have so much to talk about. Alan, welcome to the show.

Alan Lazaros : Thank you, Trisha, for having me. I the aligned things that I do early on podcasts ten years ago really started to sort of help me reconstruct my life. So I don’t take it lightly to be here. I really appreciate it. And anyone who is watching or listening, I think what you pay attention to changes your future drastically. So I don’t take it lightly. I don’t want to waste a second of anyone’s time. I will do my very best to sincerely help you improve yourself and improve your life.

Trisha Stetzel: I love that, thank you so much. We have so much to talk about, but I told you before we started the show that we’re going to have to be tight today. Now, first, I’d really like for you to tell the audience, Who is Allen?

Alan Lazaros : Yeah. So I’ll give you the shortest possible version that I can. So I’m 36 now. I used to joke and say, I hope I hit puberty at 37, but now I have a little mustache, so I can’t say that anymore. Uh, but, um, I look very young. And so I’ll give you the three main, pivotal, pivotal, pivotal points of my story. The first one, uh, so started in adversity. Not a great start. Grew up in a very challenging situation. So my father, my birth father, his name is John McCorkle, passed away when he was 28, in 1991, in a car accident. So that was the start. Uh, older sister, mom, stay at home mom, stepdad came into the picture. Steve Lazarus. I took his name around age seven. So from 3 to 14 I had a stepfather named Steve Lazarus. He worked for a company called Agfa AG and for hospital computers during the.com bubble in Massachusetts in the US. So we did very well financially as many people did in the 90s. Uh, so from the outside looking in, it was very good from the inside out. My mom and stepdad did not get along, and that is a very polite way to put it. And they loved to party. Stepdad leaves at 14 because they don’t get along. Takes his entire extended family with him. Also takes 90% of the income. So I go from boats and ski trips to even if I get into college, my dream was to go to WPI mini MIT in Massachusetts, it’s called WPI, Worcester Polytechnic Institute.

Alan Lazaros : It’s one of the best engineering colleges on the planet, and it’s $50,000 a year. And this was back then. That was my dream to be an engineer. And I went for my hope I get in to even if I do get in, I’m not going to be able to go because we’re broke. We’re not going to starve, but definitely not 50 grand a year type of family. So no dad, no generational wealth. Uh, no future trust fund, none of that. So it’s like, if it’s going to be. It’s up to me. Man of the house by 14. Other side of this coin to mom gets in a fight with my aunt Sandy, her sister. We get ostracized from her side of the family, too, and we don’t associate much with the mccorkles because we were kind of being the lazarus’s. So in some ways, by the time I’m 14, I kind of lost three families. To this day, I’ve not seen or spoken to a single person from my step dad’s side. To this day, I’ve only ever seen two human beings from my mother’s side, so the abandonment challenges didn’t know this at the time. Obviously, because I’m a kid and I don’t know any different. But now it’s very clear that I became this sort of super achiever, prove myself guy. And so straight A’s through all of high school computer engineering at WPI.

Alan Lazaros : Master’s in business. Off to the races. 1% earner in my early 20s. Just investment account. The whole nine. Then I get in my car. Accident. 26 years old. My fault. Crossed the double yellows. Head on collision. Fortunately. Volkswagen Passat 2004 Volkswagen Passat. I bought it for five grand cash just because I didn’t need much. Broke high school and college, that kind of thing. And thank you. Volkswagen totally saved my life. I used to call this car the tank and I was physically okay rattled. But this was my quarter life crisis because I’m 26 at the time, my dad died in a car when he was 28, and this is when I just questioned my entire life. So that was ten years ago. And so after that, I found self-improvement. I found personal growth. I found personal development. I started a little company called Allen Lazarus, LLC. What you’ll never learn in school but desperately need to know. Good luck getting speeches at high schools and colleges with that tagline. And now I have next level university. We have a 17 person team. We’re herding 175 countries. We have, as of today, 1.18 million listens. And we have a global business now. But it all started from very humble beginnings and a lot of work ethic and a lot of pain and suffering and adversity. And that was the shortest the shortest one I could give you. Sorry if it was too long.

Trisha Stetzel: Yeah. There’s absolutely no need to apologize. I appreciate the vulnerability and being able to share as much of your story as you did today. And I know the things that you like to bring to the table, Alan, are consistency, habits, peak performance, mindset. All of these were kind of shook up in that story that you just gave. So thank you, uh, for doing that. I’d love to focus on the mindset piece today if that works for you. And I really believe in all of the adversity that you’ve been through and the things that we start to tell ourselves, and we believe that mindset is a huge part of that. So you talk about how that I know that it’s played out in your story, but particularly and by the way, he doesn’t look a day over 21 if you’re not looking at the video. I’m just saying, um, in your 30s, how does that play out now from a mindset perspective?

Alan Lazaros : Well, first and foremost, thank, thank you for the the looking young thing that does not help me in my business career, though, particularly with men. They love learning from a 12 year old. Uh, no seriously. But I think later on it’ll be helpful at the end of the day. Mindset. What I would transform that word into in the context of this conversation is actually self-belief. What I think is interesting, and Trisha, I can already tell that you are someone who is an achiever and achievers, for lack of better phrasing, are people who have very high what’s known as self-efficacy. So the adversities that I went through, and I only gave you the tip of the iceberg. And there’s something called an ace score adverse childhood experiences. And I have a therapist named Carol, and I finally had the courage to ask her, like, hey, where am I at on this? And she said, worst I’ve ever seen. I’ve never seen the level of trauma like it is, you know, a whole thing. So. And I bawled my eyes out. I accepted it and and I also am grateful for what I’ve made of it, what I’ve made of it. But what I’ve come to understand as an adult, having coached, uh, hundreds of people over the years, I have 18 people on my roster right now, business owners, and it’s been hundreds over the years. Um, mindset, coach, peak performance coach, life coach, business consultant, fitness coach, and eventually landed on business coaching. What I come to realize is that adversity is only your advantage if you have high self-efficacy.

Alan Lazaros : And I didn’t know that I had high self-efficacy. And by the way, people who have high self-efficacy don’t know that you don’t because everyone pretends they believe in themselves in in social settings, especially around other people who believe in themselves a lot. And so what I’ve come to understand is that, uh, the best way I can describe it is that some people think that they have high self-belief, but unconsciously they don’t. And then some people think they don’t, and unconsciously they do. And then there’s some people that are both meaning they think they do and they do. You’re probably one of those. Okay. So other people look at people like Trisha, for example, and they don’t understand why she always follows through. They don’t understand why she wins at everything she does. The truth is that socially, she feels like she has to dim who she is in order to get along with people at a barbecue. But behind the scenes, she’s a monster. She’s able to crush it. And most people are the opposite behind the scenes. They’re struggling. They don’t believe in themselves, but socially, they puff up and pretend they’re awesome. And what I’ve come to understand through years and years and years and years and years of this, is that your level of success is directly correlated to the amount of unconscious self-belief that you have. And again, if you research it, call it self-efficacy.

Alan Lazaros : You can ChatGPT this. You can Google this whatever you want to do, there’s a way to build it. Now there’s two types of self-efficacy. There’s the external self-efficacy, which is self-belief. My ability, my belief and my own ability to achieve something externally. You and I have that very high. What? We don’t have as much, or maybe didn’t until we were older is, uh, self-worth. Self-worth is how much you value yourself. And usually that’s based on social, uh, being treated well. And so for people who have been very mistreated, uh, particularly by insecure people, you basically feel like, why doesn’t anyone like me, I don’t understand. I feel like I’m treated so unjustly when in reality what it is, is you are triggering the insecurities of other people who don’t believe in themselves and think they do. And so all this is landing for you, okay. And any other achievers, it’s it’s landing too. For anyone who’s not identifying as an achiever, you’re probably not listening to the show. But if you are out there, you got to check in with your level of true self-belief. Now, true self-belief is built with a formula. I’m an engineer and this will be the last piece. I know we’re short medium here. It’s a formula state. Proves self-assign. So state. I’m going to go to the gym tomorrow. Prove to yourself that you’re going to go no matter what happens. And then self-assign it once you go. Then what else can I do? What else can I do? What else can I do? What else can I do? Here’s the problem.

Alan Lazaros : If you don’t have high self-belief, unconsciously you’re not going to state in advance what you’re going to do. So my business partner, Kevin, he was an all star baseball player, but he thought he got lucky. He didn’t decide to be. I have never not decided in advance. So for me, I always got to self-assign it after I did it. So the straight A’s in high school, I decided to do that, and then I proved to myself I could do it, and then I self assigned it once I did it and I got the president’s award behind me signed by George W Bush. And that’s building self-belief. But I didn’t know that at the time. I was just doing this unconsciously without knowing it. And now that I’m 36 and I’ve coached so many people, I go, oh, you’re not building self-belief. So of course you’re not going to aim high and shoot for the stars and land amongst the moon and all that kind of stuff. I actually think that’s terrible advice for someone who doesn’t have deep, unconscious self-belief. For someone who has tons of self-belief, you need to go eat humble pie. You need to aim higher, work harder, get smarter. For someone who doesn’t, you got to start really small and you got to build a staircase. What else can I do? What else can I do? What else can I do?

Trisha Stetzel: I like that a lot. So, um, you’re gonna we’re gonna talk about it or think about it, and we’re going to show the proof of it, and then we’re going to self-assign it. I think that that breaks it down into such simple terms. So one of the things that I talk with my clients about quite often when it comes to mindset is the actual language that we’re using. Um, I don’t know about you, but I meet a lot of people who use a lot of don’t, can’t, won’t, shouldn’t and negatives in their language. How do you think that plays out in that self-belief, in the actions that we actually take?

Alan Lazaros : Well, if you have high self-belief, we all have a record playing and I’m going to give you Trisha’s record and she’ll nod her head when I say it. So we all have an unconscious record playing the unconscious record playing for you and I, as scary as this is to share, is you got this. You can do it. You got it, you can do it. You got this, you got this. You can do it. That’s not the record most people statistically have playing. So I researched this, uh, back in 2024. We do a monthly meetup every month. We’ve been doing them for four years. They’re totally free virtual events. And the it was setting clear goals for 2024. And I did some research, and I found out that only 4% of people have clear written goals and only 8% of them, based on this research, ever achieve them. And when I heard that, I was like, what? I’ve never not had written goals even when I was a kid, you know? But I’m the weirdo engineer, though. So. So the other record that the majority 96% of the population has playing, and this goes to your question about the the verbiage is you’re not good enough. You’re not smart enough. It’s not going to work for you.

Alan Lazaros : You’re not like them. It’s never going to happen. See, those people need self-belief. What you and I need. We’re already optimistic. We don’t need more optimism. We don’t need more delusion. We need humble pie. Right. You think you’re so great. Go run a marathon on a whim. I tried to do it. Humble pie for days. Three days notice. Okay, but for people like my business partner, Kevin, they do not need to run a marathon on a whim and then feel even worse. What they need to do is prove to themselves, little by little that they are good enough. They are smart enough, they can do it. And so it all depends on your wiring. And the record that’s playing is based on the story you told yourself when you were younger. And it’s also based on core wounds. And that’s a lot of therapy stuff. So, um, for you, it’s I’m a winner, I got this, we can do it. We got this. We can do it. And that’s the verbiage that they hear. And it’s like some of your friends and past people from your past are like, why does Trisha win at everything? I don’t understand, like, she must be so lucky. You. And I know it’s not luck.

Alan Lazaros : It’s every second of every day behind the scenes when no one’s watching. Wow. She gets lucky a lot, right? No, it’s not luck. It’s it’s it’s a wiring. And for someone who does have the not good enough, I, I empathize, I understand, I know that I don’t have that. And by the way, anyone listening knows I don’t too. That’s why everyone thinks I’m so arrogant. Okay? But in reality, I’m not actually that arrogant. I’m just confident. Real confident. And yes, sometimes a little arrogant. But at the end of the day, what I’ve come to understand is that if you have the record playing, that you’re not good enough, which is the majority of the population, even though socially no one admits it. You have to work on that. And that comes down to your verbiage that you use. So for you and I, we can say, ah, man, I suck. Damn I suck. Like, ah, I’m really sucking right now. Ah this podcast. I’m sucking. But for us that’s actually getting us humble. For other people that’s very detrimental, very deconstructive, because you and I are going to show up regardless. And so for achievers, you got to give different advice for people who don’t identify as an achiever.

Trisha Stetzel: Yeah. Oh my god. Okay. So I feel like I should be on the on the like on the receiving end of counseling. Today I’m just saying you’re doing a really good job. Head nodding and everything. Um. All right, we’re maybe halfway through our conversation. Uh, if folks are already interested, Allan, in getting in touch with you or learning more about next level university, how do they find you?

Alan Lazaros : Yeah. So I appreciate it very much. And, uh, Next Level University is the name of the podcast. It’s next level, you pun intended. So I’m Allan, version 3.6, far more mature than Alan version 2.6. So every year we upgrade our software. It’s a metaphor. I’m an engineer, so I’m a tech guy. But anyways, um, so next level, you pun intended. It’s a it’s a place where you work on yourself. 1% improvement in your pocket from anywhere on the planet. Health, wealth, life and love. Completely free. And that’s that’s where you can find me. But ultimately, I’m on Instagram, I’m on Facebook, I’m on LinkedIn. Uh, you can DM me on Instagram. That’s definitely the best place if you want to connect, because I do check that daily right now. And um, my email is Alan at Next Level. Universe.com. If you do reach out, please provide context. Obviously we all get a lot of spam these days. And then next level Universe.com is the website and everything is on there. We have a book club every week. We do. I got a journal, uh, the Dreamliner that helps you reverse engineer your goals. We’ve got monthly meetups we do every month, and, uh, all of it’s on there.

Trisha Stetzel: Fantastic. And listeners, you know, I’ll put the show notes out there so you guys can just point and click if you happen to be sitting in front of your computer. All right, Alan, since we’re on the topic of mindset, things have been a little I don’t know, um, I’m hearing a lot of negativity from my the people that I run my typical circles with, right? Whether they’re my clients or the people that I’m hanging around with about the environment for business right now. Last year, there were excuses of, you know, things that were happening in November this year, there are more excuses about things that are happening. I don’t know right now, yesterday or the day before. And I really believe that this whole idea of being an achiever, what you were talking about, not all of us are. Thank you for helping me figure out what’s wrong with me.

Alan Lazaros : It’s a it’s a beautiful sickness. It’s a gift and a curse. Yeah.

Trisha Stetzel: It is absolutely a curse. Um, but how do we. What can we do to help? What questions do we ask? What conversations do we have with these business owners around this mindset where nobody’s buying. Nobody’s moving. Nobody. Fill in the blank. Right. Nobody’s doing anything. And they’re just these business owners are sitting still, waiting for something to shift and the phone to ring.

Alan Lazaros : Everyone wants to jump on a moving train. And I think it’s really important if you can do it behind the scenes when no one’s watching. And consistently. I always ask myself this before I work with someone, and I don’t know if I’ve ever actually shared this in a public medium, but, um, can this person sit alone in a dark room on a StairMaster for a half an hour without anyone watching, without posting it on Instagram? And if my answer intuitively is no, I’m not hiring that person. I’m not going to work with them. So there’s there’s a certain type of person that I’m really good at working with. And this is through massive pain and failure of ten years of mentoring, eight years of coaching. I work with people with high humility, high work ethic, and low self-worth. And the reason I work with people with low self-worth is they’re the earners, not the entitled. And for anyone out there that, uh, is entitled, you’re not going to like me at all because I came from nothing, and I’m. I haven’t taken a day off in ten years. Um, and you probably think I’m arrogant, and that’s okay. It is what it is. But what I would say to answer your question is there’s there’s always going to be a reason not to start. There’s always going to be there is an okay. Kevin and I both grew up without fathers. We both grew up with very little. After my stepdad left, we had nothing. We came from nothing. We didn’t have any generational wealth. We didn’t have any advantages. Um, we were born. Let me rephrase. I was born in a country that helped me with financial aid.

Alan Lazaros : Massachusetts and the US, thank you so much, because I wouldn’t have been able to go to college if it wasn’t for that. So we were born in a large economy. I’m very grateful. Other than that, there wasn’t any advantages. It was you have to make your own way. And I gave you the tip of the iceberg of my story. And, uh, I could have made any excuse in the world, you know, I could have, you know, I could have made every excuse. And what I’ve come to understand back to the self-belief, conversation, the mindset, the record playing. If you do have low self-belief, you have to own that first. There needs to be an acceptance. So there’s that great quote that says it is our dark. It is not our darkness, but our light that most frightens us. Okay. So that resonates with you. That doesn’t resonate with someone who’s afraid of failure. So your fear is success because the more you climb, the more you get socially ostracized by people you love. Okay. All that’s resonating. So that resonates with us and we’re alone in that. And statistically speaking, that’s like 3% of the population for the other people. They’re not afraid of their greatness. They’re afraid of not being great. That’s their actual fear. I’m not afraid of not being great. I’m afraid of outshining and then being villainized by everyone who’s insecure and doesn’t know it and doesn’t want to admit it because they’d rather attack me. And that’s why I’m probably red right now. I’m super red. So you see how red I am on my neck?

Trisha Stetzel: Is that what you’re picking up on? My cheeks are red.

Alan Lazaros : Well, that’s because we’re not allowed to talk about this stuff, right? This is social ostracization. Hard. Yeah, it’s very hard. So in a business networking event, Trisha feels great at a barbecue. Not so much. Right. You don’t fit in at a barbecue. Most people do. Most people do. Statistically. Statistically. So back to the conversation of the question that you had asked. If you do struggle with self-belief and you don’t actually believe in yourself and you do have the record playing when no one’s watching of I’m not good enough, I’m not smart enough, it’s not going to work for me. I’m not one of those people. Then what you have to do is admit that first. Not to me, not to Trisha, but to yourself. Why would you work on something that you don’t admit needs work. You wouldn’t. So the first step to success, regardless of the economy, regardless of who’s president, regardless of your circumstances, is going inside and going, okay, this is going to be a mountain. This is going to be hard. Most people don’t win despite what social media shows us. And there’s a good chance that I fall flat on my face. There’s a good chance I’m going to get judged. You will get judged. Aunts, uncles, family, you name it. You will be ridiculed.

Alan Lazaros : You will be disliked by certain people. You will fail. You will give a speech that bombs. You will try an event that doesn’t sell out. You will xyz. And it’s better than sitting here and waiting and living with regret later. So the only way that I’ve been able to help people, uh, chase their passion and their purpose for a profit and build a business is to get them to realize the downside of not doing it. Because in two years, there’s going to be another reason not to do it. And in five years, there’s going to be another reason not to do it. And in business, staying power is the game. I’m eight years in. It was crickets in the beginning. Trust me, I couldn’t get a client to save my goddamn life. Um, and now it’s people. Literally. I got an email earlier from a new client. It does. It snowballs. And so you got to start the train because everyone does want to jump on a moving train. Think about a winning team. Everyone wants to be on a winning team. But that same team that’s now a championship team was at one point down and out struggle bus. Nobody knew their name and no one cared. And that’s where everyone starts.

Trisha Stetzel: I like your analogy of the trains. I talk to people all the time. You know, if you don’t start now, you’re going to be six months behind. If you don’t start now, you’re going to be A year behind. You’re going to be 12 months behind. You’re going to be whatever that looks like, right? For that particular person. And I love the idea of the moving train because everybody wants to get on a moving train. So just move the train. And that’s a great place to start and engage with somebody like Alan who can figure you out just like that.

Alan Lazaros : Thank you. Trisha, I appreciate it.

Trisha Stetzel: Thank you. I’m teasing you. Uh, okay. So I know our time has gone by so fast, which just means that you have to come back so we can tackle another topic together. But before we part today, I would love to hear your favorite success story.

Alan Lazaros : Ah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. Um hmm. So thank you for priming me for this one, because I do have many that come to mind. You know what? There’s two that I’ll share very, very quickly. My business partner, Kevin, is probably the greatest success story that I’ve ever seen. He. He came from nothing. He’s the first person in his entire extended family to ever even Chase his dreams. Um, he didn’t go to college. He was a forklift operator. He was a gas station attendant. Like he is just. Just such a beautiful display. I’ll share this story that I think, uh, articulates it. So I was at his wedding, and he did his first dance with his wife, Taryn, and I knew them, you know, before they got married. And I started bawling my eyes out. And his, his best friend Matt came over and he gave me, he said, hey, here you go, man. It gave me a handkerchief. And I don’t know if Matt knew why I was crying, but the reason I was crying was because this, this dude could have been nothing. And I don’t mean that negatively. I don’t mean that in any negative way. But seriously, like, he could have been nothing. He came from a I’ll let him share his story another time. But he came from a a humble beginnings and he made something of himself.

Alan Lazaros : And to me, that’s the most inspiring thing in the entire world because we all know someone who had a lot of potential. We all know someone who had a lot of potential. I can think of several. It makes me very sad that didn’t didn’t reach their potential at all, didn’t even touch their potential, actually. And, uh, Kevin, we just crossed 2000 episodes like he’s a business partner of mine. I mean, he’s he’s my my best friend and my my business partner. And we have created a global company together. And he never thought in a million years he always asks, he’s like, did you think we’d get here? I say, brother with like, don’t ask me that on air. Yes. You know, if anything, we’re behind. Um, but it’s beyond his wildest dreams. It’s. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. You’re not allowed to say that, right? So, uh. But for Kev, he’s beyond his wildest dreams, and he’s he’s unbelievable. So you know that. That’s so inspiring. And then I have another client named Bianca who also same, same type of story. And, you know, just all of her dreams. I remember going through a checklist when I coached her six years ago, and there’s a checklist of all her dreams coming true. And to me, I’m the ultimate dream chaser guy.

Alan Lazaros : Like, I love dreams. I can’t imagine a life without achievement and without dreams. Like, when you’re a kid, achievement is cool. And then when you’re an adult, it gets all weird. It’s like, oh, good for you, bro. I, I just think that the future could be bigger, better and brighter if we all work toward it. And I don’t like dreams. I don’t like life without dreams. Like, I grew up in the boulevard of broken dreams. I grew up where people didn’t like their life. They didn’t like their career. They didn’t like their job. They don’t. You guys don’t even love each. You guys don’t even like each other. Never mind. Love each other. Like marriage. Scared the hell out of me, right? So I’ll get off the soapbox here. But ultimately, those are the success stories. They both started from very humble beginnings. They both could have been nothing, and they made something magnificent of themselves. And now they’re inspiring so many people all over the world. Both of them are. And that’s that’s possible because they didn’t believe it was possible. And I think that we all need someone to believe in us or love us, depending on which type you are. I think achievers need love. I think people who who don’t have self-belief need someone to believe in them.

Trisha Stetzel: So yeah, absolutely. We all have a story to tell, right? All of us do, whether we’re achievers or need somebody to believe in us. Absolutely. Oh my goodness. You have to come back because I want to talk to you some more. I love this topic of mindset. There’s so many other things that we can talk about. And I love what you brought to the table today. I know that my listeners got a ton of value out of the conversation that we had. So thank you so much for being with me today and having this conversation around mindset.

Alan Lazaros : Trisha, thank you for having me. Thank you for the work you’re doing in the world, and I would love to come back. It was an honor. And for anyone listening, thank you for listening. Because like I said, that what you pay attention to is going to change everything. So. Yeah. Thank you.

Trisha Stetzel: Absolutely. Alan Lazarus, tell us how we can find you one more time.

Alan Lazaros : Uh. Next level universe. Com. The person who has next level University.com was charging way too much. And Next Level University is the name of the podcast, and you can find that on all the podcast platforms. Youtube. We just crossed our 2,000th episode. So, uh, if you want a mentor or a guide or just some motivation, inspiration or education in your pocket from anywhere on the planet, completely free, next level university.

Trisha Stetzel: Fantastic. Congratulations on your just going over your 2,000th episode. That is not an easy thing to do.

Alan Lazaros : Thank you very much. It was a, uh, challenging journey.

Trisha Stetzel: I look forward to having you back. Thank you again for spending the time with me. That’s all the time we have for today’s show. Join us next time for another exciting episode of Houston Business Radio. Until then, stay tuned, stay inspired, and keep thriving in the Houston business community.

 

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March 28, 2025 by angishields

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In this episode of Cherokee Business Radio, Joshua Kornitsky interviews Jeane Gutierrez, founder of Action Plan Sales, Dana Dorris, senior partner at Risk and Insurance of North Georgia, and Richard Flournoy with Flournoy Consulting. Jeane discusses how she helps business owners enhance their sales by identifying common mistakes and implementing structured sales processes. Dana shares her extensive experience in the insurance industry, emphasizing the importance of risk management. Richard provides insights into his consulting work, highlighting unique challenges and solutions for various industries. The episode provides valuable insights into improving sales strategies, understanding risk management, and navigating industry-specific challenges, offering practical advice for small business owners aiming to scale their operations and prepare for future transitions.

Jeane-Gutierrez-hsGrowing sales shouldn’t feel like guesswork.

That’s why Jeane Gutierrez helps business owners and CEOs build a clear, repeatable path to more revenue.

With 20+ years of experience and Sales Xceleration’s proven systems, she works alongside teams to develop scalable sales strategies, target the right customers, and build high-performing sales teams. Action-Plan-Rocket-Logo

As a Fractional VP of Sales, she can also provide hands-on leadership —delivering results without the full-time cost.

With a background that spans cultures and industries, Jeane takes a creative and adaptable approach to problem-solving and sales growth.

Outside of work, she enjoys yoga, tennis, and discovering new places and cuisines—always up for a great conversation!

Connect with Jeane on LinkedIn.

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Dana-Dorris-hsDana Dorris is a seasoned insurance professional with over 20 years of experience in risk management and insurance.

As a Senior Partner at Risk & Insurance Consultants of North Georgia, she specializes in personal lines and small business insurance, ensuring her clients receive tailored solutions to safeguard their assets.

Dana takes great pride in her ability to craft comprehensive insurance strategies that provide peace of mind and financial security. Her deep industry knowledge and client-focused approach have made her a trusted advisor in the field.

Beyond her professional expertise, Dana is passionate about traveling the world and cherishing time with her family. She also has a strong affinity for collector vehicles and motorsports, a passion that fuels her appreciation for the unique risks associated with high-value assets.

With a commitment to excellence and a personalized approach to insurance, Dana Dorris is dedicated to protecting what matters most to her clients.

Connect with Dana on LinkedIn.

Richard-Flournoy-hsRichard Flournoy is the founder of Flournoy Consulting and Luxe + Roam Travel. Through Flournoy Consulting, he helps businesses achieve measurable growth by aligning strategies with clear goals. Luxe-Roam-Travel-logo

Luxe + Roam Travel offers busy professionals transformative luxury travel experiences, blending seamless planning with exclusive partnerships to inspire and rejuvenate.

Richard’s work reflects his passion for unlocking potential in both business and life.

 

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Intro: Broadcasting live from the Business RadioX studios in Atlanta, Georgia. It’s time for High Velocity Radio.

Joshua Kornitsky: Welcome to Cherokee Business Radio, where business leaders get the word out about the important work they’re doing to serve their market, their community, and their profession. I’m Joshua Kornitsky here with you. And today we’ve got three guests in the studio. And I’d like to start by introducing Jeanee Gutierrez, the founder of Action Plan Sales. Jeanee, good morning. Welcome.

Jeane Gutierrez: Good morning. Happy to be here. Thanks for having me.

Joshua Kornitsky: Thank you for coming in. We sure appreciate it. So tell me a little bit about what you do.

Jeane Gutierrez: Sure. So what I do is I help business owners get more sales. That’s what I tell a five year old.

Joshua Kornitsky: Well, then you’re on the right. The right track with me.

Jeane Gutierrez: So basically, um, to kind of break it down is, um, I build a path to more sales so that it’s consistent and repeatable, and that’s what I do because there’s so many small business owners out there.

Joshua Kornitsky: So what types of things do you see when you’re working with these business owners? Do they make a lot of the same mistakes?

Jeane Gutierrez: Yes, they absolutely do because you really think about it, right? You’re a small business owner. You go into business. Why? Because you have a passion or you have an expertise in a certain area. Um, but did you go into it because, hey, I really love sales quotas. I really love sales training and metrics. You know. No, that’s not why. So.

Joshua Kornitsky: Okay, so when you’re helping the folks that you’re helping, um, you know, what are some of the reasons that they struggle?

Jeane Gutierrez: Oh, gosh. I would say the biggest thing when it comes to small and medium business owners is they struggle because they’re growing. And what they do is they promote or they put someone in that business sales spot or a business manager, their top person. So, you know, maybe they their their partner or someone who is great in operations and great out in the field doing whatever it is in the trades or a professional person. They put them in the sales role and you know, that’s not the right thing. I mean, so you’re actually promoting someone, but they’re not a salesperson. So that’s the biggest mistake.

Joshua Kornitsky: So if they’ve let’s say they’ve put that person in and they may be the wrong person in the wrong seat or even the right person, but in the wrong seat, what do you do when you get involved with them to help get that on track?

Jeane Gutierrez: Okay. So the first thing is, um, and they’re not they’re not um, so everyone does this. It’s it’s not unique. And the reason they do this is because they say, well, this person has done such a great job, they know the business. And it could be even the owner, the owner themselves, they know the business so well, so of course they’re going to be the ones to sell it, to do the sales. And in the beginning, yes, that works. But when you’re trying to scale, what I do is I come in and see what the gaps are first, you know, you got to assess and a lot of a lot of times the number one thing is they don’t have a process. It’s all in their head. So it’s really hard when they’re trying to hire that next person to get all that stuff out in the head and, you know, verbally or do a ride along and you know, that only works so much. So basically you have to have something that’s very concrete, like what is the strategy? Who are you trying to target? And then what is that actual process look like from getting the lead in how to close the sale. And then really, you know, how do you follow up there and how do you track, um, success? All of those things are things that have to be put down, like in a sales playbook.

Joshua Kornitsky: So that’s a great concept. The first thought that occurs to me because using the example of of having that person who grew with the business sort of organically, right. They don’t necessarily know what all those steps are. All they’ve done is repeat what’s worked and avoided what hasn’t worked. So how do you help them kind of make sense of the chaos?

Jeane Gutierrez: So what’s great is I come in and sometimes I don’t even know what the business is. And that’s better because, you know, you have that blind spot because like you said, you know so much about it. So the customer or your target market does not. And you’re trying to solve a problem that they may not know that they have or a pain point. So it’s really asking questions like a five year old why why this why that. By doing that then you can actually break it down so that it’s very easy to explain and very easy to ask questions. And I’m going to get into that later. But the most important thing is oh, we were some of my colleagues here were talking about that. You know, when you’re selling something, people buy based on emotion, it’s not logic. Um, and they can’t buy on emotion unless they feel something. They can’t feel something if they don’t understand. So there are all these things happening in the background. But that business owner, they just know it. It’s part of their DNA. They hire someone, they’re not going to know it. So you got to break it down. It’s like when you’re training someone, you know, you’re a car mechanic and of course everything is, you know, it’s it’s second nature to you. You come in, I’m like, okay, I know I can do it if you just tell me what’s what.

Joshua Kornitsky: So, okay, you’ve, you’ve gone and you’ve you’ve helped them create a playbook. They’ve now got a process and they begin to sell. What happens when when the sale outpaces or the selling outpaces their ability to manage or to lead that. Because oftentimes you’ve got the, you know, the founder who’s busy doing other things right. And and now they’ve got this gap where they’ve got selling, but they don’t have leadership. How does that.

Jeane Gutierrez: Oh, okay. So, um, well, that’s a key to their selling, but they really should have someone that’s managing the day to day. The questions that they have. So, you know, salespeople are innately very self-sufficient. They want to be, you know, um, do you have the right incentives in place? Do you have the right commission in place? Um, you know, depending on what your company goals are, what are you trying to sell? So you put the incentives focused on that. Then you have to look at their activities. Because you know what? If you don’t put that in there, um, you may have someone just making 1 or 2 calls a day. Uh, so there’s lots of things that a manager looks at. It’s not a fun thing, but it’s something that needs to happen.

Joshua Kornitsky: Right. But do you help them in the event?

Jeane Gutierrez: Yes, I can help them as well. Um, so what I do is I’m, I’m what’s known as a fractional VP of sales. And so what that does is for small businesses, they may not be able to afford a full time sales manager. So I can help manage maybe one day a week, maybe a couple hours a week, whatever it is to scale. So the idea is that I help them grow to a point where they can now hire a full time sales manager, because a sales team does need someone managing them.

Joshua Kornitsky: So you’ve come in, you’ve established a playbook, you’ve helped them work out their compensation, their bonus plan, and then you’ve kind of rode shotgun while they get everything tightened up in an order. Do you just wash hands or do you help them find that next right person to fill that chair?

Jeane Gutierrez: Oh, I love how you tee that up. Yes, that is something that I can do as well. So it’s really just as from beginning to end. Beginning like really putting a strategy in place, rolling up my sleeves, putting that process together and then finding that person. So yes, there are things to look for. Um, you know, to make sure that there’s a personality fit, a culture fit, a skill set fit, depending on that industry.

Joshua Kornitsky: That makes perfect sense. So how did you learn to do all of these things?

Jeane Gutierrez: Oh my gosh, it’s just over time. Um, I started out actually in advertising. So a creative, uh, um, field and marketing. Um, but I fell into sales. But I was very fortunate because I ended up with a fortune 500 company. And, um, so they have the resources, those large companies, you know, they spend so much money on training. So I was trained for so many things. Um, and I didn’t realize that those processes that I learned that I, um, you know, used was what helped me become successful. Um, and then later, when I was in leadership, I just kind of used use the process as that, that I was taught. But, um, then later, um, when I wanted to find something more meaningful because, you know, big companies, you’re just looked at as a, um, you know, as a number, right? So even though I was doing well, it starts over and resets the next year. So I’m like, what is wrong?

Joshua Kornitsky: What have you done for me lately?

Jeane Gutierrez: Exactly. So the most meaningful was when, um, someone said, you know, there’s this business owner. Um, he’s got a small business, $3 million, and he’s struggling, and but he’s been in business for 20 years. And when I went in, I’m like, okay, let me see what I can do. And I was like, really surprised that they didn’t have a CRM, which is, you know, a software to be able to track activities. They didn’t they didn’t. They kept going through salespeople every, um, every nine months, which is crazy because they did not know who they were hiring. They were promoting people from within that they thought was good, and it would be frustrating for them for both sides, or they would hire outside, think, oh, you know, this person did really well in sales in this industry. Well, so there’s just there’s just a lot of things that go into it. So but I found that helping him, the CEO, um, was much more meaningful because I felt like I could see the impact I was making by just putting processes in place. He was he’s not alone. I mean, there’s so many businesses owned a business owners out there that just don’t have these because like I said before, they go into business not thinking about this, they’re just focused on that one product or service. Um, and then they get to this, you know, usually they’re very successful because they have 1 or 2 really large clients and it’s referral based, and they hit a plateau. Yeah.

Joshua Kornitsky: Well, and you and I were talking earlier and you had mentioned that there was this really complex relationship between competition and business growth. And I feel like this is maybe where that wood would fall in. So can you explain so that people understand?

Jeane Gutierrez: Yeah. So actually, you know, a lot of people, I mean, owners and salespeople are afraid of competition. And I had to learn this over time. The competition is actually good, especially if you really know, um, who you are as a company, what your value is and how you’re different, because then you can capitalize on that and really set yourself apart. Um, and actually, um, kind of brainstorm on what additional value you can bring. But, but you need to do the work. You need to understand who your competition is. Right. But also the reason competition is good is, um, because if you’re the first to market, you have to spend all this marketing dollars to really educate people. If there’s competition out there, people already know what your product or service is. You just need to stand out. And so that is a marketing and a sales um feat in in marketing and sales are different.

Joshua Kornitsky: No question at all. No question at all. Two completely different disciplines. So when you’ve helped people and they begin to grow and they they start to experience a level of success, is that the end of your engagement with them, or do you work with ownership to continue on towards some eventual sunset?

Jeane Gutierrez: Yeah, that’s the goal because the goal is I, I am not looking to work full time for a company. I’m looking to help several. And that’s like I said, that’s what’s meaningful for me. I’m now able to put in, see, um, the impact that I make. So that is my goal is to get to that point where they’re self-sufficient and it really depends on them. Um, maybe I’ll check in once a year. But really, the goal is for them to be self-sufficient with a sales manager, and they can do it on their own.

Joshua Kornitsky: So what advice do you give a business owner who say wants to exit at a certain point?

Jeane Gutierrez: Oh, you mean like exit? Like.

Joshua Kornitsky: Like we’ve talked about your exit. But let’s talk about their exit. Their exit. You’ve helped them achieve a level of success, and now they start looking towards their own future. And often business owners do have a long term plan of of exiting at some point. Right. Are you able to help them with that?

Jeane Gutierrez: Yes, I can, and actually, if they have someone like me from the beginning to set this in place when they exit, their valuation will be so much more than if they didn’t. So so if I if I was in their, then they have everything in place to be able when they, um, you know, bring on um, someone who does the valuation. All of that will be, you know, because their contracts are sticky, meaning that, uh, someone I’m not a financial person, but. So someone financial will look at it and they see, oh, wow, there’s this many contracts so I can give a higher valuation on the contrast. If a business owner says, you know, I think I’m going to, um, exit in a couple of years, but they don’t have anything in place. They’re going to get a much lower valuation because they don’t have a process. They’re going to be in the business probably, um, helping, um, after they sell because, um, they, they are not able to scale without them. They can’t remove them. So how much time? I was just going to say something that’s really quick.

Joshua Kornitsky: At least we got all the time you need.

Jeane Gutierrez: Because it’s interesting you bring that up because right now, you know, everyone’s heard of baby boomers, right?

Joshua Kornitsky: I’ve encountered 1 or 2.

Jeane Gutierrez: 1 or 2, and we don’t know. In this room everyone looks young, so there’s probably no one in here.

Joshua Kornitsky: There’s a baby outside. It helps.

Jeane Gutierrez: But baby boomers, basically, um, they’re born between, I think 46 and 64. It’s a huge I mean, they’re 40, 40% of business owners are small, are our baby boomers. So they’re going to retire. And 10,000 baby boomers retire each day. So this is a huge group of people. What’s going to happen? Are they going to get the most out of it? You know, are they going to, um, what’s the succession plan? Are they going to sell to someone? Are they going to have a family member take over or someone? Those are all questions they need to ask themselves, and they really need a 3 to 5 year, um, what is that called, path or runway?

Joshua Kornitsky: Gotcha.

Jeane Gutierrez: To to do it successfully.

Joshua Kornitsky: Okay. Well, first, thank you for sharing your knowledge and your insight. But second, I want to ask you one last question before I ask how people can get in touch with you. What would you say is the best piece of advice you’ve gotten in your career?

Jeane Gutierrez: Okay, there’s a tie for two, and I think it’s really important. And, um, one of them is, you know, you can have a million problems until it’s a health problem. Then you only have one. So we can talk about business, we can talk about career and goals. But really, you Do you know when you’re on a plane and you know, the flight attendant says, put on your oxygen mask before you put it on someone else? Well, you’ve got to always take care of your health because then you that’s your physical and your mental and emotional health. Then you’re able to be a good family member and then that. See, we’re a whole person. We’re not just a business owner. Then you’re able to be successful in your business. So I think that’s that’s one the other one is love who you are, because all your little quirks and everything, that’s what makes you different and that’s what makes your business different.

Joshua Kornitsky: My mom says it makes me special.

Jeane Gutierrez: Yep. That’s right.

Joshua Kornitsky: Well, Jeanene, thank you again. Uh, Jeanene Gutierrez, founder of Action Plan Sales. And, Jeanene, what’s the best way for folks to reach you?

Jeane Gutierrez: The best way is to go into the Cherokee Business Radio website.

Joshua Kornitsky: Okay. We will have all that contact information posted there. Uh, I hope are you able to hang out while we talk to the rest of our guests?

Jeane Gutierrez: Oh, absolutely. I can’t wait to hear.

Joshua Kornitsky: Really appreciate that. Thank you so much. Thank you again. Jeane Gutierrez action plan sales. So moving on to someone I’ve known for, well, let’s just say a little while, but certainly longer than a moment. I’d like to introduce my friend, my own personal insurance broker, and, uh, an unbelievable senior partner with Risk and Insurance of North Georgia. Dana Dorris. Good morning.

Dana Dorris: Joshua. I’m glad to be here. Thanks for inviting me.

Joshua Kornitsky: Thanks for being here. So tell us a little bit about what you do and how you help.

Dana Dorris: Okay, so I am a 20 year veteran. That makes me sound old in the risk management.

Joshua Kornitsky: You started at 2.

Dana Dorris: That’s right. In the risk management and insurance industry. I have worked both on in the agency field as well as on the corporate side. So it enables me to understand, you know, what goes on behind the scenes with underwriting and rating and product solutions and that sort of thing, as well as being able to serve the community as an insurance agent.

Joshua Kornitsky: Okay, I said broker, I apologize. It’s okay, it’s okay.

Dana Dorris: It’s fine.

Joshua Kornitsky: It’s fine. Sorry. Um, so in in the time we’ve known one another and as you mentioned, you’ve kind of held different roles within the sphere of insurance. What would you say are the biggest things you’ve learned on that journey?

Dana Dorris: So I mean, gosh, it’s such a wide spectrum of of things that I’ve learned. Um, I think, you know, when the rubber meets the road, so to speak, I think that it comes down to serving the client. And I think that you learn throughout, whether you’re the, um, feet on the street, talking with the clients in the community or you’re at the senior most corporate level, the end result is the same that you’re trying to serve that client and do what’s best for them. So I think that’s the most important lesson is just when you peel the onion back, you’re at the end of the day, you’re taking care of the client.

Joshua Kornitsky: Okay, well, and in taking care of the client in particular to that journey, tell us a little bit about about risk and insurance of North Georgia, because I happen to know they take good care of their clients.

Dana Dorris: Right, right.

Joshua Kornitsky: So so what makes you different?

Dana Dorris: Okay. So, um, risk and insurance consultants I’m going to start there is our Atlanta office. And it was founded back in 2006 by, um, two gentlemen, Bobby Kitchen and Steve Molina. And they have a great agency. And in 2022, I decided to partner with them to open risk and Insurance Consultants of North Georgia is a local agency, is quite different. The Atlanta office focuses a lot on large commercial. They do have a personal lines department, life and health, all of all of the things. Right. But, uh, the North Georgia office was specifically designed to be that neighborhood agency where we could really focus in on the community and be that, um, that one stop shop there in our our North Georgia location. Uh, we focus primarily on personal lines. We do some small business as well. And, um, it’s been great. It’s been a lot of fun integrating into the North Georgia community. That’s where, uh, Steve, who serves as the president of risk and Insurance consultants, and then, um, I, we both live in the Emerson area, and the agency is right there.

Joshua Kornitsky: Sure. And you and I run into each other at networking events all the time. We do. Um, so I know when we were talking earlier, you had mentioned that there were really, uh, some interesting new products that that you’ve embraced and kind of created to bring forward. Uh, I think one of them was the, the essential and then the, the Rev Match Motorsports insurance. Can you tell us a little bit about those, so that people that are looking for those things will know they’re available?

Dana Dorris: Sure, sure, sure. So, um, listening to Jeanee speak about marketing and, and sales plans and that sort of thing, it, it it kind of ties in. Um, so the insurance market has changed dramatically over the last three years. I’m sure you all see it within your pocketbook, right? As you’re paying premiums and as you’re shopping your insurance and and all of the above. Well, essential was born, um, November of 24 out of a need. And so basically what essential is, is a nonstandard Department of risk and insurance consultants of North Georgia. And what do I mean by that. So underwriting guidelines really, uh, tightened the market became what we call in the insurance industry, a hard market. And we had to start looking for other solutions for our clients so that they could even qualify for auto insurance.

Joshua Kornitsky: Really, it’s become that big of a problem.

Dana Dorris: Some people that, yes, some people that, um, you know, had standard insurance all of a sudden became substandard. And we, we felt like it was our, our responsibility and duty to make sure that we were able to provide a product to them, for them. Um, you know, so that they could, could meet the guidelines for the state of Georgia. So essential was born out of a need. And it just so happened that we had a, uh, an employee at risk and Insurance consultants of North Georgia that had previously specialized in the, um, nonstandard market. So she came in and we’ve been able to to, you know, find a solution for our clients, which has been really great.

Joshua Kornitsky: And has that been something that they’ve adopted.

Dana Dorris: It is, it is. It’s nice. It’s nice to be able to, you know, they call in for an auto quote in, in our agents that would typically say, I’m sorry, we can’t help you. It’s been nice to be able to offer something that’s, you know, taking care of their need. In addition, we’ve become a referral, um, source for other exclusive agents in our area that that doesn’t have that nonstandard.

Joshua Kornitsky: That’s fantastic. So it’s something that you can offer.

Dana Dorris: It is, it is. And the time back how I started with, with Jeane is that, you know, we we looked at a sales plan where we couldn’t sell a lot of auto insurance to on our side. So, um, it was we were able to, you know, think about how can we help our community, but also bring in a different sales acquisition process. So a little bit of both.

Joshua Kornitsky: Sure. And and the rev match Motorsports.

Dana Dorris: So rev match is is just launching now. I’m really excited about it.

Joshua Kornitsky: Um, tell us about it.

Dana Dorris: Yeah. So it is a motor sports insurance. Motor sports insurance. Um, department, we’ll call it a department of, of our agency. And so we will be specializing in collector cars. Um, which we’ve done a lot of anyway. Uh, race teams, racing facilities. Um, you know, a lot of, of things that pertain to cars. So performance shops. I’m just trying to think off the top of my head. I have.

Joshua Kornitsky: A list. How did you get into that space?

Dana Dorris: Okay, so Joshua and I met, um, 25 years ago. We were both in the car business.

Joshua Kornitsky: It was. It was more of a daycare center.

Dana Dorris: Uh, well. Well, we’ll let you go with that. Fair enough. Um, but basically, um, I love cars. I think it stems from being a young girl and my dad and my brother fixing up old cars in the garage at our house, you know, just fixing up and and car shows and, you know, all the things that that muscle cars looked like in the, the 80s, right? And so for me, um, I’ve always enjoyed going to car shows. I’m lucky my husband loves cars, and so we may have too many at our house right now. Uh, kind of thing.

Joshua Kornitsky: I know a lady that can get great insurance.

Dana Dorris: I know, I know. And then, um, Steve Molina, who I mentioned earlier, serves as our president of risk and insurance consultants. He, too, loves cars. And so he was doing a lot on the, um, racing side, and I was doing a lot on the collector car side. So we decided to brand this thing and name it Rev match. And Rev match has a specific meeting. Steve can explain it way better than I can, but when you’re racing, it has to do with the RPMs and the gas that you you give and it’s and it translates over translates over to insurance because for us, it’s all about the risk management side and making sure that we are understanding our clients and we are understanding what we need to do to provide them the best overall coverage that’s going to take care of their needs. And so we’ve been, um, you know, dabbling, dabbling in this motor sports insurance and just decided to attack it full force. Because what we’ve learned being out in the industry is that not a lot of people understand cars, understand, um, the racing, but they also don’t understand the risk management component because there are a lot of things that we do anyway. And we might do it for a restaurant, we might do it for a car dealership, we might do it for a manufacturer already. That just translates beautifully over to this motor sports arena, because we are able to make sure they have everything in place. There’s a lot of different areas.

Joshua Kornitsky: I can’t even begin to imagine, but I would have to think that the person that’s drawn to motorsports, they understand risk management in a different way, right?

Dana Dorris: That’s right, that’s right.

Joshua Kornitsky: How fast can I go around the corner? Is their version of risky?

Dana Dorris: I know, I know. So we’re really excited about it.

Joshua Kornitsky: Well, see, you touched on earlier, uh, the fact that you grew up around cars that your dad and your brother, uh, we’re into cars, but it makes me ask the question of thinking about your life and your work. Your your active. I know for a fact in the community to an extreme level. You’ve got new products that you’re offering at work. How do you keep it all balanced?

Dana Dorris: Oh, well, you know, sometimes there’s not enough hours in the day. That is absolutely for certain. But, um, I think it’s important at the end of the day to make sure that, um, you know, what comes first comes first. And my family is very, very important to me. So sometimes I do have to turn it off just like everybody else, to be able to go home and spend time with the ones I love. But as I mentioned earlier, it’s I’m in a little different scenario now. Um, maybe I’m a little seasoned, seasoned agent in more ways than one, right? My kids are grown. My husband loves cars. Um, my husband is also in the insurance industry, so he brings a whole nother level of education and experience from the claims perspective. That helps me, um, with my clients. Make sure too, that we’re handling everything professionally and to the best of our ability because I know what goes on on the other side of the the coin when the the claims happen.

Joshua Kornitsky: So you’re able to collaborate and.

Dana Dorris: We collaborate all the time, maybe a little too much.

Joshua Kornitsky: That’s great. Well, that’s but that’s the secret to success both personally and professionally. Learning to work with one another. Right? Right. Um, so I guess the the listening to the personal side of your life a little bit and trying to understand more about that and knowing that that in in the foundational days of our mutual careers, we worked with some pretty incredible people and some remarkable people using that word in its broadest sense. Uh, I know what I took away from it, but what would you say is the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

Dana Dorris: Um, I’m going to I’m going to say two things. Uh, number one. Uh, my dad always says that if you love what you do, it’s not a job. Okay. And I do love what I do. And so I feel a passion, still, 20 years later, about helping people and making sure that, um, you know, they have what they need. Uh, my little tagline has always been protecting today and preparing for tomorrow. So I feel I own that, I own that, and then my my other thing is, you know, things don’t always go as you expect for them to go in your career, right?

Joshua Kornitsky: No.

Dana Dorris: Sad but true. You may have the best intentions, but sometimes things don’t work out. And I know in 2020, I was involved in a in a reduction in force. Right. And so I lost my job after 16 years with the same carrier. And it was very difficult. You know, I used to feel sorry.

Dana Dorris: For people who. Right. Who go through half are forced to go through a career change. Um. And I was 50. So you know it. I felt sorry for people who had to go through that. And then all of a sudden, I was one. And I was on, um, the great base of wisdom Tree called LinkedIn.

Joshua Kornitsky: We can all get a good laugh out of that.

Dana Dorris: Right? I saw a quote and it stuck with me and it basically said, you can get bitter or you can get better. It’s your choice. And so I chose to get better. And that’s when when Risk and Insurance Consultants of North Georgia was born. And I think that was excellent advice from an unknown source.

Joshua Kornitsky: Well that’s fantastic advice. And it’s and it’s a great point for us to to wrap up. Thank you for sharing. Uh, everything about risk and insurance consultants of North Georgia. Um, quick question. The the, uh, essential and the rev match. Are those both available now? They are wonderful. What’s the best way for folks to reach you?

Dana Dorris: So our main agency line is (470) 689-0151.

Joshua Kornitsky: Okay.

Dana Dorris: And I can be reached there.

Joshua Kornitsky: Fantastic. And we’ll also have the information on our website when all of this goes live. So anybody that didn’t get that number can, can check there to get a hold of you via all the, the normal social ways and, and even pick up some some additional insight from the occasional anonymous quote. Misquote. Are you able to stay with us for just a little bit longer?

Dana Dorris: I am, I’m looking forward to it. And thank you again for having me today, Joshua.

Joshua Kornitsky: Thank you. And Jeane, thank you as well for being here. So let me introduce our third guest. Uh, this is Mr. Richard Flournoy. And Richard and I met through professional channels. He was actually a client of mine. And then he was not a client of mine through no choice of our own. But he became a fantastic friend, uh, a trusted consultant, an advisor. And, uh, I’ve learned more from him than I think I ever taught him as a as a teacher. Uh, let me please introduce Richard Flournoy, uh, the founder co-founder of Lux and Roam Travel out of White, Georgia, also the co-founder of Deep Dive Plumbing and Drain and a consultant with Service Titan. So, Richard, welcome. What on earth are you doing now? Well.

Richard Flournoy : When Joshua called me to ask me to do this, I was like, what in the heck is this about? And I and I said, well, really, do you really need to think about what this is about? Is Joshua just do it? So I didn’t put much thought to it and I just showed up. And I don’t know if any of y’all have ever heard of Doctor Mehrabian of UCLA, but he has a seven 3855 rule and 55% of communication is the body language, 38% is your tone and inflection, and 7% is the words you say. Now, I know none of y’all can see the body language in this room, but it’s absolutely amazing what I realize that this show is about people helping people because we’re all in the people business. And as I’m listening to both these ladies talk, I’m like, I could use her in my future business and I could absolutely use her and my future business and their their stories are amazing and and the tone and you can tell by the tone and inflection by how genuine they are. But watching their body language tells the whole story. And while we won’t remember everything that they said, I’ll remember how they made me feel today and the way Joshua made me feel in this room. So, uh, thank you for inviting me on here.

Joshua Kornitsky: Well, thank you for being here. So. So let’s take them one at a time. And I actually skipped over one of your businesses, which is Flournoy Consulting, which you’ve already led with. So tell us a little bit about what Flournoy Consulting is and who you help and how you help. Well, I.

Richard Flournoy : If we could go back in time a minute, I would rather go back in time. So in 20, I’m sorry. 2001, the day after September 11th, I started my first business, a Total Plumbing. And I had a very, very weak why I wanted to start it because I didn’t like working for somebody. So for the first 16 years of that business, I operated by the law of accident, which means that I didn’t have a plan and I just just kind of floundered around. And in 2016, I discovered, I’m sorry, 2017, I discovered the law of cause and effect. And what that means is that if you have a plan and you execute on that plan and you learn and you do and you learn and you fail and you fail and you do and you learn that you’re going to succeed. And I also learned that if you have a strong enough why, you can bear any what. So the why went from I didn’t want a boss to I want to be a provider for my family, my wife Felicia, who’s also a master plumber, my daughter, who just got accepted into law school, congratulations. My 21 year old son that lived his first year of life in HOA and they sent him home after a year, said he’s not going to make it very long, but we want you to spend time with him. He’s been on a on a ventilator since birth. And because because he was such a strong. We had such a strong.

Richard Flournoy : Why? To take care of him. Now he’s 21, about to celebrate his 22nd birthday. And we went to our first adult hospital. And they’ve never seen a kid like Jackson that’s on a ventilator because typically they don’t live this long. And so they didn’t really know how to do it. Which which is a testament to the love and the power of God and the, uh, goal setting and the strong. Why? But he’s going to be 22. And then my why is still the same provide for my wife and kids. And so I kind of do a lot of things. But the primary thing that I want to do is help people, whether it’s through Flournoy Consulting, whether it’s through transformative travel, through Lux and Rome Travel, or whether it’s through Flournoy Consulting. Um, uh, I started when I started that first business. It was with a rented van that I paid $50 a week to my grandfather and it had no air conditioning. It was painted with house paint, and I literally had $250 in the bank. And I grew it, and I sold it for ten figures in 2022. And then I read, and then I resold it a second time and made more money off of it. And then I thought I was done with the plumbing business. So I started a consulting company, and I became a professional speaker and coach. And I so far I’ve coached, uh, an OCD therapist, an attorney, a heating and air company and a plumbing company.

Joshua Kornitsky: And what type of coaching do you provide, Richard?

Richard Flournoy : Um, so I do mindset, uh, and goal setting because business is 95% mindset and 5% strategy. But that 5% strategy has to be so good that it equals that 95%. But if you don’t have the mindset, then the strategy is worthless, absolutely worthless. So I help I help bridge the gap to just know that you can do it. But you got to. You got to have clear written goals, uh, and you got to have the right mindset and you got to have that deep why. And like you can have everybody has a why. But you have to clarify it and you have to write it down. And then the mind can only think about one thing at a time, whether positive or negative. And so anytime I had a negative thought, I pull out this index card and it would have my why. Or I’d look at a picture of my son and my wife and my daughter, and then it would say, that’s why you got to keep going.

Joshua Kornitsky: Pretty powerful motivation.

Richard Flournoy : So that’s a little bit about me and I, and I know the looks and Rome. It sounds like I’m doing a lot of things, but they all complement each other because travel is one thing that people neglect that they a lot of people work, work, work, work, work, work, work, work, work. And they’ll go on a little vacation here and there, but they don’t truly release. And in order to really activate your super conscious mind, you’ve got to go on a vacation where you forget about the world. Here, here. Forget about everything. So?

Joshua Kornitsky: So tell us about that. Tell us what? What? So you’ve. You and Felicia and your family have traveled quite a bit, as you’ve shared with me. What drew you to this completely different arena from from where you had been?

Richard Flournoy : So my daughter and I had, because of our son that’s on a ventilator. Um, my wife and I have to juggle trips, so she’d have to go on a trip. I’d have to go on a trip because the logistics are just too difficult, because Jackson is so medically fragile. So my daughter and I had been on many trips. My wife had been on many trips with my daughter, and then I was like, you know, you can accomplish any goal if you have a strong enough why. And I’m like, I can figure out a way for us, for me and my wife to go on a really good trip. So two years ago, I went on a trip, took my wife to Italy, and the logistics to set it up was a lot, sure, but I wrote wrote down the goal, and then all of a sudden you go to sleep and you wake up the next day and you’re like, you can do this, you can do this, you can do this. So we laid out a plan, a backup plan so that for people to take care of Jackson. And we went on a trip to Italy.

Richard Flournoy : And the first two days, even though I was not in any business at all at that point, because I’d sold my business and I hadn’t started Flournoy Consulting, and I hadn’t started luxury travel yet. So the first two days I’m still thinking about, I’m like, calling Josh and Josh is like, quit calling me. You’re on vacation. And and so it took me two days to get into it. But then when we, we were in Italy and we just, we started going around and I’m like, you know what? This is something I neglected. My whole career is travel. Like traveling, because it’s while it’s extremely fun and rewarding to travel with one of your family members, it’s much more rewarding to travel with everybody in your immediate family. So I was like, how can I give back and teach people about going on transformative trips that will transform their lives. And I’m like, I can start a travel agency. And then I can start a consulting business. And so immediately when I went to when I started the consulting business, I had two people call me and just randomly say, hey, could you help us with our business?

Joshua Kornitsky: So back up. Basically what you’re saying is leisure travel opened your mind and relaxed your brain enough that you you immediately came back and thought of new business.

Richard Flournoy : 100%. And that’s and so that’s how it it works altogether.

Joshua Kornitsky: So so you heard it here. You need to take a vacation, take a clarity break in order to have a.

Richard Flournoy : Really good vacation. And whether you book, like if you contact me through Loxodrome, whether you book a trip through me or you just want me to help you come up with some ideas, I’ll do it. No charge. Like that’s it’s more important for me to help you, um, than it is for me to make money. 100%. Um.

Joshua Kornitsky: That’s a great perspective. Information is is what changes everybody’s perspective on everything. And I think that it was Mark Twain who said something to the effect about how travel opens the mind. So until you get around the planet, some you don’t really have that great perspective. So we’ve got Lux in Rome, we’ve got Flournoy Consulting. Let’s talk a little bit about Servicetitan and a little bit about deep dive plumbing and drain.

Richard Flournoy : So Servicetitan, I was a customer of service titans.

Joshua Kornitsky: So back up. For those who don’t know, could you tell us what Servicetitan is?

Richard Flournoy : Servicetitan is a software company that handles everything from taking the call all the way through the documenting of the work order, and then integrates with the like, QuickBooks or sage intact. So basically it’s a field management software.

Joshua Kornitsky: For, for all industries.

Richard Flournoy : Uh, for um, uh, plumbing, heating and air roofing. Uh, electrical, uh. Pest control.

Joshua Kornitsky: Okay. All right, so I’m sorry I interrupted you. So you you help bridge the gap in knowledge there? Is that what you do in the role with Servicetitan?

Richard Flournoy : Well, so I put a I put a goal on a vision board to get a job at Servicetitan because I really loved the people and the culture, but that’s all I put on there. So I ended up going to a speaking academy class in San Diego, California, and the chief revenue officer of Servicetitan lives out there, and I had met him and became friends with him because we were a customer, and I told him I wanted to, I wanted a job there. And he’s like, well, what would you do? Uh, I sold him on giving me a job, but neither one of us knew what I was going to do there. Okay.

Joshua Kornitsky: So so so sales coaching also.

Richard Flournoy : So he he he gave me a job, and then they I work in the sales team, and basically I do, uh, Up sell core product which is new customers. I sell pro products and then I also coach team members that work in the in the, um, in servicetitan.

Joshua Kornitsky: Okay. Thank you for sharing that with us. And then last we round out on on deep dive plumbing and drain.

Richard Flournoy : So sometimes you set a goal and you’re led to something else. So um, not change the goal but led to something else. So I had set a large revenue goal, uh, for my consulting business and travel business. And then all of a sudden, this opportunity pops up where I could restart a plumbing company, and I don’t know if it’s God’s way or the universe’s way of telling me that, hey, this might be a little bit of a stretch. And in those spaces or if we’re just going to exceed that goal and have another business and they all work together because it when I open this business, it’s not going to I’m not going to actually work in the business. I’m going to work on the business. Uh, my wife is going to work in the business, but it’ll be more of a coaching and training perspective. And, uh, so the goal is to have it open by May 28th.

Joshua Kornitsky: Okay.

Richard Flournoy : Um, and the goal is to to get to 12 trucks by the end of 2026.

Joshua Kornitsky: That’s certainly an ambitious goal. But you’ve done this before. So I think you, uh, you, you know, that arena. Um, well, then then let me ask you this, um, last closing thoughts are, you know what? What’s, uh, what’s a mistake that helped shape your career? What’s what’s something that you did wrong that helped get you right?

Richard Flournoy : I would say that. It. Everything. I mean everything.

Joshua Kornitsky: Well, clearly you haven’t done everything wrong.

Richard Flournoy : No no, no. So it’s. It’s fail and learn. Don’t be afraid to fail. Success is goals. And all else is commentary. And and to go back to it like the biggest killer of success is inaction. You can have all the greatest ideas in the world. But if you don’t get up and try it, then what good is it? And so if you try it, people don’t try stuff because they’re worried about failing. But don’t worry about failing because guess what? Most people that like I’m a I’m a black belt and don jitsu Ryu. Uh, martial arts. The hardest step for somebody to become a black belt is to become a white belt, because most people don’t even start.

Joshua Kornitsky: That’s a great perspective.

Richard Flournoy : And so just starting will help you finish and just stick with it.

Joshua Kornitsky: Well, my head is full of lots of quotes because my mom was a librarian, now retired, and I think it was Walt Disney that said a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. He also said it all began with a mouse. So, you know, take what you want from Walt. But thank you for sharing your your your insight, Richard. Thank you for sharing your guidance. Any final piece of advice for anybody that’s that’s looking to get started on goals?

Richard Flournoy : Um, my passion is, is the consulting. Uh, so if you wanted to reach out to me and do like, a free session, like just to learn about your why and your goal setting and look, you can read, you can find a hundred books on digging into your why and goal setting, but I can put it in a way that you can actually get it accomplished in your life. And if you want to do that single session, I wouldn’t charge anything for it. And as far as contacting me, I’m going to defer to my colleague and you’re going to look on the website for my contact information.

Joshua Kornitsky: That’s our closing question to ask the best way to reach you. So, uh, we’ll have your information along with, uh, Janine Jeanene Gutierrez from sales or action plan sales. Uh, Dana Doris from North Georgia. Insurance consultant. Insurance rate risk and insurance consultants of North Georgia. I knew I’d get it right. It’s it’s a tongue twister. And Richard Flournoy from Flournoy consulting luxe in Rome. Travel, uh, service titan and ultimately, deep dive plumbing and drain. Thank you all for coming in and for sharing your your experience, your perspective and all of the things that you do to help the people of our community excel.

Jeane Gutierrez: Thank you. It was fun.

Dana Dorris: Thank you for having us.

Joshua Kornitsky: Thank you. This is Joshua Konicki saying goodbye for now from Cherokee Business Radio.

 

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BRX Pro Tip: 3 Tips to be a Better Connector

March 28, 2025 by angishields

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Stone Payton: And we are back with Business RadioX Pro Tips. Lee Kantor and Stone Payton here with you. Lee, let’s talk about being a better connector.

Lee Kantor: Yeah, this is one of the, I think, super powers that the folks that are part of the Business RadioX network, studio partner team. They realize that, hey, this is a great tool to become a better connector just by working with us. So, I thought we could share some of the ways that some of the behaviors that we attribute to being a better connector and some of the actual tactics that we use to become a better connector in the markets that we serve.

Lee Kantor: Number one tip in this regard is, act like a normal human being to everyone. And that means expressing gratitude. That means expressing appreciation. And don’t ignore these kind of common human connecting points. You know, appreciate people. People like to be appreciated. And don’t treat gratitude as precious. You know, if you’re grateful for someone, let them know. They’re going to appreciate that. It’s going to help you accelerate the relationship and it’s going to help you bond with them. So, just act like a normal person and just express gratitude when you are grateful.

Lee Kantor: [Number two is kind of tactical, but I think if you can become a trusted brainstorming partner with someone, and that means you’re a good listener, you’re exploring ways to work together, you’re trying to help them solve problems, if you can be that trusted brainstorming partner, you’re going to be more indispensable to more and more people. So, always look for opportunities to be that person that bounces ideas off other people that can help other people solve the problems they’re trying to solve. That’s a really important person in any community.

Lee Kantor: And then, lastly, I would build a dream list of people you’d like to connect with and just have that kind of always around. And that list is going to evolve over time. But if you have a list of people or companies you want to work with, you’re going to meet people all the time and they might know somebody in those organizations or they might know that person and they might help you meet that right person when that opportunity arises. So, have kind of a list of the people you wish were part of your network right now and then just put it out there.

Lee Kantor: You know, there’s a lot of people that know a lot of people in ways you can’t even imagine. So, if you say, I want to meet this person, you never know if one of your friends or family or one of your colleagues knows somebody who knows that person or knows somebody who knows someone that knows that person. So, have that list available so you know that when the time is right that you can kind of be available for the opportunity.

Executive Coach, Speaker & Trainer Irina Cozma

March 27, 2025 by angishields

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Irina-CozmaIrina Cozma Ph.D. is an executive coach, speaker, trainer, and consultant who helps professionals have better career adventures.

Over the past two decades, she has coached and trained hundreds of C-suite executives, leaders, professionals, and entrepreneurs across industries from start-ups to corporate, private to public, and local to global.

Irina worked in talent management consulting for a decade and she also had leadership roles in Fortune 500 companies in tech at Salesforce and in finance at Wells Fargo. Irina is an ICF-certified coach, writes for the Harvard Business Review, and teaches at Purdue University.

Irina has lived, studied, and worked in four countries and, is fluent in English and Romanian, and has a working knowledge of Spanish.

Connect with Irina on LinkedIn.

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Intro: Broadcasting live from the Business RadioX studios in Atlanta, Georgia. It’s time for High Velocity Radio.

Stone Payton: Welcome to the High Velocity Radio show, where we celebrate top performers producing better results in less time. Stone Payton here with you this afternoon. This is going to be a good one. Please join me in welcoming to the broadcast Executive coach, speaker, trainer and consultant, Irina Cozma. How are you?

Irina Cozma: Hi, Stone. Very well. Thank you for having me. Looking forward to our conversation.

Stone Payton: So have I. And I’ve got a bunch of questions that I really, really want to ask. But before I go there, maybe just share with us mission. Purpose. What are you really out there trying to do for people Irina.

Irina Cozma: Mhm. Yeah. The fundamental question I the way I think about my work is that I’m, um, trying to help people wake up in the morning without having a stomach pain. And, no, I’m not that type of doctor. Uh, but what I mean by that is. So the work I’m doing, I’m, um, enabling people to wake up in the morning a little more aware, a little more prepared on how to engage in the work that is coming their way in their, uh, work life. They might have better tools, better awareness, better, uh, mechanisms, better insights, uh, something for them to manage better that day. Uh, so they don’t wake up next day with a stomach pain and with stress because they, they feel more in control of their work life. So that’s what’s interesting to me. That’s what I want to do with my life. And I’m one of those people who wakes up without a stomach pain in the morning because I’m doing what I’m supposed to do.

Stone Payton: Well, there certainly have been days over the last 20 plus years of helping to run a pretty successful media company that I have woken up with a little pain in my stomach. So I think you’re providing a valuable service. So what, uh, what was the journey like? What’s the the back story? How did you end up doing this kind of work?

Irina Cozma: Yeah, sure. I’m, um, by training an organizational psychologist. And that profession, um, comes with, um, with some tools that equip you to if you want to become a coach later. So as an organizational psychologist, basically, we are trying to bring some science into the workplace and that we can bring that science in many different ways. And, uh, while I was working, I was working on, um, with a consulting company for for a decade. That’s where I discovered that from all the things that I was doing, um, in my day to day, this piece, when I was doing coaching, uh, that was, uh, that was my happy place, so I kind of stumbled upon it among all the other things I was doing. Uh, I do have to say, I’m one of those lucky people that, um, I did end up in a profession overall that I really enjoy. And then I just found the cherry on the top, which is coaching. That, um, brings me the most amount of happiness. And, uh, in order to maximize that happiness, I open my coaching business in 2019, and I’m having fun ever since. So it was a little accident, a little like, uh, my profession was already kind of preparing me to encounter on my way, a profession like coaching.

Stone Payton: And now you’ve worked and studied in, in several countries. Speak to that a little bit. What’s that experience been like?

Irina Cozma: Yeah, you probably can tell from my accent that, uh, I’m not from, uh, I’m not from Charlotte, North Carolina, where I live right now. Um, I’m originally from Romania. Uh, so, um, that was, uh. What? The story. My story begins. I lived also in Spain for a while. I went to Spain a couple of times, uh, with, uh, studying couple of times. I lived in Republic of Moldova for a second also, and in us for, um, 17, 18 years now. And, um, I think what this, uh, I don’t know, multicultural, global background, how that, what that brought to me is, uh, fundamental understanding that people are the same everywhere in the world. We might we might think, uh, something different, but actually, it’s not. It’s not like that. People are people everywhere. And, um, the same emotions, the same desires. The same, uh. Wishes and and dreams and, um. Yeah. Like that. That brings a kind of relativity. And when I’m, uh, engaging with people all over the world, like, I, I coach somebody in Burkina Faso a couple of months ago, I coach people in Germany. I go coach people in Romania. So fundamentally people are people. And, um, I think one thing that I will add is all these cultural differences that we are hearing about. Yes, there is some truth in them, but there is also a lot of stereotypes. And, uh, from my personal experience and from my work, I’m trying to to just focus on the person. Uh, let’s start there. And, uh, because not everybody, um, not everybody in us is an individualistic person. Even if us, it’s classified as an individualistic country. Uh, not everybody in China is a collectivist person. Even if China is characterized or characterized as a collectivist country. So all the labels that we put on countries might not apply to everybody in that country. So I find it it’s a little, uh, it’s such a relief to just focus on the person versus learning all the permutation and all the variations that we have on the cultural side. So at the end of the day, our human is just a human.

Stone Payton: So are you finding yourself working mostly one on one, or is it group work inside companies or a little bit of both of those?

Irina Cozma: A little bit of both. Uh, probably because I’m an introvert. I’m gravitating towards one on one. So that’s that’s where naturally I’m going towards. Uh, but I did some group coaching and I’m doing workshops, so I do some group things also. Um, I also learned about myself. That variation is interesting to me. So yeah, even me, the introvert, like some, uh, some people and groups from time to time.

Stone Payton: And now you have an athletic background. You also have gone to great lengths to get properly credentialed. I understand that you’re an ICF certified coach. Can you speak a little bit to how those you believe, uh, those pursuits have helped you be a better practitioner?

Irina Cozma: Uh, this is such a hard question for me. This question about my athletic background. Uh, I was actually chatting on LinkedIn on this topic the other day. Um, that’s one one of my dilemmas of my life. How how me being an athlete for eight years. Uh, how me being in a national Romanian team, uh, impacted the rest of my life. I still don’t have a fundamental answer to that question, but I feel like the the answer is start emerging. Lately, the conversation on LinkedIn actually brought a very interesting, uh, awareness for me. Uh, one of my colleagues from grad school, he commented, uh, something that really resonated with me around athletes and life. And, uh, there is something around failure that I knew about myself. That for me, failure is not a thing. I don’t care, I don’t think about it. It’s not. It doesn’t trouble me or bother me. I don’t literally think about it. Uh, and I did have my fair share of failures. But this is not how I perceive them and how I receive them. And, um, I made that connection with the outlet life, because being an outlet like you are failing every week, every week, every day, every training, every competition, you just fail again and again and again and, uh, it usually it can be just one winner. No. So you cannot be the winner all the time. So you are failing. Not only you are failing, but you are failing in public again and again and again for years and years and years. So I think maybe there is something there. That experience kind of, uh, made me a little immune to failure. For me, failure is just a thing that you do in order to become better. And I don’t overthink it. I don’t I don’t think about it actually too much. It’s just like, oh, did not work out okay. What else can we do? So that’s probably one of my biggest insights actually, from a recent weeks around my athlete life and failure and, uh, how that brought what that brought to me.

Stone Payton: Yeah. Well, I would think that that would be incredibly powerful, play a much larger role in your personal development and life than maybe it sounds like you’ve you’ve always, uh, recognized maybe more so than you, than you realize, but it seems like it would bring some depth and texture to a coaching relationship, because I’m getting insights from a person who, uh, who has, has developed a great deal of resilience and is equipped to help me maybe be better at capitalizing on failure as opposed to be afraid of it. So I think that that probably does have a tremendous impact on your on your ability as a, as a practitioner as well. How about the experience of going through this formal, uh, ICF, uh, training. What, uh, what was that like?

Irina Cozma: Mhm. Um, and by the way, thank you, Stone, for um, previous comments. Um, so regarding ICF, so ICF is international uh, Federation of Coaching. Um Coaching Federation. So it’s kind of the biggest institution in the coaching world. Uh, that, uh, credentials, uh, coaches, you don’t have to be certified coach to do this profession. Uh, so everybody needs to decide for themselves, uh, if it’s worth it or not. In my case, uh, I was stubborn. I am a stubborn person, and I was stubborn, and for a while. And I didn’t want to go through this process initially because I felt like, hey, I have two masters, I have a PhD, I have ten years of doing coaching. What do I need? This, uh, certification on top of it. Uh, none of my clients ever asked me about if I’m certified or not. So it took a lot of, uh, thinking about on my part. Like, do I want to do this? Does it worth it? Uh, once I made a decision that it’s worth it. Um. That is. Yeah. A lot of hours that you have to prove that you did a lot of hours of coaching and some training. But for me, I think the biggest, uh, value of going through this process was one of the criteria to get certified is that you have to have ten hours of mentoring. So another coach, more experienced, uh, spends with you than hours, and you go more in depth into how you think, how you coach.

Irina Cozma: You are listening some recordings of yourselves, uh, on coaching your clients. So that was really hard to listen myself on the recording, how I coach my clients. But there was so much learning, so much learning from those ten hours of mentoring. And, uh, looking back to all my stubbornness and my resistance of going through this process. I’m so happy that I did it because of those mentoring hours. I learned so much. I did not expect it to learn so much. So all my arrogance and my ego of two masters, PhD and ten years of experience, um, melted away in the in the face of the facts that, uh, that was actually very useful and it did make me a better coach. So very, very grateful. Uh, uh, for my coach, uh, for my mentor coach for walking me through that process. And now I’m actually part of my, uh, recertification. We have to, uh, renew your certification. Um, uh, every three years. I think it is. Uh, so I’m doing that mentoring hours again. So it’s again, like a eye opening, like, you know, you you go with low expectations, and I get so much more, actually. So, um, that’s a highly recommend to anybody if, uh, forget about certification, forget about the piece of paper. It’s not about that. Uh, you might learn something interesting actually in the process.

Stone Payton: I know you do so much work in helping people cultivate, develop, continue to refine and, uh, and, and act on leadership skills. Are there some must haves, in your opinion? Just things that leaders if you’re going to be a good leader, you got to have or do this kind of thing?

Irina Cozma: Yeah. I mean, there’s so much on this topic and probably everybody has their own, uh, opinion on, uh, what what are the critical leadership skills that anybody can have all the leaders should have. Um, I just in the interest of our time here, I will just pick, uh, one of my favorites, which is, uh, courage. So courage as a skill for anybody in general, but for a leader in particular, I could see many times in my life, uh, in my corporate life. In my consulting life, um, whenever there was a failure or whenever something was not working, it was because the leader did not have what I call courage. So this courage comes in many shapes and forms, so could be like, um, an intellectual courage. So when you are, um, trying to, uh, speak up, uh, on something that is important and challenge, uh, something that you think it’s not right. Um, even courage of accepting that you are wrong. Accepting that. Hey, now we have different information. I’ll make a different decision. So that’s what I call intellectual courage. And then there is moral courage. Uh, and that has to do in my mind with, um, aligning to your core values and, uh, doing the hard thing, even if it’s not easy.

Irina Cozma: Um, so that’s, uh, keeping up to your values. Emotional courage. Another important type of courage, and that has to do with being vulnerable and authentic and show human emotions, you know, like there are some leaders who can can be vulnerable and also strict and direct and get things done. But that humanity, like, I feel like it’s a type of courage for people to show that in the workplace. And one of the most important type of courage is the courage to act. That’s another. Another one that I saw so much, so much troubles happening in the in the in the work life, when the leader doesn’t have the courage to actually make a decision and go for it and all this, uh, hiding and, uh, try to diffuse responsibility, lots of, uh, complication can come from that. So the ability to make a decision without sometimes, many times not having all the information. Many times things are uncertain and are not clear, but you as a leader need to make a decision at the end of the day. So all of this steam around the cartridge is one that, um, I wish people would talk more about it or will will embrace it more in their leadership positions.

Stone Payton: So at this point in your career, because you’ve clearly been at it a while and you have so many different mechanisms for for serving people and helping them grow. What, uh, what are you finding the most rewarding these days? What’s the what’s the most fun about it for you right now?

Irina Cozma: Oh, I think it’s the same. Like the same what I said at the beginning. Um, each time I have a coaching call, a coaching conversation, I think my coaching clients are amazing, amazing humans. Like, they are doing so much work to become better at who they are, to become better at what they do, and having those being, being there present and seeing them doing that work, it just blows my mind every time they take me by surprise. So many times they come up with things that I would never thought about it. So just creating that space for another human, for them to realize something about themselves, I don’t know. That never gets old. It’s, uh. It’s what makes me, uh, confirms for me that I’m in the correct profession.

Stone Payton: Well, and you’re clearly the type of person. And candidly, I’m discovering that as I as I visit with more and more established coaches as I’ve been doing this series. But you’re clearly the kind of person. You’re a life learner. You, uh, you’re not the same coach you were last year. I mean, you’re learning stuff knowing you. You even changed your mind about some stuff, don’t you? Along the way, because of the impact that your client work has on you?

Irina Cozma: Yeah. I mean, so many things. Um, here. I’m, uh, I’m I’m very open to new information and to change my mind. And, um, Um, I can give you an example of something that happened. Uh, one of the biggest ones, uh, in the recent years, the, uh, the topic here is, uh, values. I never cared about values. I always rolled my eyes when people are talking about values. And I’m here. I’m talking personal values. I mean, don’t even get me started with the organizational values. Let’s not talk about those. Um, but personal values, like, I never understood them. Like, I was like, wow, that’s empty. Words like, never resonated with me. So, uh, I never cared about engaging in that conversation until, uh, one day, uh, again, long story short, here, I decided to do this exercise with myself. I was like, okay, worst case scenario, nothing happens. I’m doing this activity, I’m doing this thinking, and nothing will happen. Best case scenario, this ends up being a useful activity. So I’m like, okay, let’s do it. So, uh, I got myself into the thinking about my values, doing some activities, some exercises, and it took me almost a year to finalize and solidify my values. And I was so shocked and so impressed with the power of that. I couldn’t believe it. How much clarity uh, you can get by knowing your values and how much simple things become. Uh, the values are such a such a good criteria for decision making. So yeah, that was again my stubbornness. I for many years I was like, no, not interesting is not going to work. This is empty words. And and then I did it and it’s yeah.

Irina Cozma: It’s so much I changed my mind. Now this is one of the exercises I’m doing all the time on my client. This is the first, one of the first activities I’m doing with everybody who starts doing coaching with me. And, um, one last thing I will add on this topic is that I still like in order for me to get comfortable with this word values, which again, I still find it pretty empty and pretty overused. I did have to translate it in a different word. That makes sense to me. So the word that I use is instead of saying my values, I say my non-negotiables are. And that’s one thing that maybe our listeners want to take away. In general, this is just one example, but for other things, give yourself permission to redefine relabel things if they don’t make sense to you. Maybe there is some value there on the back end, but you are not allowing yourself to reach to the value because you are stuck on the superficial things. Like how I was like. These values did not make sense to me, but once I translated and rebranded and relabeled it as non-negotiable, I’m like, oh my God, yes, I definitely want to know what are my non-negotiables. Um, so and also my clients, some, some of them, they use my North Star or what? I’m not willing to compromise or, you know, there are different ways to reach the same destination. And that was very freeing for me that I allow myself. And now I’m allowing my clients to play around these words and still benefit of the of the value of the values.

Stone Payton: Well, I know you write for the Harvard Business Review. You teach at Purdue University. You’re an executive coach. You speak, you train, you consult. So I don’t know when or how you would find the time, but I’m going to ask anyway. Uh, what do you do? Hobbies, passions, pursuits outside the scope of your work? Is there anything in particular that you like to do to relax or nerd out about? That’s that’s different from the the work?

Irina Cozma: Uh, okay. I’ll try to be very, very honest here and not give you an intellectual answer. I’ll give you a real answer. Okay. Um, I, I like a lot to cut the grass and pick up the weeds in my around my path. So that is something very satisfying in working with your hands and doing manual work. Um, at the beginning, when we bought the house and we had to separate tasks, uh, around the house, me and my husband, we actually had a very tough, very hard conversation on who is going to cut the grass because both of us wanted to do that. Uh, which I know it’s usually people fight. Who doesn’t want to do.

Stone Payton: That, right?

Irina Cozma: Uh, we were like, no, both of us. And, uh, now we try to split like he does half, I do half, or maybe one week, and he does it one week and I do it. Or, like, we try to negotiate something, but it’s, um, for me, it’s again, it’s one of the. It’s relaxing. It’s one of the very few physical activities I do during the week. Uh, usually I’m staying here in my office, in my chair, uh, doing my work. So, uh, yeah, it’s good for, uh, mental, uh, distraction. It’s, uh, good because it’s practical. And actually, you can see the results of your work immediately. So, yeah, it’s good for the body that you exercise. So I don’t know. I highly recommend to everybody to do some work around the house, and if you don’t live in a house, you can go and volunteer and do some similar works around the parks. Clean the parks. This is what I did before we bought the house. I was volunteering to, uh, clean, um, litter around the parks. So with, uh, the local community here. So something in the. Yeah, just walking and doing something with your hands. I find it very useful.

Stone Payton: So the mowing the grass kind of thing, that, um, sounds like a marvelous recommendation. I am not so self aware and ready for enough personal development to take that on myself, but I’m definitely going to recommend it to my wife, Holly. Uh, before we wrap, I would love to leave our listeners if we could, uh, a pro tip, and maybe it’s around, uh, this idea of developing your own leadership skills or effectiveness. Or maybe it’s around if you’re considering engaging a coach. Some things to think about. Um, and look, guys, uh, a good pro tip for you is to reach out and have a conversation with arena. But let’s leave them with something to think about or, or read that will let them walk away from this conversation with a little something to to noodle on.

Irina Cozma: Mhm. Sure. So we already talked about the value. So I hope everybody’s convinced now. And we’ll go to that exercise. Um I would say what I will say here is what is usually my one wish. If somebody would ask me hey what is one thing you want your clients to to have already and not have to go to a coach to work on that? That thing is self-confidence. This self-confidence is such a tricky thing, such a tricky small thing actually. But we give it so much importance and we make such a big thing out of it. Um, and all this doubt and all of this questioning ourselves. And I work with my clients all the time on this piece. And, um, the way I see it once, this piece of confidence, once this foundation is there, everything else becomes so much easier to build on. But this first piece comes so hard to some people, and it’s so hard for them to believe in themselves. So I will tell to our listeners to do whatever work is needed for them to stabilize that, to create that foundation for themselves, because life will become so much easier after. And, uh, a metaphor or a sentence that I use all the time for myself and for my clients is we have to play in our team. We cannot play against ourselves. So all this lack of confidence and all the self-doubts is basically us shooting ourselves in the foot like we cannot do that to ourselves. We need to play in our team. A lot of the life or not. Other people will play against us. So play in your team. Or do some self-reflection. Make sure that that foundation is there. And, uh, whatever, however, whatever confidence means to you. Um, don’t struggle too much. Don’t give it so much attention. There is entire beautiful life after that.

Stone Payton: This has been such a rich and informative conversation, I’m sure, for our listeners. But for me personally, a ton of takeaways. A couple I’ll just share with you arena. And one is from that that uh, being self confident, but I’m kind of tying it back to being okay with getting out there, trying something, falling on your face, failing, and then having the confidence that you can you can, uh, you can learn from that, make the adjustments, get out there and try it again. So I find that inspiring and empowering also though on this values thing, because I’ve been a little bit like you described yourself in past years, you know, kind of taking that with a grain of salt, understanding what people kind of meant. But rolling my eyes maybe a little bit. But when you use the phrase non-negotiables, that really resonates with me. And if that can be my frame for my values, I think that will help me put more thought and energy into getting very crystal up mine. So that’s you’ve helped me personally, and you are clearly providing such marvelous impact and value for so many out there. You’re doing good. Good work. Keep up the good work. And thank you so much for for joining us today. We sure appreciate you.

Irina Cozma: Sure. So here is homework for you. I’m expecting an email from you with your values in a couple of months. Let me know how that that goes.

Stone Payton: Yes, ma’am. All right. What’s the best way for our listeners to connect with you and learn more?

Irina Cozma: Uh, two places. Uh, one is LinkedIn. That’s, uh, I call LinkedIn. That’s my office. I live on LinkedIn. So, uh, come and find me on LinkedIn. It’s you. Just search my name, Irina Cozma, and you’ll find me. And the other place is my site, which again is my name. So, uh, come stay connected with me. And, uh, happy to chat with you if you have questions.

Stone Payton: Well, Irina, again, it has been an absolute delight having you on the show this afternoon. Thank you so much for investing your time and energy and sharing your perspective in your in your story. This has been fantastic. Thank you.

Irina Cozma: Thank you son. It was a delight to be here with you.

Stone Payton: My pleasure. All right, until next time. This is Stone Payton for our guest today, Irina Kuzma and everyone here at the Business RadioX family saying we’ll see you in the fast lane.

 

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Women in Construction: Challenges, Opportunities, and Community Support

March 27, 2025 by angishields

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In this episode of Women in Motion, Lee Kantor is joined by Dawn Barnes, founder and CEO of RGD Construction. Dawn shares her journey into the construction industry, inspired by her father and driven by her passion. She discusses the challenges she faced as a woman in a male-dominated field and her advocacy for women in construction. Dawn highlights her involvement with the National Association of Women in Construction and the importance of networking and community support. The episode underscores the evolving nature of the construction industry and encourages women to explore diverse career opportunities within it.

Dawn-BarnesDawn Barnes is the CEO and Founder of RGD Construction, a company built on the principles of integrity, innovation, and inclusivity in the construction industry. With a deep passion for advancing women in construction, she has dedicated her career to breaking barriers and creating pathways for more women to thrive in the trades and business ownership.

As the Board President of NAWIC Las Vegas #74, Dawn plays a pivotal role in supporting and empowering women in the industry, providing mentorship, leadership opportunities, and advocacy for tradeswomen and women-owned construction businesses. She also serves as a NAWIC Regional Tradeswomen Committee Member and a WBEC-West Forum Vice Chair, further amplifying her impact in fostering growth and diversity within the field.

With extensive experience in construction management, operations, and strategic business growth, Dawn has grown RGD Construction into a respected firm known for its quality craftsmanship, client-centered approach, and dedication to workforce development. Her expertise spans commercial and residential projects, project management, and leadership development, making her a sought-after voice in the industry.

Beyond her business and industry leadership, Dawn is deeply committed to community engagement and youth development. She actively partners with nonprofit organizations and workforce development programs to introduce young people—especially girls—to careers in construction and the skilled trades. By investing in the next generation, she is ensuring a more inclusive and sustainable future for the industry. RGD-Construction-logo

A dedicated professional and mother, Dawn understands the challenges of balancing business leadership with family life. Her journey is a testament to the resilience, determination, and vision it takes to not only succeed in construction but to lead with impact.

Through her work at RGD Construction, NAWIC, and in the community, Dawn continues to shape the industry by fostering growth, opportunity, and empowerment, ensuring that the next generation of builders and leaders has the support they need to thrive.

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Intro: Broadcasting live from the Business RadioX Studios, it’s time for Women In Motion. Brought to you by WBEC-West. Join forces. Succeed together. Now, here’s your host.

Lee Kantor: Lee Kantor here, another episode of Women In Motion and this is going to be a good one. But before we get started, it’s important to recognize our sponsor, WBEC-West. Without them, we couldn’t be sharing these important stories. Today on Women In Motion, we have Dawn Barnes, who is the Founder and CEO of RGD Construction. Welcome.

Dawn Barnes: Thank you. It’s so good to be here, Lee.

Lee Kantor: Well, I am so excited to be talking to you. This month, we’re highlighting women in construction, and I’m excited to hear about your story and your journey. So, why don’t we start there? Can you talk about your journey? How did you get into this line of work?

Dawn Barnes: Yeah, absolutely. I actually started pretty young. I grew up just kind of hanging out with my dad in the garage and messing around out there and just wanting to do everything he did. So, it evolved from that, and like woodshop in high school, to starting in the field with my dad after I graduated because I didn’t really want to do that college path at that time.

Lee Kantor: So, what was it like growing up and having a proclivity to enjoy that kind of work and, you know, seeing your dad do it? Was there any pushback from your peer group or were people like, “Oh, that’s Dawn, she’s good at this,” like they were encouraging. What was it like?

Dawn Barnes: Well, it wasn’t initially fun. A lot of my friends that were females thought it was weird and had a lot of choice words to say about, you know, just femininity and things like that. Apparently it wasn’t feminine to want to build things. I didn’t really care. My dad was always encouraging, and my brother. They were just kind of like, you need to learn how to do everything, it doesn’t matter if you’re a boy or a girl. So, I always just took that approach and didn’t let what people – I didn’t let their opinions bother me. And then, it was a struggle in the field as well in, you know, 95 being one of the only females. But all in all, it was a great opportunity.

Lee Kantor: So, it sounds like you had enough support around you that made it at least easier a little bit.

Dawn Barnes: Absolutely. Just with my dad initially and my brother, that was a lot of support going through, like, the field and the trades. It was difficult, I’m not going to lie, like you didn’t even really want to use the porta potty on site with everyone at the time. But it has definitely evolved and I have found, like, other women and people throughout the years that have supported me in addition to my dad and brother.

Lee Kantor: Now, how has the business evolved for you at RGD? Is it the same type of work that your dad was doing or do you do different things now?

Dawn Barnes: We were drywallers by trade, but I actually did qualify to be able to take my general contractor’s test here in the State of Nevada, so I did that. So, we are a general contractor and a subcontractor, so I can be a prime or a sub. So, we still maintain that drywall license and everything. But business is general contractor. It’s very interesting, you know, I did eventually go back to school to get my MBA, and nothing even prepares you, not even an MBA, for bootstrapping a business. So, it’s definitely had its, as I like to call it, glow and grow moments.

Lee Kantor: Now, as you’ve gone through this and kind of earned your way up the ranks, has it been important to you to kind of get other women involved? Has that been part of your journey is to help other women explore this as a possible career?

Dawn Barnes: Absolutely. A few years ago – I’m currently married – I was a single mom raising my daughter, so construction has been an avenue to provide for her without having to struggle as much or, you know, worry about how I’m going to feed her, and pay for childcare, and have benefits. So, I do work really hard and advocate for single moms or women in the trades to get out there. It’s very important for them to know, so I’m constantly out there with NAWIC. I’m also board president for NAWIC, National Association of Women in Construction in Las Vegas. So, we’re constantly handing out scholarships and speaking to women, and just advocating and getting it out there that women can do construction.

Lee Kantor: Is there any misconception you can share with maybe some women who have self-selected out without really understanding what the possibilities could be? Is there some myths you can bust, maybe, and give them some encouragement to at least explore this a little bit?

Dawn Barnes: Absolutely. So, a lot of people are like, “Oh, I’m going to go get dirty,” or “It’s long hours,” or “It’s grueling conditions.” And it’s not. You work 40 hours a week. You can pick from any type. If you want to get dirty, you can go play in the dirt. If you want to just, you know, go do electrical – well, that’s dirty too. But there’s a lot, like there’s a lot of different avenues you can go. It’s not just what you think. People think you’re just going to be out there digging with the shovel, but there’s so many aspects and elements to construction from project management to engineering. There’s so much, so I guess that would be the myth to dispel. It’s not just all dirty work. You get to use your brain as well.

Lee Kantor: And is that something that you find where there’s an opportunity maybe for women, because they think in their head it’s one thing, but with the advent of technology, I would imagine that the technology has to have an impact as well, where it isn’t always I have to be able to lift a gazillion pounds, a lot of machinery does some of the lifting for you, I would think.

Dawn Barnes: Yeah, absolutely. There’s a lot of technology that helps and comes into play. Heck, I even watched a video where they’re doing like the full exoskeletons now to help you lift things and modifying for women. I follow technology. And men, sorry, I don’t want to just disclude. But they’re doing a lot and technology is helping a lot and robots are helping a lot. So, it does, and it’s going to, I think, more in the future help play a bigger role as well.

Lee Kantor: Now you mentioned NAWIC, can you explain what that is and how they’ve kind of played a role in your growth?

Dawn Barnes: Yeah, absolutely. NAWIC is the National Association of Women in Construction. It was created about 73 years ago. I hope I get that right so I don’t make anyone upset at me. Our local chapter is 63 years old. And it is a platform where women come together in construction. We educate, we support, and we grow our networks together. It’s an amazing platform. They have, like I said, scholarship programs, education programs. And here at a local level, we have scholarships as well. We give out scholarships to the trades. We did two for a welding school. And it’s just a great national organization that’s just a sisterhood for women in construction.

Lee Kantor: Now, what’s the employment situation? Is this an area where you need a lot more talent or is it an area where you have as many as you need?

Dawn Barnes: In construction?

Lee Kantor: Yeah.

Dawn Barnes: No, we are definitely in a situation where we have a lack of skilled trade. So, I feel like it is an amazing time for people to get involved. You don’t have to have a background in construction. You just have to have a willingness to learn. There’s union and nonunion trade programs for people to go into. I’m not for either one. I started in the union. My current company is not union. But for me, I believe that there’s so much education and so much room, and so you don’t have to have a lot of background in it. People will train you. We need more people in the field and in the offices helping in construction.

Lee Kantor: Now, is NAWIC doing anything for young people like in terms of high school age? Or is there a path for maybe high school aged kids to get involved, or is it start after high school?

Dawn Barnes: Yeah. Excuse me. I apologize for interrupting. Yes, we do high school programs. There’s a high school camp program for females where they do a week long camp. There are programs in sixth grade. We do a National Lego Building Competition. It’s a construction Lego building competition – that’s my favorite because I’m a giant Lego nerd – that introduces children to fields in construction and design.

Dawn Barnes: And then, the high school program, like I mentioned, does a week long construction program where they bring in women in all different areas and they build during the week and learn. We do post out of college. We have scholarships for college path for engineering and project management and construction management, as well as trade scholarships locally, we do that. So, we do a lot of advocating.

Dawn Barnes: I personally partner with some of our magnet and trade schools out here in Las Vegas, and we just did a huge thing for Women In Construction Week, and we were at the high schools and advocating and bringing engineers and construction workers in for all the female students.

Lee Kantor: Now, why was it important for you to become part of the WBEC-West community, what were you hoping to get out of that and what have you gotten?

Dawn Barnes: WBEC-West was super important to me because not only am I in construction, I’m a small business owner. And like I said, I did go back to school and obtain my MBA. I just didn’t feel like it prepared me enough to bootstrap a business or even be at that CEO level. And I felt much on an island as a female business owner, like no one else to talk to or anything, so I reached out to WBEC-West in hopes of building a community of other fellow women business owners. Because I just love our small business community, and I want to talk more, include more, and be more a part of that small woman business community.

Lee Kantor: Now, at RGD Construction, primarily do you work in residential or do you work in commercial? Like what types of clients do you take on?

Dawn Barnes: We do both residential and commercial. So, for the residential industry, we do bathroom, kitchen remodels, ADUs. We love building man caves or she caves, cool stuff like that. And then, in the commercial side, we do commercial tenant improvements and restaurant build outs and some stadium repairs. We’ve been really fortunate to have a couple of really amazing projects as we first started out in the commercial industry.

Lee Kantor: Is there a project you can share? You don’t have to name the name of the client, but maybe they came to you with a challenge and you were able to make something memorable.

Dawn Barnes: Yeah. Actually, in one of the stadiums here, we were able to help them with some of their needs in a system that had been out in the weather. We were able to help them find solutions in fixing that and being creative, and offering products to them that could help with their seating system to make sure that it withstood the weather out here. We’re pretty creative and inventive in custom projects and sourcing materials that will just bring solutions to people.

Lee Kantor: And I would imagine in Nevada, it has its challenges with the heat that maybe since you’ve been doing this long, you have a specialty that can help people in ways that maybe they didn’t consider.

Dawn Barnes: We just honestly educate about the weather out here, and let people know that with the heat, you know, with paint and different things, there’s additives you can put in to make your paint last longer. It’s just a whole different ballfield out here in Vegas with the heat, honestly. So we do, we do a lot of education about how to help your home residentially, what you can do to prolong the life of some of your products and your weather stripping and stuff in your house. That’s what we kind of specialize in, some of those things, making sure things are green and efficient and lasting as long as they can for our customers.

Lee Kantor: Now, do you have any advice for women entrepreneurs out there, or aspiring women entrepreneurs when they are in a male dominated industry, like you’re in, is there some do’s and don’ts, there’s some tips or advice you can share on how to not only just survive it, but to thrive like you have?

Dawn Barnes: Yeah. Well, I don’t know if I have any do’s or don’ts because I’m sure I’m still making some don’ts here and there on my path. So, I think, to just put yourself out there and go. You know, I didn’t take no for an answer. I always found a solution and a way to make it happen. And, honestly, just go for it and make your own table. You don’t have to wait for a seat. Just build your own.

Lee Kantor: Good advice. Now, if somebody wants to learn more, have a more substantive conversation with you or somebody on the team, what is the website? What’s the best way to connect?

Dawn Barnes: Yeah, absolutely. You can reach out to us through our website at rgdalv.com. You can email me directly at dawn@rgdlv.com, or give us a call at our office at 702-888-3213.

Lee Kantor: Well, Dawn, thank you so much for sharing your story today. You’re doing such important work and we appreciate you. All right. This is Lee Kantor, we’ll see you all next time on Women In Motion.

 

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BRX Pro Tip: Your Number One Job

March 27, 2025 by angishields

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Stone Payton: Welcome back to Business RadioX. Stone Payton, Lee Kantor here with you. Lee, let’s talk about job one. What do you consider to be your number one job?

Lee Kantor: Yeah, I think this advice holds true whether you’re an entrepreneur, a salesperson, any kind of business person, or even a young person who’s has their first job. The number one job you have is to make your boss, and or your client, look good. If you can do that every day in some way, you will have unlocked the secrets of success in business. And this isn’t anything new. This is not earth-shattering news. This has been around forever.

Lee Kantor: Every person who’s ever wrote a book about how to get ahead in business talks about this. But when you help other people achieve their goals, it’s like magic. You have now become indispensable and you’re on your way to having all of your dreams come true. So, learning from others by helping them succeed has been the formula for success since apprentices have become a masters in ancient times. So think like them. Help other people achieve their goals and you’ll see, like magic, all of your dreams will come true.

BRX Pro Tip: Good Leaders Focus on Systems and Processes

March 26, 2025 by angishields

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Stone Payton: Welcome back to Business RadioX Pro Tips. Stone Payton amd Lee Kantor here with you. Lee, under the banner of leadership, don’t you think good leaders focus on improving systems and processes?

Lee Kantor: Yeah. I’m a big believer in systems and processes. And this is where the majority of your energy should be focused in on in any business. I think that by having tighter and tighter systems and processes, that’s going to save you a lot of headaches. It’s going to accelerate your growth and you’re going to be able to create an organization that works well over time and can adapt.

Lee Kantor: I think the organizations where the leader is this hero who comes in at the last minute to save the day is not functional, it is not sustainable, and it’s not scalable. If you regularly have to jump in to fix something or save something, then you might be lacking as a leader. And you definitely are lacking systems that allow this type of activities from happening in the first place.

Lee Kantor: So, I think it’s super important to create systems that help other people become successful. Create a trusting culture that rewards autonomy in taking risks so others can rise up and get those wins. By empowering your team to make things happen, you will have a better chance to create and build this thriving organization.

Lee Kantor: So, focusing on the systems, focusing on the processes, and building a team that trusts each other, that has the autonomy to fail, to take risks, to figure things out, and if things don’t work out, to solve the problem themselves, and then you have an organization that’s thriving and growing.

Coach Kathryn Brooks of She’s Her Own CEO®

March 25, 2025 by angishields

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Kathryn-BrooksKathryn Brooks is a Professional Certified Coach (accredited through the International Coaching Federation (ICF)) and doctoral student with professional experience encompassing corporate leadership, entrepreneurship, and media.

With a positive and energetic coaching style, Kathryn actively partners with her clients to identify their talents to realize their full professional potential. Her coaching includes the development of leaders at the executive and managerial levels within the Fortune 500, professionals looking to make value-driven career transitions, current and aspiring entrepreneurs, and high-potentials.

Kathryn uses a flexible range of approaches from idealistic to pragmatic as well as assessments and psychometric tools to support a self-reflective coaching space for her clients.

Kathryn holds an MBA in Finance and has deep experience in corporate finance, brand management, and marketing operations supporting Fortune 100 brands. She was designated high-potential early in her career and has held leadership roles of increasing responsibility in finance and marketing operations at The Coca-Cola Company.

She has held full P&L responsibility and has managed teams supporting strategic brands and business partners. Often relied upon as a subject matter expert, she is also a noted people leader reflecting strong visionary and coaching styles.

She is currently a doctoral student pursuing a DBA in Strategic Management.

Connect with Kathryn on LinkedIn and follow She’s Her Own CEO® on LinkedIn, Facebook and Instagram.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

  • Why you should hire an ICF-credentialed coach as a corporate or entrepreneurial business leader
  • Some of the quantitative and qualitative benefits of working with an executive coach
  • How coaching benefits both the individual as well as the organization, and how these benefits intersect
  • What new coaching clients can do to prepare and feel comfortable going into their first coaching session

Transcript-iconThis transcript is machine transcribed by Sonix.

 

TRANSCRIPT

Intro: Broadcasting live from the Business RadioX studios in Atlanta, Georgia. It’s time for High Velocity Radio.

Stone Payton: Welcome to the High Velocity Radio show, where we celebrate top performers producing better results in less time. Stone Payton here with you this afternoon. This is going to be a good one, folks. Please join me in welcoming to the broadcast Executive and Business coach and CEO of She’s Her Own CEO, Kathryn Brooks. How are you?

Kathryn Brooks: Doing well. Stone, thank you for having me in studio today.

Stone Payton: Oh, it is such a pleasure to have you in studio.

Stone Payton: You know, a lot of these interviews for this series have been from people all over the country, which I enjoy, but it’s just not the same. So thanks for coming down.

Kathryn Brooks: Thanks for having me. Beautiful. Woodstock, Georgia.

Stone Payton: So I got a ton of questions, but let’s start, if we could, with just sort of an overview for me and my listeners. Mission. Purpose. What are you really out there trying to do for folks? Kathryn.

Kathryn Brooks: Thanks for that. Stone. Yeah. Um, I’m an executive and business coach. I enjoy and feel very passionate about helping business people, helping entrepreneurs, helping C-suite executives achieve their highest potential. And you mentioned my business is called she’s her own CEO. And we are all CEOs. We first have to lead ourselves before we can lead others. And truly, that’s what I try to help reveal through coaching.

Stone Payton: So tell us a little bit about the journey. How did you get here? You didn’t start out coaching when you got out of school, right? Well, and you’re not out of school, which we’ll talk about more later.

Kathryn Brooks: Great. Great point. Um, and as you’ve probably encountered by now or have realized, most coaches have had some sort of prior career. They have some sort of field of expertise and maybe encounter coaching as a second career, maybe, you know, down the road. So I started as a corporate finance manager. I worked at Coca-Cola company here. Oh, I’ve heard of that. Yeah. You heard of them big Red? Um, gained lots of experience. Got my MBA pretty quickly out of my undergraduate. Um, so Rose rose up through the corporate experience in that way. Very grateful for that opportunity. Um, and along the way, just really realized I loved managing people. I loved seeing people grow and develop and prosper, no matter what level he or she was at at the time and even currently today. So, um, that became a passion for me. And then along the way on the side, I had developed an e-commerce business trademarked. She’s her own CEO and she’s her own CEO. Kind of took on a life of its own. And so meshing the coaching aspect, the professional development aspect with this trademark, I had, you know, trademarked along the way through my e-commerce platform just made the perfect segue. And here we are today.

Stone Payton: So let’s dive into the work a little bit. I’m operating under the impression that you work primarily with females. Yes.

Kathryn Brooks: That’s a great point, but not exactly true.

Stone Payton: Oh, okay.

Kathryn Brooks: Not exactly true. Most of my clientele is male.

Stone Payton: Oh, really?

Kathryn Brooks: Yes.

Stone Payton: Interesting. Okay.

Kathryn Brooks: Um, was never an intention for it to be, you know, a female, primarily female clientele based business. And again, most of my clients are male. I always, um, started with the proposition that, you know, the women in our lives, whether they’re our mothers, our grandmothers, or, you know, for for men, you know, their wives or sisters? Mhm. Um, they are the hub of the wheel. They’re the foundation of the family generally.

Stone Payton: Yeah.

Kathryn Brooks: And that’s kind of my mother and my grandmother were very, are very, very important to me and served as a firm foundation for who I am today. And so she’s her own CEO not only applies to my female clients. Um, but I think also males look at it as, you know, the women in my life are her own CEO, too, so.

Stone Payton: Yeah, well, certainly the case for me. You know, my mother is a very strong woman and has an incredible impact on all those around her. My wife as well. She she recently hung up her cleats, but she was, you know, just had a stellar career, uh, with much of it with IBM, another name some people have heard probably before. And. Yeah. So I’ve had a lot of strong women in my life as well. So talk about the work that you’re doing with men and women. What does that look like? Is it one on one coaching? Is it groups? What’s the mechanism?

Kathryn Brooks: So? So it’s both. It’s both. I primarily engage with my clients on a one on one basis. I do lead something called mastermind groups, which are basically curated groups that, you know, engage together. We learn from each other as a coach, any any coach that promises great and grand results. Um, to sell you a life of peaches and cream. Harmony. Um, may or may not be the best coach for you. Coaching is intended so. So we can go on that point a little bit. Um, certified coaches through the International Coaching Federation are held to very high standards. And one of those standards is, of course, ethically based, um, discussion and support of clients. Um, the client is always the best expert. It’s the coach’s job to help reveal, explore, discover, brainstorm creatively. Um, co-create results with the client.

Stone Payton: So what was that like? Because you you did invest the time and the energy, the resources to participate in that credentialing process. And I’m operating under the impression that it wasn’t necessarily just easy. It wasn’t all rainbows and butterflies. It was a lot of work, wasn’t it?

Kathryn Brooks: It is. It’s a lot of work really, really is. And coaches that are accredited through the International Coaching Federation, which is considered to be the gold standard of credentialing for coaches around the world. There’s about 55,000 of us across the globe, which not very many. Well, in relative terms. Right? Right. Global population. Um, but the standards, the rigor, um, the the the practical application that the the written test that’s required. Um, the the knowledge base of the core competencies, the ethics. Um, it’s it’s time consuming, but it’s it’s a very rewarding investment.

Stone Payton: All right. So let’s talk more about what it’s like. And we can use me as a potential use case. Or maybe, you know you can pick a use case. Of course I don’t want to mention any names. That probably falls under that ethics thing. You got it. But let’s just not good mojo. But yeah, give us an idea of what to expect in a coaching arrangement, or at least in one with you.

Kathryn Brooks: Wonderful, wonderful. So, so corporate executive. Um, you know, it’s often thought that, wow, getting to the C-suite, that person has has it all has got everything put together home life, work life. You know, that person’s achieved the highest in corporate success. Not often. Always the case. Um, personally, you know, alignment of values and and work life balance. Um, a lot of executives come to coaching, you know, finding that their motivation is there, but something’s missing. Um, maybe maybe they’ve lost their values along the way or. Or maybe they’ve gone through a merger and acquisition and the new culture of the new team that’s being blended and, um, conferred upon them. And, and, you know, that CEO or that C-suite executive is suddenly tasked with not only delivering operational results, but driving culture, you know, creating harmony among a team, um, taking, taking maybe two subsidiaries that have very, very different work styles and cultures and bringing them together, um, to produce a, a new high performing team. So just just some examples.

Stone Payton: Yeah.

Kathryn Brooks: Sky’s the limit.

Stone Payton: Well, it sounds like marvelous work. It also sounds like it could it would feel to me a little bit intimidating because you’re trying to help someone who has achieved a great deal. But then I guess it occurs to me you don’t necessarily have to have you personally don’t have to have all the answers. You just got to help that person get to the answers, right?

Kathryn Brooks: That is so true. Okay, Stone’s such a great point. Um, and that is one of the tenets of, of, uh, ICF credentialing, is that. Yeah. The coach doesn’t have all the answers. It’s not a it’s not another modality such as therapy where we’re looking to the past or that therapist is looking to the past. It’s not a medical modality. It’s not necessarily consulting. Um, sometimes in corporate America, the term coaching gets thrown around and it becomes a catchall, like in everything but the kitchen sink. You’ll hear sometimes middle managers being told, oh, gosh, you got to go coach your employee. Well, what that what they’re really being told is, well, that employee may need some performance management. That employee may need some mentorship or some sponsorship or some, um, you know, delegation realignment something, but it’s not coaching. So what we’re talking about with regard to coaching, uh, coach is really there to collaborate with the client. And to your point, um, not necessarily half has to have the the specific resume based experience in direct alignment with that executive. But I will say that most clients hire a coach is a total person.

Stone Payton: Yeah. So so I’m thinking if I’m in a high profile position, I’m responsible to and for a lot of lives in what I’m doing, the level of trust that I would have to you must have to endure in me. I have to trust you incredibly. And I guess maybe you’ll help me. But you got to help me trust myself to do the really do the work and not keep keep everything in the box, right?

Kathryn Brooks: So true. And so we were we were chatting a little bit before the show today, the rapport and the level of skill that you have in building rapport with your guests and your clients. Uh, maybe somewhat similar to coaching. You want that client to feel not only tell them the standards of confidentiality that you’re going to maintain. Yeah, but I also want to just a personal level. You want that client to trust you to, to know that he or she can share and be open and to bring, you know, their hopes and their dreams and their problems and everything to the table.

Stone Payton: So when you made the transition because you were a high achiever in, in a, you know, very successful operation, making that transition to the, the, the business of being a coach, was that a little bit daunting? What was that like?

Kathryn Brooks: For me, it wasn’t that big of a decision. It was the right next step for me. Um, and I believe in credentialing. I’m a firm believer, believer in education, much like the background. You come from stone. Yeah, yeah. So it was the right thing. Um, I do see on social media, uh, a lot of people purporting to be coaches.

Kathryn Brooks: And, um, you know, oftentimes they’re From making big promises, big dreams, big, big results for for a high price tag. And there can be some, you know, people that become susceptible to that because it looks fun. It looks sexy, it looks like results oriented, which isn’t that what we all want? We want results.

Stone Payton: Absolutely. And would love to just write a check for it. Right?

Speaker5: Got it. It’s not that easy.

Kathryn Brooks: It’s not that easy. As any entrepreneur knows, it takes ten years to be an overnight success.

Stone Payton: Absolutely. At least. That is the truth.

Stone Payton: So, uh, early on, was it like, was it difficult getting clients or just running the business side of, of the business that you’re now in?

Kathryn Brooks: You know, um, for me, you know, coming coming from the business kind of corporate background, uh, you know, I was blessed with a with a strong network.

Stone Payton: Yeah.

Kathryn Brooks: And, you know, a lot of a lot of strong connections and, you know, a resume, so to speak.

Stone Payton: Right. Right.

Kathryn Brooks: Of topics. So having a finance background, having marketing operations background. You know, clients would seek that out. So so for any other coach that’s out there that has a specialty or maybe has a certain life experience, I mean, there are coaches from every specialty, you know, some specialize in family affairs or children’s upbringing. I’ve seen some pursuing kind of that neurodiversity topic lately. Um, you know, so so I would say, you know, make sure that you have as a coach, a firm foundation, a firm background, a firm resume. People can’t just go to coaching school and then call themselves a coach and expect to be hired. Clients ultimately want, you know, again, this is not a consulting relationship, but clients ultimately want to be heard. Isn’t that what we all want?

Stone Payton: Yes.

Kathryn Brooks: We want to be heard. We want to be understood. We want to know that we’re speaking the same language literally and figuratively.

Stone Payton: Right. So how would you characterize or articulate some of the key benefits someone can and should expect from engaging a coach?

Kathryn Brooks: Yeah, that’s a great one. Um, and there’s a lot of documented research in this area and more to come. Uh, but there’s a there’s a generally published statistic that, uh, the coaching relationship, whether it’s at the executive level or any kind of, you know, within a business of any size. Um, it can generate ROI of over 600%.

Stone Payton: Oh, my.

Kathryn Brooks: And this has been documented and proven over and over again. It’s in the literature. It’s in the academic literature. Um, more to come on this. I think there’s a lot of, um, runway ahead for, for this type of research and really understanding because, you know, with any kind of human based or organizational based modality, um, it’s hard to quantify results sometimes, you know, unless it’s something like, well, you know, I’m, I’m hiring this coach for my employee such that he can better manage his team and drive operational results of fill in the blank. Those things are easier to quantify. It’s like, okay, you went through the coaching. Did this happen? But for things that are more intangible, like building a team culture or, um, employee engagement or, um, learning to hire the right people, you know, how do you how do you measure that? It’s a little more difficult. It can be done. It can be done academically. But there’s a lot of runway ahead in this in this academic area.

Stone Payton: So at this point, what are you finding the most rewarding? What’s the most fun about it these days for you?

Kathryn Brooks: Yeah, I like results. I’m going to be honest. Um, I having clients that are they come to the relationship, the coaching situation. The coaching relationship. As excited as I am. Um, you know, they’re willing to share. You know, we’re there to learn from the client as well. It’s a given. It’s a take.

Stone Payton: Right.

Kathryn Brooks: And you know we creatively co collaborate and just drive big results. So so yeah I mean obviously there’s a lot going on in the in the business conversation right now from you know efficiency conversations and realignments of workforces and mergers and acquisitions and, you know, international affairs and various things like that. So I mean, all of those topics come up in coaching. And so I think as a coach, it’s it’s really exciting to know and to and to to think about getting up in the morning and know that your day is never going to look the same day to day. You’re going to have different topics, different areas to explore. It’s exciting. It’s never a dull moment.

Stone Payton: Well, I’m learning that coaches, as a rule, are seem to be life learners. But but you’ve taken this to the nth degree. Uh, you’re already so well credentialed and educated, but you’re pursuing your doctorate. Speak to that a little bit.

Kathryn Brooks: I am, thank you. I really appreciate this topic. This is this has been on my bucket list for a while, and, uh, year or two ago, I just decided to do it, and I had I had a push from my coach, I’ll say a push, but, um, you know, I coached myself in a lot of ways through this to, to join this, um, I’m studying my doctor of business administration.

Stone Payton: Oh, my.

Kathryn Brooks: Strategic management. So it’s an applied doctoral degree. I’ve got about a year and a half left on it, so I’ve got I got some runway ahead of me, but, um.

Stone Payton: Will you write a dissertation as part of that? And do we, do you already know what that is or you know, you haven’t.

Kathryn Brooks: I have some areas of focus. Um, I very much enjoy the topic of mergers and acquisitions and that that’s where I’m leaning again, too early to commit. There’s a whole process, you know.

Stone Payton: Well, I do know. And for the listeners out there, look, I, you know, I went to school for 13 years and three summers. That’s not quite true. I really did go to college. However, I’m not anywhere near having a doctorate, but my folks both have terminal degrees, and so that’s where I. That’s how I know the word dissertation. And that’s where the knowledge begins and and ends. But but you’ll choose and with some help and get it approved with your. Yeah. That is cool. So, uh, I’m going to ask why, although I think I already know part of the why, but tell us more about why you’re doing that. Man, it’s a lot of work.

Kathryn Brooks: It’s, you know, a lot of it’s self-fulfillment, you know, just the need. Like you said, uh, coaches, we have a thirst for knowledge. We’re lifelong learners, and that’s that’s expected. You know, that that’s part of the job description in a lot of ways. Um, but, you know, doesn’t mean you have to do that, you know? But for me, I it’s always been on my list of things to do and time to do it. Um, but I also feel like, um, you know, it helps me bring a different dimension, a more expansive dimension to my coaching, uh, work And specifically with strategic management and my clientele that that I serve. Um, you know, again, looking for results. They’re looking for a strategic mindset that involves goal setting, planning, measurement, um, monitoring strategy, you know, kind of thinking about, um, things from the, the generally accepted business disciplines such as, you know, operations, R&D. But how do those things fit together? How can we build greater synergies? Um, how do they overlap? Um, you know, where are the gaps? Where are the voids? A gap is something you can fill in and grow into and explore and develop. A void is something maybe that’s that’s a no go, you know, no go situation.

Stone Payton: So so you dropped a phrase a few moments ago, kind of you hit it and you went on, uh, but but it caught my eye. I wrote it down. You said my coach. So you have your coach and you have a code.

Kathryn Brooks: Love that yeah, that’s a great point. So? So, um, International Coaching Federation certified or accredited coaches are required as part of their credentialing process to go through a mentoring process one on one with a more senior coach. So there are three accreditations. So there’s the ACC, the PCC and the MCC. So you would have to engage with a coach, um, at a level above you. Um, and that’s that’s part of the credentialing process. So uh, and then on an ongoing basis, coaches should be coached by other coaches. It allows for reflection.

Kathryn Brooks: Um, you can absolutely observe other skill sets in, in their powerful questioning and active listening kind of watch them, how they do their work with you.

Stone Payton: Right, right. The layers of value in that are just it really is multiple, isn’t it?

Kathryn Brooks: It sure is. It sure is. I mean, you can derive so much, but but it is it is a requirement for that initial credentialing. But beyond that, coaches should engage with a coach. Yes.

Stone Payton: Well, and I’m sure you will if maybe you already are. But we’ll get tremendous value from you being in that role of mentoring other coaches at some point.

Kathryn Brooks: Maybe. We’ll see. We’ll see. Not my primary business right now, but yeah, you never know.

Stone Payton: So that is your primary business. And you very much believe in the whole person, uh, passions outside of the work. What do you do when you’re not coaching?

Kathryn Brooks: Oh, gosh.

Stone Payton: That you really enjoy.

Kathryn Brooks: Writing papers. Um, I’m doing a lot of reading.

Stone Payton: You don’t have a lot of free time. Do you?

Kathryn Brooks: No, I don’t.

Stone Payton: Not now.

Kathryn Brooks: Not too much. Not right now. Um. I love the beach. I love, you know, anytime I can get to the beach, I’m there. Um, yeah. Not not too much free time right now. I’m really engaged with my work and studying pretty much right now.

Stone Payton: That is fantastic. So I’m going to switch gears on you, uh, here just a little bit, and I’d love to. Before we wrap, if we could, to leave our listeners with a pro tip or two. And I want to work. I really don’t want to reduce your work to a cosmopolitan article, but I still wonder if there aren’t just a couple little nuggets that we could share with them for, uh, for producing better results in less time. And maybe it is related to being a better coach in the environment they find themselves if they find themselves ever wearing that hat at all internally. Or maybe it’s, uh, you know, around engaging a coach, but let’s and look guys, the the the best tip I can give you if any of this is striking a chord for you, reach out and have a conversation with Kathryn. But, uh, but between now and then, let’s let’s give them a little something to noodle on.

Kathryn Brooks: I love this question, Stone. Thank you. And it’s really a partnership. It truly, truly is. Um, so so pro tip probably put some some bullet points in the pro tip. First of all, don’t be nervous going into a coaching session. I know that’s hard to say, especially for for people that are high performers. Those of us that like to have pre meetings before we have the actual meeting.

Kathryn Brooks: Those of us that almost shy away from having a meeting if we feel like we’re not prepared. I would discourage that. Um, your coach is inherently trained to listen to, to really engage with you, to be there for you to really immerse him or herself in, in you and the topics you want to bring to the table. I, I always say the client’s in the driver’s seat and the coach is in the passenger seat holding the map. Um, so so don’t be nervous. First of all. Um, you know, put some thought into it. Obviously. Think about what you want to get your coach. Um, opening question first. 5 or 10 minutes. He or she is probably going to ask, you know, what’s top of mind for you today? What’s on your mind? What brings you here today? What brings you to coaching? Why did you enjoy or why did you decide to engage with a coach? Um, maybe thinking through that, you know, taking some time. Um, there’s no right or wrong answer. Bring it to the table. And then third, I’d say, um, you know, be open. Be open with your coach. Um, the coach is not there to ask questions in kind of a ping pong or I’ll say, pickleball match these days.

Kathryn Brooks: Um, the coach is asking questions from a genuine, a genuine sense of curiosity, but it’s not from a sense of, um, nosiness or, um, trying to, you know, just get information out of you. It’s for the, the, the underpinning of the conversation. So, so, Stone, if I were to ask you, you know, what? What does that really mean to you? What what is this studio mean to you? Yeah, I’m curious, but I’m but I’m curious in the way that it supports our conversation. I’m curious in the way that I’m learning something. As your coach, I’m learning about your value system. I’m learning about how you want to serve the business community and that that supports the conversation and it moves the coaching forward. So being open with your coach, bring your values, bring your hopes, your dreams. If you had a bad meeting with someone that day, bring that to the table too.

Kathryn Brooks: Because those examples, those, you know, if you’re someone that likes to to workshop ideas, you know, sometimes you have a high level thought like, this thing has really been bothering me, you know? But if you delve into like, well, for example, you know, I had this meeting with this person today and this is how the interaction took place. You can really dig into that with your coach to to workshop it and to to break it down and to look at motivations and drivers and traits and maybe work styles and maybe how you can make it better.

Stone Payton: Yeah, man.

Stone Payton: Such great counsel. All of it. I like the mental imagery of me holding the map.

Kathryn Brooks: I’m in the driver’s. I mean, I’m in the passenger seat.

Stone Payton: That’s kind of cool. I like that. But one thing that really struck me, and it strikes me as a good skill discipline to have in any productive communication. Your words were, uh, were formed as a question, like asking what’s top of mind? But it suggests to me, you got to meet people where they are. And if you’re trying to have a productive conversation with them about expanding the community partner program or stuff I’ve got going on, the first thing you ought to do is find out what’s going on with them, because they could have something so close to them, they can’t even see past that. To even begin to have a real fruitful conversation about another topic. Right?

Kathryn Brooks: This is true. Oh gosh, that’s the beauty of coaching too, is, you know, we all know that we have certain things worked out in our head. We know what we have to do. Today. You were sharing stone your events of the afternoon coming up. You know what you have to do. You know who you need to talk to, and you know who you need to align with to accomplish what you want to accomplish today, but sometimes saying it out loud to your coach, you may find, wow, I left out a step. Or really, is that really what that person meant when they called me this morning and they were asking to postpone the meeting, you know, so so just saying things out loud.

Kathryn Brooks: Sometimes can bring a whole different awareness.

Stone Payton: So I wonder if the answer to this question, the first three words are going to be after my dissertation. But I’m going to ask you about what’s next. Is it is there a book in you beyond the dissertation? Is there continuing to scale different pieces of your business? What’s on the horizon?

Kathryn Brooks: There’s definitely a book.

Kathryn Brooks: There’s definitely a book in there. Um, I had a not anywhere near a successful I had a small interview series I ran a few years ago. I’d love to get that started back up again. Um, you know, possibly teaching. I’m not. I’m not sure I want to. I’m not sure I want to be a professor. I don’t know, I probably will do some of that, but I think scaling the coaching practice.

Stone Payton: Right.

Kathryn Brooks: Um, I enjoy very much doing the mastermind and the group coaching. Um, so much. I mean, you talk about efficiency and producing better results in less time. Join a group coaching platform. You know, um, there are so many. And, um, you know, you’re one on one coach can probably help with that as well. But, you know, not only getting that experience of working with a coach, but being in that environment of being in a group of your peers and whether it’s a curated group or not, you know, it doesn’t really matter. You’re going to learn something, you’re going to expand your network. Um, you’re going to hear from people from different industries.

Stone Payton: No, that’s great advice. And I suspect you learn a ton from other people, even if they’re, you know, like, I’m the number two man in a pretty successful media company. But to speak to the number five man in a surfboard company, I could probably learn a ton if that person is in the mastermind because, you know, they’re looking at things through different lenses, but yet there’s there’s some, uh, common aspects, you know, that we’re all dealing with some of the same things. I bet that would be incredibly powerful.

Stone Payton: Absolutely.

Kathryn Brooks: And that’s how the ICF defines group coaching. It’s really about, um, you know, different people from different backgrounds with a shared goal. And that shared goal could be success. You know, it could be. It could be just the word success. And success means something different to each of us. You know, um, sometimes we’ll see people that are teetering on retirement or what we would call creative retirement.

Kathryn Brooks: You know, could kind of stay in the workforce, the 9 to 5 arena, but also could go full time retirement. You know, the boat, the the volunteer work, the grandkids, the whole thing.

Stone Payton: Right.

Kathryn Brooks: Having someone like that in a group coaching environment is so powerful because that person brings, you know, not only the corporate experience or the business experience, but kind of the life experience. And maybe that person doesn’t feel as pressured to get that next job. So they’re in a more comfortable space to be able to give feedback.

Stone Payton: Yeah.

Stone Payton: All right. What’s the best way for our listeners to tap into your work? Stay connected and continue learning. Maybe have that conversation with you. Whatever’s appropriate website, LinkedIn, whatever you want.

Kathryn Brooks: Yeah, definitely. On LinkedIn, I’m Kathryn Brooks, MBA. On LinkedIn, my website. She’s her own ceo.com, just like it sounds. Don’t try to put the apostrophe in there. She’s her own CEO. Com. Um, my booking calendar is is a calendly link.

Stone Payton: Oh, nice.

Kathryn Brooks: Calendly.com forward slash. She’s her own CEO.

Stone Payton: Fantastic. It has been so much fun. So informative. Your enthusiasm, your perspective. And when I ask a simple question about a little bit of advice, we get just I mean, just pearls of wisdom coming from you. It’s such an information packed and, uh, thought packed exchange with you, and you do it with such energy and enthusiasm. Thank you so much for coming to join us today.

Kathryn Brooks: Thanks for having me, Stone. It’s been a pleasure and so wonderful that you’re taking this coaching topic under your wing and really showcasing to your audience how to produce better results in less time.

Stone Payton: Well, the pleasure is all mine. All right, until next time. This is Stone Payton for our guest today, Kathryn Brooks of. She’s her own CEO and everyone here at the Business RadioX family saying, we’ll see you in the fast lane.

 

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